attraction

[cruiser13 0]

Is it difficult to find a couple who both partners would find attractive? Is there an easy way to find/search for certain preferences? my wife and I have been open for two years now with not much success in find another couple. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

[Numex 2,460]

15 hours ago, cruiser13 said:

Is it difficult to find a couple who both partners would find attractive?

Yes, to the extent that all four people would be really happy with the swap.

 

That's why we are in a closed group (we don't play outside the group for health & safety purposes) of six married couples.  Couples do get together for couples fun occasionally, but there is much more alone play, including Daniela and me, both just a guy and woman, and threesomes.  It also allows with threesomes to throw all the kids together and the one not playing watches them at the other house or takes them out.

 

Everyone has played with everyone else and still does to some degree, but everyone has their favorite play partners as well.  So my advice is to look for situations where there are multiple couples and you can each go your own way.  We formed a closed group because we all like bareback and there is no concern about physical safety.  So going to a club or finds a small group may be better for you two.

Edited July 2, 2022 by Numex

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

Wish we could find a local closed group to join or be able to put one together.

 

Finding couples where everyone is 'attracted' to everyone else is usually rather hard, but then think of how hard it was to find one other person that you were attracted to and they to you...and you enjoyed spending time with them and you all shared a common set of beliefs and experiences. Now multiply that by four. The benefit is that once you find them, it's usually worth the effort you spent.

[Bostonguitarist 25]

5 minutes ago, GoldCoCouple said:

Wish we could find a local closed group to join or be able to put one together.

 

Finding couples where everyone is 'attracted' to everyone else is usually rather hard, but then think of how hard it was to find one other person that you were attracted to and they to you...and you enjoyed spending time with them and you all shared a common set of beliefs and experiences. Now multiply that by four. The benefit is that once you find them, it's usually worth the effort you spent.

Well put 

[enhancer 1,586]

It is absolutely hard to find other couples where there is a 4 way attraction!  It is why we don’t play with couples very often and prefer threesomes.

[Bostonguitarist 25]

12 minutes ago, enhancer said:

It is absolutely hard to find other couples where there is a 4 way attraction!  It is why we don’t play with couples very often and prefer threesomes.

Anyone would be extremely fortunate to play with you 

[TricianMike 788]

Correct not easy to find the perfect pair. We sometimes settle and if we click that is a major bonus.