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Everyone gets started in different ways. Some fall in with a soft-swing or same room only purely by accident, others purposefully jump in head first and go to an on-premise club for a full-swap experience.

 

With me and my ex it was a same room sex experience that got us started. So what was your first experience? How did you get started with swinging? Or have you yet?

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Our first time started with friends of ours. We were playing poker & drinking a little. As we all got a little more tipsy, we decided to play strip poker. Next thing we knew, we were all playing with each other. We had a few more experiences with them, but sadly we are no longer friends any longer. Then we had a few mfm experiences. About a year later we were in a yahoo chat room, talking to some couples & they gave us a link to SLS. We never really knew until then that there was a whole "lifestyle!" But we sure know now!

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Our first was with friends too. The four of us were on a long weekend at the beach and due to a reservation error we had to share a room. We started with us having sex in our bed and them in theirs. At one point we were doggie style when he orgasmed and pulled out. He stood up and turned toward us with his penis at face level to Angel. For some reason she reached out, grabbed it, and started sucking. She and I had discussed swinging and she knew I was open to it. The weekend turned out to be a rainy mess outside and a sexual free for all inside.

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Someone left an issue of Looking glass magazine in a hotel room and in the back there was a list of swing clubs by state.

 

I was intrigued and visited an area club and had an excellent time on my first visit.

 

That was enough to get me hooked!!

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We searched the internet - found some friends through AFF and then watched things SLOWLY develop over the next few months. It took five months of friendship building to have our first sleep over.

 

Once we crossed that threshold, though, we thought maybe things would speed up...

 

They didn't...

 

They practically died...

 

So - we found another couple - who introduced us to a local club, despite our incredible fear of the club scene... We went the very next weekend by ourselves - came away with the material for the two short stories that I have submitted here (Emergence Part 1 & Emergence Part 2) and haven't looked back since.

 

We really look at that club night as our first experience. I know you can't really write off the other ones, but they were very "lite" compared to our other adventures.

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Our first experience was at a club. I had read an article about swinging and was so naive... I did not believe that places like that actually existed in our community. I did a google search on adult clubs in our area and found not 1 but 3 local on premise clubs!

 

We initially went to visit one out of curiosity. After several months of continuing to visit the club, flirting, dancing, loads of conversation between hubby and myself we had our first soft swing at the club. That lead to several more soft swing or same room experiences and me realizing I enjoyed F/F play. Eventually we invited a couple we had met at the club to the house for dinner and ended up doing a full swap. Now we even have a profile on SN. We still consider ourselves fairly new and inexperienced after a year and a half though, but we're still having fun and have come a long way from the couple who went to the club out of curiosity :D Just had our 3rd full swap experience this past weekend.

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Our first was with a couple we know who threw the bait out there and reeled us in. Gees, looking back we were such guppies.

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Our first experience was for a bi-female. I setup 4 "dates" in one day: breakfast, lunch, dinner, and drinks at a swing club.

 

Breakfast won! She was an experienced bi lady and they made us laugh, and we felt at ease with them.

 

We met at their house the next day, and she eased me into the bi play. It was great!

 

Our first full swap was with 2 couples at our house for a house party. The 6 of us hit it off and we had a great time.

 

We feel very lucky that both of our "first experiences" went so well. They are all still close friends :)

 

Mrs. D

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Our first experience was accidental.

 

We were at the lake, we went looking for our normal 'spot' to spread our stuff out and get some sun. Someone was already there...so were were looking around for other suitable flat spots to be able to lay the blankets down. (We were at Lake Travis in Austin at Hippie Hollow...the 'shore' is basically a bunch of rocks...sometimes hard to find a good spot)

 

Anyway, the place we stopped at, there was a couple sitting about 10 feet below us. We started chatting with them, they were an older couple, just married (she was in her 30s he was late 40s?). According to him, she was new to the nudist thing. But still nice folks to talk to. We sat and chatted, started getting touchy feely, and we ended up swapping. The other Mr. and I were already playing when my SO and his wife got going...he was so hard core into watching her, he stopped what we were doing and floated over to them, and was up making a running commentary for her (you like that? how does he feel? etc.). Maybe this is why I would prefer separate room play? :rollseye: Focus!

 

Her and Jeff finished and we were ok with things aftewards. So...let us count all the mistakes: 1. out of state strangers....check! 2. public place....check! 3. possibility to be arrested...check! 4. lots of onlookers...check! ;) lmao

 

Mercifully, things have gotten much better since that time. It was fun, but it would have been nice to have my partner actually pay attention to me instead of being so distracted by what was happening to his wife. You want to use my sweetie for your enjoyment, ok....just let us know what the expectation is...I could have been on the rocks getting my twins more tan.. ;)

 

Maria :kissface:

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Our first was Soft one with my G/F and a couple of our friends at their home, we went there and started.

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Our first two experiences have been with the same couple...a friend of mine and her husband. We have been hanging out a couple friends for over ten years. We have always made little "swinging jokes" especially on vacation.

 

About a month ago we rented a cabin in the Smoky Mountains of East Tennessee. Leaving the kids at home we planned a great weekend.

 

Our first night after dinner and wine our friends suggested some hot tub time to relax and enjoy the lights of the city below. I forgot mine and hubby swimsuits, then he (friends husband) suggested skinny dipping - even offered to let the ladies get in first before the guys came outside. Well we were game, all friends - right? So we skinny dipped in the hot tub. Afterwards we went to our bedrooms.

 

Second day we shopped etc. After eating that night we returned, fixed drinks and stripped down and returned to the hot tub. Well after a while (and some drinks) in the tub, snuggled up with our spouse...my friends husband started asking "when are we gonna swap"...well I spoke up and said I would snuggle with him and let my hubby snuggle his wife...well everyone shifted around and we did. Well the conversation progressed...there was a lot of kissing each other partner then A LOT of touching...

 

We ended up inside each couple having sex (not-swapped) in the living room.

 

Well last weekend we went to their house, no kids again. Well Saturday night we swapped in the same room for oral only, then had intercourse with our usual partner. Sunday after brunch, we swapped for oral again before we left.

 

My hubby and I are extremely turned on and want to fully swap...I'm even thinking different rooms.

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Our good friends had confided in us that they were swingers during a family camping trip. The idea intrigued me, and Mr. Sweet and I decided that once our schedule slowed down some, we'd give it a try.

 

A few months later, our friends invited us to a meet & greet. We agreed to share a hotel room with no intention to play. The meet & greet was only so-so, and we were beginning to doubt if the swinging thing was for us.

 

We all crashed in our repective beds at the end of the night. Mr. Sweet woke me up in the most pleasant of ways, and I guess we woke up our friends. Mr. Friend joined us, and that was my first MFM. Then Mr. Sweet helped him "take care" of Mrs. Friend . . . who then helped me take care of Mr. Sweet, then we went for the whole enchilada.

 

=)

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Ours was with a couple we met on SLS - a very nice couple who spent a lot of time answering our questions and offering advice. After a vertical meeting we all agreed (or so I thought) to play. I had a wonderful time but as it turned out my wife wasn't as ready as she thought for the first giant step. She did not handle it well so the relationship with the other couple is politely tense now. I really regret them being our first as I truly enjoyed the lady on many levels and would have liked if we all could have become friends and lovers. I haven't had an experience that comes close to matching that first time.

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I went to a college party with a few couples. After drinking a few hours people started getting undressed and playing a new version of spin the bottle I never played before. My first spin was with, what became my husband, mr larg. We been doing it ever since and enjoying it.

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Our first experience was with his best friend.We had a threesome that did not go that well because his friend could not keep it up. 1 on 1 he was fine, but soon as my fiance step through the door, down it went. We still love him and are still friends til this day, but no more trying to talk him into it again.

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Ours was with a single male friend and turned out to be one of our best nights ever with him eating her out and pumping her pussy while I got great head. Then swapped places after blowing and recovering she suggested double vaginal which she had seen on a video and wanted to try. After a bit of wrangling she had Andrew on his back and squatted on his penis giving me a great view of her full of cock. Then she leaned back so I could enter. With a few moans it was great once we got the rhythm together and both blew happily ever after. We promised ourselves that night that this was not a one off and more was to come.

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We were at a popular swing club in Miami. It was our first time ever in a lifestyle club or situation. We saw a couple in the shower along with

other people and decided to jump in and join and it has been a fun ride every since.

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My first time was very very different. He had asked me if I be interested in trying it back in August of 99. I at first asked him, “if he was fucking nuts”. That I wouldn’t think of doing that in a million years. But it played on my mind, so I bought a few books about it did some web research and found out it wasn’t about love but about sex and feeling good. When I told him I wanted to try swinging he almost fell off his chair. He didn’t think I was ready and was looking for an idea or a way to test me.

 

I keep a journal, this is the opening words of my entry of my first time:

 

My heart is galloping right now. Paul will be here in 15 minutes to half an hour or so, and he might be bringing home a friend or two. I am going to suck them off while Paul watches me. All this came up yesterday when Paul suggested it to me half joking, never really believing that I might say yes. But as soon as he mentioned it, my heart started pounding and my pussy started to flood, and I knew I really wanted to do it. It’s suppose to be a “surprise” so I don’t know which day this week it will happen

 

This was my test, and I passed !!!

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OK, this might be a bit long but it's very true.

 

We'd only been married a year when we met Booker and Sheryl.

 

Booker was about 6' 4" and very muscular. When I first met him I figured he'd been a college jock but found out later that he just enjoyed working out.

 

Sheryl was tiny in comparison, maybe 5' and probably didn't weigh 90 pounds but, like Booker, very muscular and in shape. Not that it mattered but they were black and Sheryl had just enough Cherokee in her to give her skin a gorgeous copper tone.

 

At that time I was 25 and, just getting out of the military's special forces, in perfect condition. I'm 6'2" at that time weighed around 205. I have blondish hair and blue eyes and was about as different from Booker as could be.

 

My wife is about 5'' 7" and weighed only 115 then. But, her small frame carried a couple of perfect 36 C's that hung just right.

 

Booker and I worked together and the four of us attended all the work 'after hours' parties. Nobody had much money back then so instead of going out 'clubbing' we'd just meet most weekends at a different home. There were about 10 or fifteen couples who met regularly.

 

It became obvious to everyone that whenever there was slow song that Booker and my wife were going to be dancing. And they soon were dancing very, very closely. It didn't bother me at all and I think Sheryl enjoyed watching them about as much as me. They enjoyed each other's feel and we enjoyed watching...,. no harm, no foul.

 

Well, I finally quit that job but still kept in contact with Booker and Sheryl and a couple of the other couples. I was in sales and one of the salesmen had the 8mm tape of 'Deepthroat' with Linda Lovelace. When I mentioned this to friends Booker and Sheryl and another couple wanted to see it so my wife and I invited the two couples to join us that Saturday evening.

 

During the film everyone was pretty quiet. There just wasn't that much porn around back in the mid seventies and it was a bit of an overload on everyone I think. But as soon as it ended the third couple left pretty quickly and it was obvious that they were in a hurry to get home and

take care of matters.

 

The four of us laughed about that after the couple left and we sat, drank, and talked about the movie and sex in general for an hour or so.

 

My wife was the first to call it a night and when she said she needed to go to bed Booker said he was ready to go home too.

 

Sheryl asked me if I, too, was ready for sleep and I fixed another drink for her and me both. We told Booker that I'd give Sheryl a ride home later since they only lived a few blocks away.

 

Sheryl and I drank and talked about Booker and my wife and both agreed that their having the hots for each other was sort of fun and cool with both of us. Then, on the way to Sheryl's house she admitted that she'd seen Booker with another woman before and was fine with it. In fact she said it was really a turn on for her.

 

I told Sheryl that I thought I'd enjoy seeing my wife with a guy too, and that if my wife and Booker were together that I'd be OK with it. Well, turns out that Booker and Sheryl were hoping I'd say something just like that because as soon as we got to their house Sheryl went straight to the bedroom and told Booker what I'd said.

 

OK, we'd all been drinking a lot. But Booker seemed sober as a judge as he looked me straight in the eyes and asked if I was sure. I assured him I was and we decided that it would be up to my wife if things went anywhere at all.

 

Booker took my house key and left Sheryl and me in his house to wait for his return, or call, if everything went as planned. That was one long ass wait and I wondered if I'd really messed up by getting into this.

 

But after an hour or so Booker called and I could tell by Sheryl's smile that it was OK. She told me that 'they'd' done it and they wanted us to come back over. Sheryl was so excited that she jumped into my arms as she was talking and gave me the juiciest kiss ever immediately after she told me.

 

When we got to my place Booker was wearing my robe and my wife was in her negligee sitting at the dining room table drinking coffee.

 

There was an awkward moment but when I went straight to her and kissed her, telling her I loved her, everything seemed to be fine.

 

My wife and Booker asked if Sheryl and I had 'already' and we both said no. We'd decided to wait and make sure before we did anything. So they said that the bedroom was now ours.

 

Sheryl and I didn't hesitate and were in the bedroom naked in seconds. We really did enjoy each other but we both were eager to see our spouses together. Odd how we were on the same wave length in that respect. So, after we had some exploring, oral and a nice intercourse we called our spouses into the bedroom.

 

To this day what happened the next hour or so is still the most erotic memories of my life. We wound up exploring these fun things with five other couples over the next few years but it's that first memory that's my favorite ever.

 

While fondling my cute little new playmate I watched as Booker and my wife made out. Both totally naked, both totally turned on and both almost performing for me and Sheryl.

 

I especially remember when Booker finally rolled on top of my wife to have intercourse that I was the one who guided him in. Now that was a hot moment.

 

After watching my wife and Booker having sex in just about every way imaginable for an hour or so Sheryl and I finally had to satisfy our own needs and ignored our spouses for a very incredible half hour of our own pleasure with each other.

 

They spent the night with us that night, what was left of it, and the next morning we all had breakfast together and talked about everything in the world except what we'd shared the night before. We were young, I guess, but we never talked about it again. Now my wife and I did, but

just a little, and she said that she had remorse about it and denied having much pleasure. Which, I knew was untrue.

 

We remained friends for a while but, nothing to do with our sexual experience, soon drifted apart. That was over thirty years ago. I'd love to see them again and see how they're doing and how they aged. And, if things were to work out..., well, sure, I'd love to!!

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When I was in college I had a FMF experience with a girl I was dating and her room mate and later, after my college career was over I had a MFM experience with another girl I was dating and one of my best friends from school (we went to High School & College together). That girl from the latter experience is now my wife!

 

Oddly, the two of us didn't do anything else like that again until last year (2007). We went to hang out with some good friends of ours whom we have known for about 12 years. The wife of this couple had had a boob job the year before and so we were anxious to see her new boobs. Well she pulled up her shirt and showed them off for us and then we (the men) jokingly suggested that we play strip poker.

 

Several hands later we were all sitting around naked then we all moved into the living room where we put on a porno and we all started playing and having sex with our respective partners.

 

Since then we have gotten together more often and each time we do a little more and a little more. The last time we got together with them my wife gave him a blow job while we all watched and then his wife gave me a blow job while they all watched. Then we had sex with our spouses together in the same room.

 

My wife is ready and willing for a full on swap but the other wife isn't as ready yet but is warming up to the idea. I think we will get to that point eventually but it's just going to take some time and patience. It's no good trying to force these things. In the meantime we are enjoying our soft swap adventures.

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Ours was totally out of the blue. We had talked about it for some time, but did not have the opportunity We were working a fund raiser nd she said to me, there's your guy. Pointed to a mutual "friend" of ours. I approached him at the bar later that night, I think he almost fell over. We hung out for a bit, went to a local hotel and the rest as they say is "history".....to be continued

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I went to a college party with a few couples. After drinking a few hours people started getting undressed and playing a new version of spin the bottle I never played before. My first spin was with, what became my husband, mr larg. We been doing it ever since and enjoying it.

 

Do you mind sharing the rules with us. :blush:

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Our first "experience" was really just to go to an off-premise club. We planned it like "d-day" lol. What happens if this, what happens if that. Turns out we had a great night dancing, full of sexual energy, and met some nice couples. We turned to SLS where we met a really nice couple. After two "dates" we went back to our place and had simultaneous sex. It was really hot for both of us, my wife especially as it really pushed her "boundaries". We kept it slow like that for a long time and are easing into soft swap. But thankfully we had such good experiences early on to make this all that much easier. Of course, in general we find Lifestyle folks so nice!

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JustAskJulie said:
Everyone gets started in different ways. Some fall in with a soft-swing or same room only purely by accident, others purposefully jump in head first and go to an on-premise club for a full-swap experience.

 

With me and my ex it was a same room sex experience that got us started. So what was your first experience? How did you get started with swinging? Or have you yet?

 

How do I find a same-room opportunity if my spouse and i dont know anyone who swings? We live in St. Louis.

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How do I find a same-room opportunity if my spouse and i dont know anyone who swings? we live in st. louis.

 

Put up a profile on swinglifestyle.com or some other similar board. Be clear in your profile about what it is you want; same room sex with another couple. Also, find clubs in your area (there's a list of clubs on swinglifestyle.com and also on here) and attend a club or three.

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Well we had our first real experience this last weekend after a lot of discussions between both of us and lots of looking and meetings. We made up our rules and boundaries well ahead of time and tried to take the advice of many others not to rush into it which we thought we did. Obviously we did rush it a bit. You can read more about it here: What do you do when one half of the couple doesn't seem interested?

 

Although there was no drama from our side and as mentioned in many other threads there is now an even stronger LOVE between us (if that is even possible : ) and greater communication. The only mistake was choosing the wrong couple to start with. But with all that being said we are still willing (I guess that's why our screen name fits us)to try again, but a bit slower next time and also be ready to 'bail out' at the last moment if the meeting is not going exactly right [newbie mistake].

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      Then she turned around and thanked our friend for doing her and for being so kind, gentle and respecting her. She really felt like he was making love to her and not just fucking her, which is the way she always had imagined it.
       
      He told her he was making love to her and had wanted to for a very long time. They kissed some more and my wife mounted him, they kissed and made love for about 10 minutes kissing each other, their faces, neck and ears until they both came again.
       
      Finally we all drifted to sleep with my wife spooning with my best friend. I was so tired I was happy they were enjoying each other. In the middle of the night, or I guess an hour or two later, I woke up to them fucking again.My wife was on top of him again and was riding him like I know she does so well. They were tangled in very passionate kissing and fucking. I just laid there watching his hard cock go in and out of her pussy until they both came.
       
      Since we had been drinking and it was late I just went back to sleep. In the morning I woke up to my wife blowing me and our friend fucking her doggie style. It was fantastic. He came in her again, his 4th load in her, and she climbed on top of me and we fucked like out of control maniacs. She kept on kissing me and telling me she loved and thanking me for letting her fuck him. She then started to speed up and said it was time to claim your pussy back as she started to cum. That did it for me and I sprayed her pussy so hard I felt my cock head was going to blow up. It was such an incredible night we loved every second of it, especially my wife.
       
      After we finished our friend got up and jumped into the shower while we talked and everything was great. We took a shower together while our friend was getting ready and I could tell she was on cloud 9. She had only had sex with me before, and last night and this morning been fucked by another man four times and cum maybe six times. She told me she really enjoyed the experience and was still horny from it, almost like she couldn't control herself. I told her to fuck him some more if she wanted to after our shower. She said she might but didn't want him to think she was a complete slut. I then told her he was our closest friend and I had talked to him about for over a year, he was probably hard again and hoping she would put out again.
       
      She made us breakfast and the three of us talked for a while and we agreed that this was incredible. I asked our friend if he enjoyed himself and he said it was a dream come true for him and that he had never had that chemistry and sexual and emotional connection with anyone. I asked him if he would be willing to do it again sometime? He said anytime, any day.
       
      I looked at my wife and smiled. She blushed, it was so cute to see. I walked over to her and opened her robe and it dropped to the floor. I looked at him and he walked over to her. They kissed and she undressed him.
       
      This time it was hot but also very much just fucking. She got on her hands and knees on the couch and he took her doggie style. They were both cumming pretty quickly. She turned around and cleaned him up good and helped him get dressed. We discussed doing this again but also set some rules. Well, we ended up playing together for nine years. Not every day, but a few times a year until he got married.
       
      They both fell in love with each other during that time and he had even told her while fucking her that he wanted her to have his baby. Of course she wouldn't and didn't but we knew it was a genuine feeling. BTW, my wife gave him a private bachelor party a few weeks before he got married and during the first few years they were married he sneaked out a few times to have our bi-annual 3-some until we moved. We are all still friends and nobody knows our secret. I always tell my wife that they will probably always fuck again, she agrees. He also says the same thing and it has continued to happen. 
       
      Who would have known that was just the beginning of us venturing into the swinging lifestyle. Since then we have enjoyed many other mfm, fmf 3-somes and have also met several couples we played with.
       
    • By MenPoundMyWife
      My wife and I have been married for over 10 years. She is 5'4, about 130lbs, 34F, and very fit. 
       
      We dated for couple of years before getting married. From the very beginning, she was the most sexual woman I had ever met. Soon after we started dating, she started to push me to talk about her former lovers. Slowly, I started to get turned on by the stories and became more and more curious about her past sexual experiences with boyfriends before me. Eventually, we got married, and few years later, she started to throw hints of wanting to raise her score. I quickly got on board and we started to regularly talk about how other men would fuck her and so forth.
       
      Finally, during a trip to Vegas, we decided to visit a sex club and she was very excited, although a little nervous. She wore a new tight black dress with red lingerie underneath. We got to the club and just hung out. She was very uneasy and she said she had never been to a place like this. About 30 minutes in, we were starting to talk about leaving, she suddenly pointed at a slightly older guy and said: "Go bring him here." My dick was hard as a rock. I walked up to the guy and asked if he is interested in my wife, he had been staring at her the entire time. He quickly smiled and said, "Oh yes, let's go."
       
      They shook hands, introduced themselves and we all decided to find the area with beds and more privacy (so to speak). We found a room downstairs that was only enclosed by a curtain. She told me to go and get condoms so she can get to know the guy for a few minutes. When I came back, they were just talking, slowly, she walked up to me and started kissing me. Once I let go, I gestured to the guy to go ahead; he quickly moved in on her. They started making out, he started kissing her all over the place, slowly, she dropped backwards on bed and pulled him on top of herself. 
       
      He lowered her dress and started sucking her big tits. She asked me to join in. We each had a tit in our mouth and we were both fingering her pussy at the same time. Slowly, I moved down and started eating her pussy. She is always fully waxed like a porn star. As soon as I stopped eating her pussy as she came, he went down and started eating it. Slowly, I moved back up and she took my dick in her mouth. 
       
      To our surprise, a crowd gathered and four other men wanted to fuck her. She shook her head but they all watched her get pounded. 
       
      The guy that went in there with us, quickly got naked and tugged at her red thong. She took it off and handed it to me. This whole time, she was playing with my dick, it's about 5.5". The guy was much larger, about 7". She looked at it and winked at me. She told him she likes it rough.
       
      He had it fully up and moved close to her pussy. She stared into my eyes, grabbed his dick and guided it to rub her pussy. He took his clue and shoved it in. She reminded him to not be gentle. He obliged and fucked her like a whore. She begged for more by saying, "Oh yeah, fuck me, fuck me hard...look babe, he is fucking me so good, he is so big, look, he is fucking your wife right in front of you....oh yeah, fuck me." About four other guys and a couple were now watching her get fucked. I asked her if I should tell them to leave, she said no, she likes it. She slowly turned to them so they can get the full view of a dick in her pussy while she was playing with mine. 
       
      Once the guy got done, she said, "Okay honey, this was awesome," and kissed me multiple times thanking me for a great experience. She said she wanted to stay for a few before we walked out. She wanted to walk around and be noticed as the woman who had just been fucked, since rest of the crowd was just hanging out.
       
      We cannot wait to do it again.  
       
    • By Skhan
      It's a long ride on your way to your first threesome.  No matter if you are driving 2 hours or 2 minutes, it seems like you are forever getting there.

      You don't know if the thoughts in your mind or the blood in your cock will explode first.
       
      You have nothing to go on but a few grainy photos; usually one, maybe two if you are lucky.  And the eyes... the eyes are always blotted out in those photos. No one wants to be recognized by friends or family.  They never realize that friends or family would have to be swinging to see those grainy photos in the swinger magazines.  Those "dirty" magazines hidden in the back of the combination book store/record shop.
       
      Yes, you were nervous going to the checkout with those swinger mags, purchasing some mediocre cd or magazine to hide from the other patrons the depravity of the sex acts dominating your thoughts.  The relief you feel when you are sitting in your car with your treasure.  The thrill of looking through the candidates, sifting through the obese or obnoxious looking couples to find that perfect gem, the one couple that displays "couple or single male wanted."  You don't focus on the husbands, just the wives to see if they are hot.  Hell, they don't have to be hot, just the average to middling females who aren't looking for 10 inch cocks.  They nearly all ask for 10 inch cocks for a 7 inch cock holster.  You curse your parents for the mediocrity of your birth right.
       
      You find a few candidates. You mail to the reference number on the photo c/o the magazine forwarding service, enclose your Polaroids....and wait.  You buy an answering machine...and wait.  You check your messages for two weeks...and wait.  You wait and you masturbate to the thoughts of what you want to happen.  The answer doesn't come by phone, but by mail.  The couple writes and expresses interest.  Apparently your cock pick wasn't all that mediocre, or it's your young flesh she desires more than the cervix pounding from the other bullish candidates.  
       
      They send photos. Colored ones. Kodachrome.
       
      They give you a phone number. A city two hours away. They are a better than average couple.  No heavy weights. He is bi, she is straight. Your are 24.  They are 33 and 35.  You haven't tried bisexuality before, but your heart is racing now, anticipating something new, something erotic...your first threesome.
       
      You call the number. The wife answers and you give them the phony last name that you made up on the letter, and they give you the phony last name that they made up.  It's part of the game.   You banter nervously. They ask questions. You ask questions.  "What do you enjoy?"  "Do you like anal?"  "Do you like cum in your mouth?"  It doesn't matter.  If they said that they were going to cut your throat afterward, you would still go.  You are hooked. You set up a weekend meet at a motel at their location. King-size bed. Hard to explain to the motel clerk why you are asking for a king-size bed.  They don't ask. They've seen it all.
       
      The husband picks you up at the motel. Nice guy. Personable. Not his first rodeo. He drives you to their place, which is a surprise, but you are so nervous that you don't remember the address or how to get there. You go in. You meet the wife and son. She doesn't disappoint.  She is a looker. The teenage son is off to a friend's place and you are just someone going to a party with his parents. He doesn't know that you will be soon fucking his mother.  After the son leaves, they show you photos of their past swinging adventures.  If you had doubts, then now you are sure that this isn't their first rodeo.  Your cock or your mind. Both are about to explode.
       
      They follow you back to the hotel room that you rented.  Locked door, "Do not Disturb" sign.
       
      She kisses her husband and it starts. The disrobing. You are nervous. What to do first. Follow their lead and try not to appear overbearing or demanding.  She's on the bed, and he dives into a mouthful of vaginal bliss. You nervously start kissing her, massaging her breast, kissing her nipples.  Then you get on your knees and present your mediocre cock for her to devour.  She doesn't hesitate.  She has your cock buried down her throat while the husband buries his tongue in her bush.  The husband comes up for air, and moves to her breast, teasing.  You move to the holy of holies.  You lick, suck, and drink in the juices, probing with deep tongue thrusts, tasting the walls of her vaginal cavity while she is licking the husband's cock. Your member is not much different than his. You are relieved.  
       
      The position changes. She lays on her side. He enters her vagina from the rear, leaving her clitoris exposed. She discussed this with you on the phone.  Licking her while her husband fucks.  You go down and start to lick that clitoris, less than a inch from the pounding cock. You remember that he is bi. He wants this. You hesitantly reach up, and start to cradle his jewels, all the time her juices mingles with the fleshy taste of cock.  You can't bring yourself to put his cock in your mouth, so you go on licking the clit and fondling the balls until he grunts and fills her with cum.  He withdraws. You switch position.  His cum lubricates her vagina.  There is nothing sloppy about these seconds. You pound her while he licks and returns the favor of cradling your balls.  He doesn't suck you off, not sure if you will be offended. It doesn't matter he says. They just love fucking.  
       
      You release your semen into her, and you all relax, sitting and talking while a double load of cum streams from her pussy. You regret what the hotel maids will have to clean up. She pees. Returns. The ritual starts again. This time the cunnilingus is mixed with unfamiliar flavors. His cum. Your cum.  You don't give a fuck.  The thrill of the three-way has over ridden any social mores that you were raised with.
       
      More sex. More bi touching. This time you pull out and shoot your cum over her.  With that baptism, the holy rites have been completed. There are photos and kisses given. Promises of future sex.
       
      This was your first threesome.
    • By C3po
      This all started around forty years ago when my wife Beth and I had dated for a few years then married. It wasn't long after we married that I introduced her to her first big realistic porn star dildo.  When she first saw it she laughed and said, "That'll never fit in my pussy, are you nuts?!" But she agreed to trying and found not only did it fit but she really enjoyed it. She was amazed by how much she enjoyed it.  So much so that she requested I use it on her quite a lot. She also discovered she enjoyed big cock porn, she was fascinated by it. Soon was I combining using a huge dildo on her at the same time she watched big cock porn, this led her to experience huge orgasms. She couldn't get enough. She was finally exploring her sexuality and expanding her outlook on sexual pleasure.
       
      One night after some really hot sex I  questioned her if she ever fantasized about fucking other men, especially well-hung men. She responded that of course she did, stated that most women had this fantasy, and she believed it was quite common. So I pursued it further and asked her if she wanted to try another man's cock and how much did she really desire to do it? She said that it sounded exciting and fun but she would never do anything to endanger our marriage. I said,  "What if I told you that I wanted to watch you have sex with another man, one that had a really big cock. Would you then consider it?" She laughed and said she'd be game if it was something I was serious about and really wanted her to do. She said, "Come on, let's be real. It's exciting and fun to imagine it, but to really do it? Please! That's a major game changer."
       
      So I said, "I'm very serious. I've watched the way you enjoy the dildos especially while watching big cock videos. It turns me on big time seeing how excited you get and how many times you climax from doing these two things at the same time. I want to watch you do it for real. No BS, just watching you getting slammed by a big cock would be a huge turn-on for me. So what do you really think now that you know that I'm serious and am giving you this opportunity?"
       
      I could see her giving it some serious thought, she didn't get mad or upset at me or the idea, no resistance whatsoever to my request.  The more she considered the idea the more it appeared to me that she was very intrigued with the idea and it excited her.
       
      She started asking all kinds of questions, like wouldn't I be jealous, or think the worst of her, or what if she really enjoyed it and wanted more or didn't feel comfortable screwing another man, then what? Were there any rules and what were the consequences? Was I absolutely sure that I really wanted her to do this, because once done there was no going back!
       
      After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen.
       
       I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him.
       
      A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked  Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen.
       
      When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. 
       
      The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight.
       
      Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show.
       
      Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge.
       
      They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left.
       
      Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
    • By Falcon88
      My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years. Through out the years sex has been fantastic. No complaints on either side. We are very faithful and never cheated on each other.
       
      Then one day two years ago we were having a few drinks and watching porn. We watch all kinds of porn. That night we were watching some really good gangbangs. Curiously, I turn to my wife and asked her if she ever thought about swinging and group sex. If it ever crossed her mind. Surprisingly, she looked at me and said she’s been thinking about it for while. So we ended up talking about swinging and group sex for hours. We got online and read stories on experiences about swinging and group sex. The pros and cons. It turned me on taking about it but at the same time I got a crazy feeling in my stomach. Nerves I guess.
       
      So to make a very long story short we ended up having an open marriage and took up swinging. We both decided to have (safe) sex with other people until we felt comfortable on having our first group sex. All this took very long planning and preparing, especially mentally.
       
      Finally last November we planned out her first group sex. We carefully selected three familiar friends to join in the fun. Of course they decided to do it and agreed on our rules.
       
      So, it finally happened that November night. I really enjoyed watching my wife get screwed by more than one man. She had the time of her life. She had multiple orgasms one after another. The crazy feeling never left my stomach but I really enjoyed watching though. After the guys left we kicked back and talked about our experience. Then we go back about agreeing on what we’re doing and never to do it without the other knowing. We keep an oath of trust. Every time we have a date with someone we let each other know. It’s always planned out days in advance so it will never interfere with our personal lives. We have a great understanding.
       
      Since last November she’s been involved in several group sex averaging 3-4 guys each time. Of course I joined in most of the time. Lots of lube is needed. But now she wants to go a little further. She wants to do a gangbang of 6-8 guys. Seriously.
       
      Lately she’s been playing with large toys to get her vagina ready. She wants to try double-vaginal penetration. I’ve been preparing her by inserting a dildo in her while I’m inside. Very carefully with lots of lube. We practice every time we have sex. She even carefully inserts a large thick toy in her vagina while watching a movie and keeps it in there. Yes, our sexual curiosities has increased tremendously. My wife wants to explore even more and I’m all in.
       
      Well the day we both have been looking forward too occurred this past weekend. We managed to round up 7 guys for an all night gangbang. It involved a lot of planning and phone calls. We’ve noticed that guys will be all in at first then drop out later. But eventually we got things going. That night when everyone arrived she was kinda nervous but excited to have that many cocks at once. Most of all, she finally had double penetration in her vagina from two guys for the first time. The strange thing I seemed more nervous than her. Lol But she absolutely enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed watching her. She came hard many times. She doesn’t like anal so that wasn’t attempted.
       
      So after joining in all the fun and after almost two hours of great sex we had the grand finale. My sexy wife knelt down and we all gave her an awesome bukkake. Her face was drenched with cum. It was one heck of a hot night. After everyone left we took a long shower and stayed up almost all night talking about it. We were both so turned on that we were already making plans for the next one. But we are gonna take a break for about three weeks. It’s just going to be me and her for now.
       
      Yesterday she mentioned about having a messy cum sex in the near future after watching a great creampie movie. I was like, a messy cum sex? She asked me what I would think about her having a messy gooey bukkake and creampie night. Having about 4 guys cum all over her face while 4 guys cum inside her. Then rubbing the cum all over her breasts. Man, just listening to her drove me crazy. My wife was willing to be explosive. But that would take lots of planning because we are very cautious. My wife cannot get pregnant anymore so that’s really something we don’t have to worry about. It’s about the unprotected sex. We do know many cool friends well enough that we can trust but still we must remain careful. Yet, I’m sure it’s gonna happen very soon.
       
      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
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