Straight man that is curious

[Mike6216 34]

Anyone consider themselves straight but find themselves really wanting to suck a dick while swinging lol? I have no desire to kiss, fuck, or get fucked by a man and do not find men attractive, but for some reason, I kinda wanna suck a dick. Am I the only one? How would I bring this up?

[Fitlakecouple 451]

You are hardly the only one. To begin, look for a single bi male or a couple who lists their male as bi / bi-curious. But, many "straight" males are interested in m/m play and their wives are enthusiastic supporters/participants. If you list yourself as bi-curious, they will find you.

 

Another thought is to have your wife bring it up in a playful, nonthreatening way. Men get to watch us play - why don't we get to see them play together??? If both women make it clear that they are good with it - it might open the door for m/m touching, etc.

[Goodbicouple 174]

Warning: it can be addictive especially with a female participating.

[travelingprofessional 47]

15 hours ago, Mike6216 said:

Anyone consider themselves straight but find themselves really wanting to suck a dick while swinging lol? I have no desire to kiss, fuck, or get fucked by a man and do not find men attractive, but for some reason, I kinda wanna suck a dick. Am I the only one? How would I bring this up?

 

I've definitely thought about it. When I'm out and about, doing mundane everyday life things, I notice attractive women (not in a creepy way, I don't talk to them or stare. I just see attractive ladies here and there). I can explain what I find attractive about them. When the thought of giving oral to a man entered my mind, I have tried to look around while out, see if there is anything about men I find attractive. Nope. For the life of me, I cannot understand why women find us guys attractive. So, I'm not sure I'll ever actually give oral to a man. I've touched other cocks during our adventures (e.g. guiding one into my SO). The thought still pops into my head on occasion but it isn't something I'll seek out. I do understand the OPs situation.

 

As for bringing it up...it depends on your wife. She may be grossed out by the thought. She may be turned on by the thought. Given the two potential extremes, tread carefully. Drop some hints here and there and gauge her reaction. 

 

Finding it would be easy if you want. Change your profile to "curious", make sure you mention it in your profile narrative. At the very least you'll find a single bi-male who would love to join you. Your best bet, at least from what I've learned from talking with others who gave it a try, is to find a couple with a bi-curious male. This way the whole experience isn't around the guys. You can dabble a little and still have a fun night with the other couple.

[Aphroditee 323]

On 4/7/2022 at 11:01 PM, Mike6216 said:

Anyone consider themselves straight but find themselves really wanting to suck a dick while swinging lol? I have no desire to kiss, fuck, or get fucked by a man and do not find men attractive, but for some reason, I kinda wanna suck a dick. Am I the only one? How would I bring this up?

My husband fits in this catagory all the way.  He is exactlt like you, he is straight but likes sucking the occasional dick.  I'd look for a Bisexual couple with an Orally Bi Male, set your boundaries up front, just oral play, no kissing, no buggering.  I can tell you for me it is the hottest thing ever, the first time we got to do it, I was laying on the bed while the other guys wife was eating my pussy and gently fingering me, I was super close to orgasming and I look over and see my husband sucking this dude's dick like a lollypop and I just came on the spot.  That shit is fire, so fucking hot.  

[PaKJr 32]

I don't know  but I  feel that there is nothing gay about sucking a cock or cocks and getting fucked by them in a swinging situation with a couple  or many couples. They are there to relief sexual desire or get off and feel good afterwards. Now making out with a man to have a connection and have feeling for him? Nope not me. But if the wives want to see their men get sucked or fuck me I feel hey the couple is going to get hot and bothered and get relief, I am definitely down for their enjoyments

[MrMrsswinger 202]

On 4/8/2022 at 1:20 PM, travelingprofessional said:

For the life of me, I cannot understand why women find us guys attractive.

Me either. This is where I find the block exists when the MM interaction idea comes up.

[NC_Seniors 518]

Male half here. I have no desire whatsoever to suck another man’s cock. What I*do* have is an intellectual curiosity to know what it feels like to a woman to give a man a blowjob. Of course, I also have an intellectual curiosity to know what it feels like to be shot in a non-fatal place, but I’m not about to find that out EITHER!   😉

[oldswinger64 111]

I have been involved in situation where that has arisen, and it is very erotic.  My wife at the time found it very erotic also.  I personally do not try to understand why I have the sexual interests that I do.  Trying to figure it out would just frustrate me.