Melb_Aust_Cpl 23 Posted January 16, 2022 So this weekend was our first* time swinging. *not actually our first as we’ve had a couple of other encounters but this was our first organised time at a club. I was nervous, worried, obviously excited, but all the fears were wiped away within the first half an hour. I found my people ! I honestly feel that way. They are so honest, so genuine, so welcoming. I mean I love my friends and family but there’s just no way I could be open to them about swinging, or even just sex for hat matter. Just the ease and honesty of conversation was so refreshing, one conversation was about anal sex, I’m a big fan, we talked, we laughed, we shared stories, no judgment, to jealousy, it was simply incredible. If I dared raise anal sex with my friends and think they’d giggle and shut the conversation down. I love the openness with these people. See, I love this lifestyle, these people, and I haven’t even mentioned the sex yet because everything else was just, well it was just perfect. And yes we did hook up with someone and yes it was great, and yes we met them privately again the next day, and yes that was even better. But this whole weekend was about more than just the sex, it was about the people, it was about how my husband and I, after I had doubts, connected on such an incredible level. I’d love one day to write a detailed diary entry about this weekend as it’s something I’ll never forget or regret. It’s the start of a new chapter, the start of a chapter where we can be who we are and not have to temper that to pander to friends. I still love my friends and I guess at the end of the day we’ll have to tone things down around them but my new friends, all of them, have given us such a gift by allowing us be us essentially. I can’t wait until next time. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post
Idahocouple6969 294 Posted January 17, 2022 Agree! We too, would much rather hang out with our swinger friends than our vanilla friends. Glad your week was good. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
TeamCalgary 168 Posted January 17, 2022 The LS allows us to be brutally frank with fellow swingers; that is the nature of this pursuit. The more forthcoming you will be, the more rewarding your experiences will be. Unlike the vanilla world, openness is viewed as a strength, not a liability. Enjoy the journey; make it what you want it to be. Quote Share this post Link to post
