Driving wife around while playing

[Aikibobby 51]

The wife and I have been in the lifestyle for a year and four months now. We live on the Mississippi Gulf Coast and have a very nice swingers club a few towns over that we try and visit every Saturday night. We are also members of an online site. We are still new to the life and are trying different fantasies. One of the scenarios that we want to to try is me driving the wife around while she has our male friend in the back of the car fucking him. We was wondering if anyone had attempted this and how did it turn out?  Also is there any lessons learned or tips for us?  We have a small suv type car and the back seat lets down and kinda makes a big flat bed. I was thinking the interstate would be the best route to take because I don’t have to worry about stopping in traffic because after all even though we love being watched we don’t want to be arrested lol.  Thanks in advance. 

[Baconheads 432]

Keep your eyes on the road!

 

[njbm 2,870]

As a semi-retired attorney, I fear getting stopped by a cop. Rent a hotel room. Generally safer. 

[FunCpl355 4]

This is one of the things the wife wants to try. She has become a big exhibitionists since we started into the lifestyle. We have a SUV which turns into a bed platform as well. Our only worry is getting caught. I mean shit like this could land a person on the sex offenders registry...couldn't it?

 

 

[lovefest04 699]

I'd say. go for it, have fun.

 

Go at night, no lights on inside the car as to provide some level of privacy. Look for rural roads for your first time. Maybe don't put seat down, but make love in the back seat. Again might provide a little better privacy while allowing for the feeling of exhibition.

 

Not sure about sex offender, but seat belt laws, and indecent exposure.

 

S

[njbm 2,870]

I think that I told this story here before. As a lawyer, I was in a judge’s chambers where lawyers discussed cases with the prosecutor and judge. The clients were outside in the courtroom. 
 

Another lawyer represented a woman who was charged with indecent exposure. She was giving her husband a blow job in their car which was in a parking lot of a nude beach. 
 

Her lawyer said: “ Judge, this couple has been married for twenty years! This woman doesn’t deserve a citation. She deserves a commendation!”

 

Everyone laughed very hard.

[NerdsAreFun 226]

My wife likes getting topless in our convertible when we go for backroads fun drives with very little other traffic.  Worry about that a bit.  However given how short she is and that she would only be seen by an oncoming taller vehicle at a closing speed in excess of 110(55mph limit), I'm guessing it's more a case on their part of "did I just see what I think I saw?"

[Anon321 522]

We've done it a few times!  I drove while my GF is in the back sucking and fucking my buddy.  We even did it in a convertible once which was wild but exciting.  Just keep your eyes on the road.  The problem I had wasn't necessarily looking towards the back seat to watch them but I was constantly looking at all the people and cars around me to see if they noticed and see their reactions.

[Numex 2,415]

Before we met Daniela tells me that she gave a blowjob to a pilot in a small plane.  Actually, several times.  Does that count?  The closest I've ever come is fucking my ex-wife in the back of a hatchback... while it was in the garage.  We were both kind of dirty and very horny so it was a good choice.  Afterwards we just left our dirty clothes in the garage and went to the shower.

[PeterJ 948]

I was friends with a hotwife couple. One day we’d had a good amount of sex (MF & some MFM) followed by a visit to a local clothing optional swimming area. The woman had a very strong libido; in my experience she was never not up for more sex. When we left the beach he drove and his wife and I sat in the second row of their brand-new minivan. I masturbate do her to a juicy orgasm. Her husband was slightly annoyed, fearing her juices (mixed with his and mine) were going to stain the seat in their new vehicle. It was a valid concern.

 

(With both my ex and my current wives I’ve masturbated them to orgasm while I was driving on rural two-lane roads. I totally kept my eyes on the road! But it was quite enjoyable for me in both cases to feel them lubricate and then orgasm.)

[udsarge 119]

all this talk of convertible sex and my mind wants to know... How do you avoid bugs in the teeth during said activities???

[couplers 4,638]

On 9/26/2022 at 9:41 PM, PeterJ said:

Her husband was slightly annoyed, fearing her juices (mixed with his and mine) were going to stain the seat in their new vehicle.

With the our collective kids having been in our vehicles, that would be the least of our concerns.

[couplers 4,638]

On 9/26/2022 at 9:41 PM, PeterJ said:

in my experience she was never not up for more sex.

That's what hubby said about me early on, and it's true once I get started.  But I told him it's because I was always trying to keep Red and him satisfied since I knew how lucky I am.

 

On 9/26/2022 at 9:41 PM, PeterJ said:

The woman had a very strong libido

That's Clair actually.  She's always the one always initiating with David, Red, or one of us other women. 

[PeterJ 948]

She wasn’t my wife and she wasn’t on the (sexually) receiving end, but one of my grad school classmates gave me a blowjob to orgasm in slow-moving traffic in the Lincoln Tunnel.
 

We were in school in NJ and she wanted to go on an errand on Long Island but was afraid to drive in NYC. She was an FWB and a great sexual partner. There was no explicit or even implicit promise of sexual favors, as there other times were, but I was inclined to do her this favor just on the basis of the ”F" aspect of our FWB relationship. The superb blowjob was an unexpected treat. 😊

[Numex 2,415]

On 9/26/2022 at 9:41 PM, PeterJ said:

The woman had a very strong libido; in my experience she was never not up for more sex.

Same with my wife.  I was thankful for this and it made me realize early on in our marriage that I, and probably no one man, would be enough to satisfy her in that regard.  So I told her that she could play.  The rule is that her activity doesn't displace me; it hasn't.  Letting Daniela fuck other men was one of my best moves ever.

On 9/28/2022 at 6:36 AM, couplers said:

it's true once I get started.

Yep, Daniela can go from total disinterest to 100 in 30 seconds.

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

My wife and I have talked about doing this, but it hasn't happened. Yet I think an interstate would be less than ideal; people can pass you at low speeds relative to the speed of your own car. Plus, there's a higher chance of cops on an interstate than on a country road.

[PeterJ 948]

 

From "The Car", Bryan Appleyard’s social history of the automobile:

 

“Sex in cars comes in two forms: while moving and one of the participants is driving or while parked. Both are frowned upon by the authorities but the former especially so. Nevertheless, both forms seem to happen a lot. Cindy Struckman-Johnson, a University of South Dakota psychologist, found that 33 per cent of men and 9 per cent of women had engaged in some kind of sex while driving. While not driving, the figure rises to 60 per cent of all people and over 8 per cent had lost their virginity in a car.”
 "The Car" by Bryan Appleyard
https://books.apple.com/us/book/the-car/id1609256006

 

In earlier responses on this thread I’ve mentioned that while driving I’ve masturbated to orgasm two wives and before that been fellated to orgasm by a grad-school FWB. One of the many things I adore about my libidinous current wife is her whole-hearted embrace of self-stimulation. When we became romantically & sexually involved following years of friendship-without-benefits (with the exception of one decade-prior experimental soft-swing incident together with our former spouses) we shared our past sexual histories with one another. She told me that on long Friday-night drives from Manhattan to see her aging parents in Maine, there was one point late at night on the Maine Turnpike where she always diddled herself. She said the only issue was that she would find herself in the slow lane driving 35 mph. (She never got stopped by the State Police for driving significantly under the minimum required speed or knocked into next week by someone barreling along at 75 in that slow lane.)