Stop asking if we prefer Big Dicks

[Aphroditee 323]

Gentlemen!  Please stop asking us if we prefer guys with big dicks.  If we have spent the night flirting with YOU, decided to go home with YOU, and are getting frisky with YOU, the dick size is not gonna change our mind about what we are gonna do or whether or not we are gonna fuck YOU!  We already decided we were gonna do it when we got in the car.  I like nice guys that are adventurous, respectful, flirty and fun!  If you checked the boxes and seduced my mind I am gonna have sex with you and I am gonna enjoy it even if I gotta take care of my own orgasm.  Sex for us is emotional.  Nothing brings down the mood more than an uncomfortable conversation about whether your dick is big enough.  I do not want to hurt your feelings so do not ask it.  Cause if I had two nice guys that I was attracted to and one is packing and the other isn't, I'm choosing the package!  But we never have that quandary.  We meet a guy, we like him, we flirt with him, we seduce him, we fuck him.  We made that decision without having any idea what you're packing.  Your penis is fine, quit freaking out.  

 

I'll make you a deal, if you stop asking if your dick is big enough, I'll stop asking if this dress makes me look fat.  Ok?  Do we have a deal?

[Iamthebull 2]

Couldn't agree more, thank you for sharing about it. 

[Aphroditee 323]

Also keep in mind some of us also like women, and they don't have any dicks, just tongues, fingers and toes.  And we get off just fine with them.  

[Iamthebull 2]

1 hour ago, Aphroditee said:

Also keep in mind some of us also like women, and they don't have any dicks, just tongues, fingers and toes.  And we get off just fine with them.  

I agree, it's the mutual understanding afterall.

[enhancer 1,585]

So true!  Nothing turns off the missus more then dudes obsessed with their own penis.  Searching online for other guys is near impossible, because it is just a sea of useless cock pics.

[lovefest04 700]

4 hours ago, Aphroditee said:

Cause if I had two nice guys that I was attracted to and one is packing and the other isn't, I'm choosing the package!

So, women do prefer big dicks. 😜

 

I mean IF you had a choice.

[Aphroditee 323]

20 minutes ago, lovefest04 said:

So, women do prefer big dicks. 😜

 

I mean IF you had a choice.

We prefer the right guy.  

[cplnluv1 872]

It has been said many times, men obsess on dick size, women care about many more things. 
When we first looked for someone to meet we both noticed the how nice she looked and the size he had. It wasn’t a factor just a fact. 

[lovefest04 700]

We live in a world of comparisons.

 

Who's got a bigger house, more money, lots of friends, awards, degrees, art, etc etc.

 

When it comes to our bodies we (both men and women) are guilty of the same. Men their penis, women their breasts, their asses. We are conditioned after years of being kids, watching movies, seeing ads etc to do so.

 

16 hours ago, Aphroditee said:

We prefer the right guy.

This is spot on. As a man I prefer the right women. The body is just the vessel we can interact with. The love, attraction, appeal is inside.

[ROCKlandCpl 452]

Rocky gave more attention to the size of men, I noticed other differences. I told him he has the best looking penis. Does that make you feel better?

In my life I never asked a man how big he is before deciding to have sex with him. I also never used a man’s size to determine if I would continue seeing him. 
For the benefit of his ego I did remind him that I married him. 

[Aphroditee 323]

5 minutes ago, ROCKlandCpl said:

In my life I never asked a man how big he is before deciding to have sex with him. I also never used a man’s size to determine if I would continue seeing him. 

This is exactly my point.  I've also never known how big he was until I made my choice to sleep with him.  

[ROCKlandCpl 452]

11 minutes ago, Aphroditee said:

This is exactly my point.  I've also never known how big he was until I made my choice to sleep with him.  

I know I read this on here, part of the fun is seeing a partner that first time. I can’t say I was ever taken back by someone being cute sized 

[Aphroditee 323]

4 minutes ago, ROCKlandCpl said:

cute sized 

OMG, cute sized!  That is adorable, I'm totally using that in the future!  🤣😂

[TricianMike 772]

18 hours ago, Aphroditee said:

OMG, cute sized!  That is adorable, I'm totally using that in the future!  🤣😂

Cute dicks are a thing not for size just looks. I talk to a penis as if it’s a person. I look at the head as a face, some faces have smiles. Men don’t like when I say cute at first then get into it, especially if the nose is running and I lick it away. 

[bbarnsworth 2,640]

On 4/4/2022 at 1:00 PM, Aphroditee said:

 I'll stop asking if this dress makes me look fat.

"I don't know. It's hard to tell, what with it being on the floor..."

 

More to the point; it can be hard for men and women alike getting together with a new partner. Even today, I'll worry about whether I can be good enough, do the right things, etc. I don't worry if I'm big enough or not; I know better. But, I can readily understand worrying about it. For us, perhaps we add in a bit of stress in that we like playing with people repeatedly if they're good enough. So too, we want to be the best we can be. 

[NoAngels 334]

After reading the topic I had to ask the wife. Her answer was one I have a hard time deciphering, “I married you”

Seriously I don’t always know why she chooses the men she does. She meets men on an affairs page with profiles and pictures. If a man posts pictures of his equipment it is hard to unsee, it has to register positively and negatively. She said if a profile is bragging it goes to a more important aspect and shows he is full of himself. She says she dismisses those profiles without further thought. 
She has a big dick at home, it vibrates and recharges. I happen to know it is 10 inches and she claims it’s the biggest dick she ever played with. Being funny she told me she looks for big tongues and prefers that. Now I’m standing in front of a mirror checking out me tongue. 
Does anyone know how to measure a tongue and if you measure on the top back to the uvula or under the tongue? 

[Aphroditee 323]

On 4/7/2022 at 3:22 PM, NoAngels said:

Seriously I don’t always know why she chooses the men she does. She meets men on an affairs page with profiles and pictures.

I also meet men on a couple apps, mainly Tinder and Bumble, but also an affair app.  It is about chemistry for me, and that is the same for most women I know.  Sure looks play a part, but I also dismiss the braggarts and the pompous ass types.  Honestly dick size doesn't even factor in until I yank his pants off.  Now of its big I say Yeah! Cause it's fun to have a big dick, but if it's average or small I have NEVER said WTF and left. I suck him hard and blow his mind in the process, and then I fuck his brains out.  My oral tricks with a average to small dick are impressive, and pleasing a man is super fun for me.  I love hearing I was amazing, I literally eat that shit up.  It's my Crack.  So stop stressing dude.  Your dick is great.  

[Shore2Please 612]

Every time I read a post about big dicks I know it is written by a man. Men have no control of the size of their dicks, just like they don’t have control of any physical attributes they have. Genes have control of the size of their nose, feet, hands and their height, they can’t do anything to change what nature has given them. Genetics control so much of our physicality, what it has much less control of is personality. What women hasn’t looked in the mirror wishing they looked different, breasts, nose, eyes, hips and even genitalia. I’m sure most men wish they were larger down there, is it the sign of masculinity? 
I Do Not Prefer Big Dicks

Early in my sexual life, having seen a few penises and like most girls my age started to know what a penis should look like both soft and hard I didn’t need a text book explains sex. Most of my girlfriends were becoming sexually active and girl talk was very general in terms of experiences. There was one guy who had a reputation as being very large. He wasn’t very tall and nothing about him gave a clue to his size. I heard he had a third leg, his dick was the size of an arm. I don’t remember the why or how I ended up having sex with him, he was a nice guy, not overly good looking. I wasn’t over sexed looking to have sex with every guy, I just succumbed to the day. As nice as he was he did know what he had and he knew we all knew. He was not the one who forced anyone to have sex, he did think girls wanted him. I guess I had to see for myself. And see for myself I did. He was everything I was told. Once we started he was not forceful, he took his time and kept asking if I’m okay. I really felt it was me who made it hard and painful and we kept going. Details aren’t necessary, I ended up seeing a doctor two days later who thought I was raped which I swore I wasn’t. He wanted to report a rape to the police until I swore over and over it was my choice. He thought I was covering up for someone. How do you explain to your mother and then a doctor the pain you have from having sex? 
 

[cplnluv1 872]

3 hours ago, Shore2Please said:

Details aren’t necessary, I ended up seeing a doctor two days later who thought I was raped which I swore I wasn’t.

You are correct, details are not necessary. What you went through had to be traumatic enough for you to still have these memories. Men just don’t realize how sensitive a woman can be and not every woman is the same. Just like men not all being the same, women’s bodies adapt and react to stimuli differently. Men think just because we can have babies that our bodies can accept almost anything. 
I would think your gynecologist was protecting you by asking questions, many women are ashamed that they were raped and protect themselves from being traumatized with the questions and legal parts of accusing a man. Rape is never your fault. 
I am not a psychologist or in any way one to give medical advice, I’m just a woman who is understanding and will listen if that helps. Bless you for sharing. 

[ROCKlandCpl 452]

21 hours ago, Shore2Please said:

How do you explain to your mother and then a doctor the pain you have from having sex?

Horrible. That had to be traumatic and affected your future thoughts on sex. Did the boy who did this to you know he was hurting you? Unfortunately some men have to prove their manhood by having rough sex. I never understood women who like pain or rough sex and hair pulling. Trauma can have an everlasting bearing on you. 

[lcmim 1,082]

When I re read her account it sounds like the issue was more inexperience on both of their parts more than The guy being abusive.

She says that he kept asking if she was OK and she was willing to proceed. 

[cplnluv1 872]

1 hour ago, lcmim said:

When I re read her account it sounds like the issue was more inexperience on both of their parts more than The guy being abusive.

She says that he kept asking if she was OK and she was willing to proceed. 

I agree that it wasn’t forced sex, it was an inexperienced young lady and more experienced partner who knew he was big. We have no idea what she was thinking at the time, maybe being accepted, maybe wanting what her friends experienced. She is the only one that can answer. Whatever happened she still remembers it years later and is sharing. Scars, both physical and emotional take time and help to heal. 

[Baconheads 432]

I was chatting with a high mileage couple at the Red Rooster in Vegas about ten years ago, solo.  Apparently the wife was interested enough to feel my junk through my pants.  Now I'm a grower, seven inches when erect.  I was on conversation and charm mode, more blood going to the big head than the little head.  Her enthusiasm waned and she sort of laughed at my cock for not standing straight out for her in all it's glory. 

 

So to Hell with them.  Their loss.

[AndrewandAnn 360]

It's been said, "Comparison is the sworn enemy of happiness."

 

If you're constantly trying to measure up (couldn't help myself lol) to what you see in modern commercial porn, you're probably going to feel self-conscience and disappointed. The people who appear in commercially produced porn are caricatures, complete with oversized everythings (e.g., muscles, dicks, breasts, butts, etc.) They do not represent reality. Many, if not most, are hopped up on a cornucopia of drugs (legal and otherwise) and steroids, not to mention the physical enhancements like breast and butt augmentation, liposuction, lip fillers, skin bleachers, Botox, and on and on. To us, they look more like human science experiments than actual people.

 

Having said all that, I also recognize that some women do, in fact, prefer their lovers to have larger members. That's fine. Likewise, I have a thing for curvaceous, petite blondes with pretty smiles, ample breasts, and killer butts--that's why I married one 😉