Shore2Please 611 Posted September 5, 2022 Our first entry into the lifestyle was on a cruise and we have embraced our new found awakening. We talked with our friends about going on a Bliss cruise or a similar lifestyle vacation for the last few years but I was not as supportive of it as I enjoy a more one on one approach. I pushed for a European cruise that was a mainstream vacation and suggested we get cabins together and make our own parties. We were going to go with our friends we met on that first cruise then found out another couple we met before at our friends and a fourth couple we never met wanted to join. We flew to Europe from our airport the others flew together and met us at the cruise. Jet lag set in for me and the others that first day, it was suggested that we would all get a good night sleep. We found out two of our travel friends did some playing without us. Next day was a sea day and was perfect for enjoying the pool and the bar where we quietly made plans on how we can play at night. Our cabins were all the same, too small for 8 of us to play, something I was happy for because I’m not a group sex type. I laughed along with the others about being in Greece and the when in Greece do as the Greeks. I was happy when it was suggested that we pick straws for who would be with who that night. We being the couple that was new to the couple we just met he suggested we get to be the first night play. Touring the next few nights and enjoying all a cruise offers we had plenty of laughs and other younger cruisers were enjoying our laughs and joined our little group without knowing our night time sleeping arrangements. We kept talking about going to the nude beach later in the week inviting our new friends to join us. One of the couples decided to join us, I think they had an idea that we were switching cabins at night. I was half jokingly asked who I was sleeping with which I answered that I slept with everyone. After nude beach day we now added to our nighttime group, and we still half the trip to go. That night I stepped out of my comfort zone and joined our new friends while my husband joined other friends. I even surprised myself opening up and losing some inhibitions in the fun of the cruise. It’s funny how drinks, parties and Mediterranean cruise changes you. Before anyone asks, the friends we just met were not new to the lifestyle and didn’t expect to meet anyone on this cruise. 4 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
findinganswers 369 Posted September 5, 2022 We make our own fun with the friends we have and would take a vacation with those friends. Unless you are looking to make new connections it sounds like you had a perfect trip and did make a new connection. I’m going to suggest a cruise to our group. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Shore2Please 611 Posted September 6, 2022 I won’t lie, being wanted and desired by them was a huge ego boost. Not unlike our first partners our initial discussion happened at a nude beach with nothing to hide any body flaws they made the first discussion about joining them. Our group had our plans already set so I had to have everyone else give the thumbs up on my invitation. They all know my usual want of alone with one partner and my shying away from being a third. My husband thought it would be good for me and it was a great night. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post