Hotwife couple at hotel takeover

[Fitcouple1997 9]

Hi all! We are a hotwife couple. We participate primarily in mfm situations with both men playing with me (wifey) or my husband watching. That's our jam. The swinger community is very vibrant in our area with several clubs. There are also well established groups that host hotel takeovers every weekend. One in particular is very popular and well run...and seems to attract lots of amazing looking people. We have been invited several times but have never gone. Mainly because it is couples and single females only. The cost per couple is $100 which is fine, but my fear would be that we would be the odd couple out. Virtually all of the couples attending this weekend list that they are full swap with bi-females (classic swinger profile.) When the organizer invited us, I mentioned my concern and their response was that I was looking at it wrong. That if there's 50 couples at the party, that's 50 men for me to potential play with. Have any of you experienced this? How much pressure will there be for my husband to play with the female? Or the female to play with me? Obviously we won't go there. But I don't want to sit and watch from the sidelines all night either. Thoughts? TIA!

[NerdsAreFun 229]

A couple where only the wife wants to play with others is essentially viewed the same as the highly desirable unicorn.

[Fitcouple1997 9]

2 hours ago, NerdsAreFun said:

A couple where only the wife wants to play with others is essentially viewed the same as the highly desirable unicorn.

Even if I'm no bi? And so therefore don't play with females?

[Lips & Tongues 185]

Hey. We are in the same situation. I'm not bi and we only enjoy MFM. So, our solution is simple: no parties. Only private nights, that we organize ourselves, with a "happy winner" each time

[Fitcouple1997 9]

48 minutes ago, Lips & Tongues said:

Hey. We are in the same situation. I'm not bi and we only enjoy MFM. So, our solution is simple: no parties. Only private nights, that we organize ourselves, with a "happy winner" each time

That's what we've been doing up until this point. And it's always turned out well because we are super selective. They say that single males are a dime a dozen. If you are looking for a quality guy, I disagree. lol

[lcmim 1,086]

You guys could be the enablers of many a FMF at a party.

[njbm 2,901]

You could go to a hotel party with low expectations and have a fun, party time. Most hotel parties we went to were glorified pajama parties. The women strutted around in negligees, the men over drank and conked out and nothing happened. 
 

You may be surprised and meet another couple where the husband wants to play and the other wife wants to watch. 

[NerdsAreFun 229]

On 1/12/2022 at 4:27 PM, Fitcouple1997 said:

Even if I'm no bi? And so therefore don't play with females?

Absolutely.  Not like the woman of the couple would have a problem finding another suitor at a party if she didn't just want to watch or have a straight threesome.