Is pubic hair a turn-off?

[hotblonde47 22]

Ok, one more thing, question for the guys out there I guess. Seems every woman now is pretty much hairless, I'm blonde and soft, but my skin is so sensitive I break out in a nasty rash if I even attempt to get rid of it. Is this a real problem for you guys? A real turn off?

[GFandME 17]

not a turn off but hairless is MUCH better for us.

[AdventurousTxM 19]

Having no hair is visually exciting because the pussy lips are so exposed. But, my preference is a woman who trims the hair short around her pussy lips, trims any pubic hair that is on her upper thighs, and then shaves around her anus. That allows most of the pubic hair to remain. I know women who have shaved all of their pubic hair, then fail to keep it shaved, and complain that it itches like crazy when it is growing back. Remember, you are trying to create a sexy and attractive visual for your partner. If you can't shave, then at least keep it neatly trimmed, especially around your pussy lips. Hope this helps.

[good times 991]

Dito what GFandME said for me, I also have noticed that I'm much more into oral when it's shaved or trimmed short.

[NewTemptations 54]

Mine is trimmed but far from being shaved off!

 

I have never once been rejected by a guy cause he preferred totally shaved. As a matter of fact, I've received quite a few complements over the years from guys that hate the totally shaved look!

 

Do whatever works best for you and trust me, people will get over it!

[VegasLee 1,486]

I love it when the ladies have the hair they are supposed to have down there!

 

I am not into the shaved ladies at all. I don't turn them down but would much rather they had their hair.

 

Trimmed is ok for swim suit purposes but leave the rest.

 

Got to love the ladies that know how to grow the hair!

[lovefest04 697]

I prefer a closely trimmed patch above the pussy and shaved from there down. My wife shaved for the first time (and has remained shaved) 7 months ago. I love the feel of the pussy shaved both to the touch and to my lips.

 

That said I had many many great times with her unshaven as well.

 

I guess I like it neat, like the lady is paying her pussy some attention.

[Spoomonkey 421]

Well - I like mostly shaved with a little "ornamentation". BUT I would never turn down a woman for that reason.

 

To be honest, there aren't a whole lot of reasons I can think of to turn down a woman...

[texasfans2003 16]

I prefer the lady to have shaved around her pussy lips and leave the rest as nature intended. Regardless, hairless, fully grown or somewhere in between, I have never met a pussy I didn't like. An exception would be one who's owner did not keep up with her hygiene and I haven't met that one yet. Hope I never will!

[cpl42 17]

We both like bushy bush, shaved just don't do it for us. But, it is the sign of the times. So ya gotta go with it if it comes up.

[desert_dwellers 18]

Honestly, the completely shaved look seems like the easy way out. Knowing that a woman gives her pussy time and attention is motivation for me to do the same. Besides, you gotta have a landing strip!

[Frankie 18]

I'm one of those men that really loves hairy females, for some reason a shaved female doesn't do it for me. Call me old fashioned, but I don't know why in these times almost every woman shaves.

[leoinheat 16]

For me hair is a huge turn-off. Wife even hates it, so we both stay shaved. Also during sex when you are hairless the skin-on-skin contact is out of this world! We both vote NO HAIR!!!

[AprilMike 16]

For us, no hair is mandatory. April is lasered bald and I shave completely. We have turned down people for having hair. Having hair just isn't our thing, but the cool part...doesn't have to be, plenty out there love hair.

[crazinred 36]

I always preferred hair till I had bald and now both trimmed and bald are ok but I prefer bald. I really don't much care for the landing strip either it tickles my nose too much.

[MrkLin 393]

Personally, I love it all - shaved, furry, whatever. As long as she pays attention to her hygene, I'll stay for the day - or night, as the case may be...

[Kanga 17]

Not all, I think pubic is a great turn-on both visually and to feel.

[tribbles 490]

I think everyone needs to do what they want to with their own bodies...shave it, laser it, grown it down to there, HAIR! (Almost broke into song there...)

 

If your would be play partner(s) don't like your choice, find ones that do.

[CenTexDuo 15]

If it's what you want, then shave it; if not, don't. If you want it somewhere in between, then do that. God gave pubic hair to you and then gave you an intelligent mind so you can decide whether or not you want to "change" or "improve" it. From the comments you've read here, you can have lots of fun either way. Personally, I never met a pussy I didn't like, and I don't remember hair influencing me either way.

[Markspurangel 15]

Mr Pure keeps his lower parts shaved and above the cock trimmed. Ms Pure lets Mr keep her shaved below & has a trimmed patch above.

 

The only turn off we can forsee is the pubic hair between our teeth later. Immediately though it's the hair in the back of the throat!!! Gag, hack, hack, cough, wheeze.......

[GerdOEvert 51]

Mildly trimmed is my choice.

 

Twenty years ago, no one had their muffs shaven. I also never found a problem in getting hair while I was pleasuring my partner.

 

When you look close at most shaven muffs you see stubble, and that can irritate both of you.

 

A natural mature woman has a sweet pubic bush, which covers her glorious wet folds. At least IMHO.

[Cpl2share 147]

Trimmed. Don't care too much for shaved, makes me feel kind of like a pedophile when I can see it. But that doesn't stop me from getting into a position that prevents visual and allows for oral. Mrs. Cpl trims and she prefers to look at trimmed over hairy or shaved too.

[prometheius 137]

For me, pubic hair is an absolute turn-on (it's nature’s dental floss) . I don't mind if a woman trims or shaves provided she's not stubbly, and she practices good hygiene. I feel that it's her body and her choice to do with it as she will. I'd prefer not to limit my possibilities, for example, by being so particular that I would only meet with a woman who had (scalp) hair down to her ass. I don't think I would do much swinging. I've never been asked about that preference and it's not that important to me. What is important to me is that the other person receives as much pleasure from our encounter as I do. I don't sweat the details, but rather focus on the other person as a whole.

[NakedInSeattle 159]

We both like it shaved for our playmates as well as us. For me, going down on a lady with a "forest" is not only a turn-off but not even possible. Gotta be hairless at least on the very bottom.

[crazinred 36]

Well a different thing happened this weekend that made Me(male) confirm I prefer bald or at least well trimmed. The male partner that joined us Sat. night was at full bush and left unpleasant gifts for me after their first round. I went down on Red as normal and what the heck hair Once we got past that is was all ok no more hairs down there for me. I told Red we will have to check that out next time.

[Travis 15]

Not completely hairless but neatly trimmed, I prefer. Shaved around the lips but leaving a "Landing strip" I think is sexy.

[NymphoWind 16]

Well, to be honest, it is not a turn-off to have it not shaved, but having a clean shaved pussy is more of a turn-on, well to me personally anyways, because for one, as AdventurousTxM said, it is just that much more exciting to see the sexy lips of a pussy without the obstruction of a bush in the way. Bt for me the most important reason I prefer a girl to shave is because as I'm giving her lower lips a licking of her life, I just wouldn't want to end up with a mouth of hair.

 

I think the same thing goes for the female half of us, she likes that I'm completely shaved or at least, very trimmed so that she doesn't have to pick out hair from in her mouth after a few sucks and licks.

 

Although it is probably more appealing to most guys, and vice versa, having a shaved pussy, I wouldn't say having the bush makes you any less sexy.

 

You said that you break out in nasty rashes, if that is so, I suppose that is a issue, I've never personally heard of anyone having a probably shaving, but with really sensitive skin, anything is possible, and if you can shave, i guess waxing is out of the question.

 

My personal advice would be, try to trim it short, but only as far as it can go without causing you problems, you should never feel unappealing about yourself, everyone is beautiful in their own ways.

 

For me personally shaving sometimes does leave me with my own dilemma, I find that every now and then, once the hairs start to grow back, and it becomes prickly, sometimes the prickles irritates my skin and lucky I don't rash out, but my skin does become red.

 

Anyways my advice is try just trimming it as short as you can, and see what you can do... If you have no luck, It's cool, I don't think its a turn off, and from what many people have posted although its preferred shaved clean, everyone else still feels attraction towards it.

 

haha I hope I made sense.

[crazinred 36]

As said above pubic hair on a lady is defiantly not a turn-off. But if I had a choice it would be shaved.

 

We both have been shaving fully down there and finally bought some Coochy cream and it really seems to help. I still am not as smooth as I would like but its no longer irritated. I just wish my face was as easy to deal with as my privates.

[cplndixie 15]

We both vote for a bush or lightly trimmed.

[toycple 19]

We for me (Mr Toycple) I much prefer no hair at all. I like going down on a woman and the hair tends to get in the way. Would either of us turn down a woman who wasn't shaved? No. I shave my wife all the time, it is just a personal preference for us.

[LilyPuss 16]

We both shave and like our playmates to be the same. We are both turned off by hairy bushes; just our preference.

 

I have been plucking my pubes (with a very good set of tweezers) since I was a teenager (now in my 40's). I only have to do maintenance about once every 10 days - two weeks; the hair that does grow back is much softer and much, much less of it. I feel very fortunate for this. No stubble, no itching, no welts...

 

Mr. LilyPuss shaves every day. He applies rice powder (even softer than baby powder; no taste, either) right after the shower and has no "shavers remorse" when he does this.

[CXXC 435]

Pubic hair is really no longer necessary. Where once, pubic hair was a transport medium for pheromones, it has become useless at best. Its purpose of keeping the genitals warm, unnecessary. Needed to protect the area, no need. We have truly outgrown the need for the fuzz.

 

Mrs. CXXC prefers both her men and women lovers to be hairless. She finds the smooth skin very sensual. The visual is another point for her. It just looks cleaner. Add the fact that she is not going to end up with a mouth full of organic dental floss...BONUS!

 

As for me, I just love the feel and touch of smooth and hairless flesh. Any woman who keeps her lips and mound smooth can count on as much oral pleasuring as she desires by me. I just love it.

 

Gents,

 

Another point of shaving or at the very least trimming the bush close to the flesh is the optical increase in the length of your unit! Imagine that, adding another inch (At least optically). Remember, no matter what the late night TV adds promise, there is no real method to increase the size of your member. You can lose weight which will lessen the fat deposits on your pelvic bone and you can shave. That’s it!

 

Our vote: Shaved or very closely trimmed. We do it for our playmates and each other.

[hamlet 53]

I'm old enough to remember when porn magazines didn't show pubic hair. When that finally changed (around the early 70s, I think) it was like getting a glimpse of something forbidden, which is maybe why it's always been a turn-on for me.

 

The first time I encountered a shaved woman was about 15 years ago, before I was in the lifestyle. She also had a big picture of her father in her bedroom. It was all a little too Freudian for me; in fact, I felt like a child molester, despite the fact that she was actually a couple of years older than me. Pubic hair is just part of a fully sexual adult woman's anatomy--at least in my opinion. That said, I concur with the others here who've said that they can't imagine turning down a sexy woman, even if her hair (or lack thereof) isn't exactly as one could wish. To tell the truth, we've had encounters with couples where, an hour later, I couldn't tell you whether or not the woman was shaved. There are many more interesting things to pay attention to during sex.

 

My wife, by the way, keeps herself trimmed, but doesn't really care much what her partners (male or female) do about themselves.

[Tadahiko 156]

My wife is totally bare, and I find it outrageously sexy, visually speaking. As for the sensual component during sex, I don't care. Our triad lover is natural (on her mound at least, anything that would show in a bikini is waxed, of course) and I go down on them both with equal verve. The only turn-off for me is public hair that creeps down the thighs or too far up the belly. It looks too masculine for me, like a girl with a mustache.

 

I've personally gone both ways at times, and I have to say that I prefer to be natural, and my wife prefers it that way, too. She complained of getting "poked" by my short hairs, even when they were just closely trimmed (not shaving stubble), and she says I look better that way, because I have a hairy chest.

[metroman 17]

Ok, one more thing, question for the guys out there I guess. Seems every woman now is pretty much hairless, I'm blonde and soft, but my skin is so sensitive I break out in a nasty rash if I even attempt to get rid of it. Is this a real problem for you guys? A real turn off?

 

Not every woman out there is hairless. My wife shaved for a couple years and at my requst let it grow back in nice and full. Talk about a sex aid! Her hair holds the cum which feels excellent on me and we usually go again! Nice if women please men instead of other women.....(No offense)

[Begood03 15]

I prefer my wife to be shaved, and she prefers me to be shaved.

[TheLorax 173]

I like the labia trimmed or shaved and the mons to be all natural

 

Visually I LOVE the way a nice bush looks. I like burying my face in it. I'm hoping that the trend reverses over the next few years since it seems like 90% of the folks out there are shaved. It still looks "little girl" to me which is a turn-off.

[metroman 17]

Ok, one more thing, question for the guys out there I guess. Seems every woman now is pretty much hairless, I'm blonde and soft, but my skin is so sensitive I break out in a nasty rash if I even attempt to get rid of it. Is this a real problem for you guys? A real turn-off?

NO!!!!!!! A hairy pussy is GREAT! Beats the heck out of those razor bumps.

 

As a middle age guy, it's a real "Turn On" to feel that soft hair & play in it!

 

Let it Grow, let it Grow, let it Grow...

[scott17201 15]

I love a woman that has a thick full bush. I love a 70s-80s bush, it is such a turn-on for me.

[CXXC 435]

ACK!!! I already answered this one! What is WRONG WITH ME????

[Cpl2share 147]

We both prefer nicely trimmed although Mrs. Cpl likes a shaved cock & balls with trimmed patch above. Shaved pussy just makes both of us feel like pedophiles. Just our take on it. Plus the stubble iritates both if us. Mrs. Cpl also prefers that any face coming in contact with her pussy be clean shaven, hates the razor burn from stubble.

[ViSexual 1,008]

I so agree! Women who shave are just too girl-like. And, if your tongue finds a little hair later on it's just a nice reminder!

[LFM2 1,482]

Mrs. CXXC prefers both her men and women lovers to be hairless. She finds the smooth skin very sensual. The visual is another point for her. It just looks cleaner. Add the fact that she is not going to end up with a mouth full of organic dental floss...BONUS!

 

As for me, I just love the feel and touch of smooth and hairless flesh. Any woman who keeps her lips and mound smooth can count on as much oral pleasuring as she desires by me. I just love it.

 

This is us to a T!

 

I dislike going down on a man who's hairy. It's funny that they prefer their women trimmed, yet don't trim themselves and their cock and balls are so furry that it almost makes me gag just thinking about going down on that. What the hell is up with that?

 

Dave loves his women hairless and smooth, and for the same reasons as Mr. CXXC.

[metroman 17]

I love hairy pussy...funky pussy, not so much! I'm not big for eating off a dirty plate either.

[CXXC 435]

I love hairy pussy........funky pussy, not so much ! I'm not big for eating off a dirty plate either.

 

Metroman

 

Ummm.... So tell us. What do you think? Is harry pussy better? HA HA HA HA! Don’t hold back man! Be honest!

 

It is interesting how fashion and fads occur. The porn industry has guided the "Hair styles" over the last few decades. At one time, Shaving was a niche group. After a while, virtually all the women in the porn industry were shaved. Now, those with hair have become the niche.

 

I for one am happy to have the shaved or hairless as the main stream. However, I am noticing the trend is starting to slowly turn toward some hair again. Not the full bush that metroman enjoys so much but the trimmed or landing strips etc....

 

Who knows what the next fad will be. Perhaps women will start using colored dyes! The rainbow might become the next hair style! LOL

[metroman 17]

I so agree! Women who shave are just too girl-like. And, if your tongue finds a little hair later on it's just a nice reminder!

Thank you so much - was beginning to feel like the lone ranger. Neither of us shave and my wife's full bush is soooo sexy! (btw, she likes it too).

[prometheius 137]

Women who shave are just too girl-like.

 

I too, prefer the hair. I don't like stubble and no hair at all can make a woman look prepubescent. I guess having a preference for clean shaven is like blue cheese, you have to acquire a taste for it.

[metroman 17]

Metroman

 

Ummm.... So tell us. What do you think? Is harry pussy better? HA HA HA HA! Don’t hold back man! Be honest!

 

It is interesting how fashion and fads occur. The porn industry has guided the "Hair styles" over the last few decades. At one time, Shaving was a niche group. After a while, virtually all the women in the porn industry were shaved. Now, those with hair have become the niche.

 

I for one am happy to have the shaved or hairless as the main stream. However, I am noticing the trend is starting to slowly turn toward some hair again. Not the full bush that metroman enjoys so much but the trimmed or landing strips etc...

 

Who knows what the next fad will be. Perhaps women will start using colored dyes! The rainbow might become the next hair style! LOL

 

Visually, the feel, the softness - all very sensual. Mrs. has me spoiled! She let it all grow back in about 4 mos ago after shaving for 2 yrs. We are both enjoying it very much. She decided she was just shaving because she thought "everybody" was - told her my preference - she made the decision.

 

At middle age, we aren't so pulled by peer preasure or what "everybody" does. NOT a fan of the shave bumps either!

 

I'm not a big porn fan nor strip club patron since most all shave & look pre-puberty. I watch "real sex" once in a while. I do agree they (porn) are effective in getting women to think the way they want and I also believe the trend is headed back to hairy in some form (thank goodness!); just like movies are starting to show frontal shots on guys now (equality for women is good).

 

My favorite Hot Babe is the one that gets out of our shower in the mornings!!!

 

I'm not one to turn it down for lack of hair but not afraid to say my preference...

 

A passionate kiss can get me going as quick as anything!

[metroman 17]

Women who shave are just too girl-like.QUOTE]

 

I too, prefer the hair. I don't like stubble and no hair at all can make a woman look prepubescent. I guess having a preference for clean shaven is like blue cheese, you have to acquire a taste for it.

 

I still can't handle Blu cheese! CXXC had a good point on this. Maybe it's an age/generation thing. We've noted a lot of young women(20's) shave and even their arms!?! A couple months ago, Cosmo said it's a generation thing - - don't believe everything I read. I think "today's woman" is strong enough to make their own decision between them & their spouse. Ladies, want to know what your man likes? Ask him.

[TwoAreLooking 58]

You said that you break out in nasty rashes, if that is so, I suppose that is a issue, I've never personally heard of anyone having a probably shaving, but with really sensitive skin, anything is possible, and if you can shave, i guess waxing is out of the question...

 

New on the board and going back to read older posts....

 

SO grateful that hair is not a turnoff for many and is a turnon for some, as I (the F part of this couple) can't shave down there at all. Instant rashy, itchy, ouchiness. I can shave w/no problem up to about the upper thigh level, and then there are problems. I am still a bit self-conscious in a swimsuit, but age has brought wisdom: I look like I have some horrible infecting disease when I shave, so I just grit my teeth and have fuzzies. Which I hate. But them's the breaks.

 

Hey, that got long. Sorry if that's a bad thing.

 

He can shave with no problem, much, and doesn't mind. Looks fabulous shaved, so that's a frequent choice for us (I like going down on him shaved, too). Bless his heart, he loves going down on me and likes me to look like an adult...