Couples that play together and alone!

[enhancer 1,585]

We often see profiles online of couples that say they play together and alone!  We don’t think there is anything wrong with this although it is not our thing at all.
 

 Problem we have is in the ten plus years we have been online we have never once been messaged by the female half of any of these so called open couples.   We do however get messages from the male half all the time even though on our profile we state clearly that if you are in an open relationship we are not interested in playing with the male alone.

 

 If we want another male there is more then enough single guys out there willing and able.  We honestly do not believe most of the guys saying they are in an open relationship are being honest or that their wife is actually playing on her own.  Most of the time there will be tons of pics of their wife and either few, none or just cock pics of the guy.  
 

Honestly if we actually meet a couple in person and the guy was actually in decent shape and someone she was attracted to we might consider having him join us alone,  but just through online interactions it is not going to happen.

[Fitlakecouple 451]

The only way we are playing with just male half of a couple is if we have met and played with the other couple first. Then, if that wife gives her hubby a hall pass - maybe we will play with him alone. This happened some years ago. We played with a couple and had a great experience so we arranged a follow-up date. They called at the last minute, they lost their babysitter and said only one of them can come to play - who would we like? We said 'surprise us'. We had a great time with the hubs...

[EastInWest 1,524]

The only genuine 'playing alone' female I've ever run into was a Tinder match. It was Thursday night. We met in a hotel bar, I had a club soda and bought her a Moscow Mule, then she texted her boyfriend that it was going ahead. I took about 15 minutes of video of 30 minutes of action for her boyfriend to enjoy later.

 

Mrs. E gets solicited by coworkers, jogging, by strangers if I leave her alone on a sidewalk for 10 minutes, by 17-year-olds who should know better. Her Tinder profile gives her 100+ swipes to screen more days than not, mine delivers 1-3.

 

My point is that there are lots of liars, no doubt at all, but I'm also guessing that in couples that are open to playing alone where the wife does actively seek it out, she probably doesn't see the need in using SLS to find what she wants. The dynamic is so lopsided it's funny.

[MidLifeFun 147]

MMF MFM MMA. So many men like to watch their wife being banged hard my another man, the best banging by men is done in the MMA cage. Watching FF MMA matches are great also. Watching MM or FF in MMA is something I do alone or with other friends not as a couple. 

[MidwestHoneys 358]

23 hours ago, MidLifeFun said:

MMF MFM MMA. So many men like to watch their wife being banged hard my another man, the best banging by men is done in the MMA cage. Watching FF MMA matches are great also. Watching MM or FF in MMA is something I do alone or with other friends not as a couple. 

I don’t get it. 🥱. Is she a fighter?

[MidLifeFun 147]

I was trying to be funny. 
I don’t mind if she plays alone as long as I know who and where. 

[BillyandDebbie 301]

We have no rules saying we both have to be present when playing. 
We are now friends with a couple where Debbie dated him before I met her. We are now good friends with them extremely trusting. We socialize on all levels, we are planning on a vacation soon. 
From reading posts on here I am an exception, I don’t have a need or want to watch Debbie have sex with every man we meet. The sex she has is for her pleasure not mine. 

[herpob 563]

We only play together. For us and for many we know, it is about our sexual connection with our spouse. We want to do things with our mate, enjoy pleasures with our mate, be intimate with our mate playing with others, look deeply into one another's eyes are we share like experiences. For us, we cannot connect in separate rooms. To each her/his own.