herpob 573 Posted October 28, 2022 I would love for several Universities do in depth detailed studies on this and more so much more. For me, one of two main things I would like to know is, how many males with female partners get aroused by bi sex? Then under pressure of bi sexual video inundation (or live - whatever is available), how many males sitting naked with their female partners talking about all the action taking place in front of them - would not have any sexual response and how many would get hard, leak, and squirm clearly at various stages of arousal throughout. Give us those numbers including time frames of stages of arousal (based on visual observation and questioning) and then poll them again as to whether bi sex arouses them. Ask their female companions based on observations what they believe. I am so curious about this for several reasons. Over the years I have met so many couples who had similar experiences: the wife found a variety of porn on her husband's computer leaning towards a specific focus, tablet, or phone; the female partner discovered movie charges of a particular nature; most role play involved relaxed mfmm play, husband prefers more and more cum play, anal play; boyfriend take longer to get hard until group sex acts are introduced where more males than females are involved with relaxed male interaction. Honestly I am not certain how to word it all but their stories had that same ending. The female, girlfriends, wives eventually had their light bulbs light up. They asked the men they were with various questions, are you gay? No. Would you be okay with being around gay males during sex? No. Are you bisexual? No. Would you be okay having sex if bi males were in the mix? No. Do you get aroused by watching male bisex? And so on. These men always saying no, many - Heck No! Yet when each of these ladies came up with similar ideas of getting them naked, showing them the bi porn, pictures, slips, movies, reading the stories, talking to them about it, going over bi role play scenarios each men was hard, leaking, and quite turned on. The longer the ladies went the more the men were ready to pounce them - lol. The stories were very humorous. To ask this of the couples on our group 100% of the men would be aroused. Even the few who do not admit it verbally, their bodies say otherwise. Sort of a fun factoid as above. The mouth may remain silent or even say no but the body speaks volumes. So total guesses here for the fun of it based on people you know, how many or what guestimates/percentages would you say men around would get aroused under the scrutiny of the above? I know I have a quirky curiosity. It's just for kicks but wouldn't it be fun to see at least one couple sitting there and go, "oh, OH, OOOHHHHH! Oh my goodness This DOES turn you on." Yes I can also see it going the other way, SLAP, "Oh my gosh, this does turn you on!" I know if I were in the study or one of the wives above, I'd be so frothy I'd be the one pouncing and probably unable to stop the sex talk. Well bed time, my man should be home when I wake in the morning. I can barely wait! Have a great night all. Quote Share this post Link to post
BiloxiBiMaleMMF 63 Posted November 21, 2022 Sigh....This "study" you desire "arouses me" as a bisexual MWM whose wife would NOT be aroused. BUTT, it reminds me of all those "Letters to Abby" (or whomever she was) from women complaining about their husband's insatiable sex drive to which other's would respond "send him to me!" Isn't it odd that most of us make the TWO MOST IMPORTANT decisions of our lives (career and marriage partner) at an incredibly YOUNG AGE when we THINK WE KNOW butt learn that we DID NOT KNOW just how important SEX will be in our lives! Prior to childbirth (and even before we were married), we "fucked like rabbits"...fucked in the woods, fucked in some semi racy spots (hill tops above rest areas), fucked on boats, fucked in tents, fucked outdoors! BUTT THEN? POOF (child birth).....sexual SILENCE. Despite porn mags, porn vids, even swinger club visits, and the proverbial "Kitchen Pass" to FUCK ANY MAN YOU WANT (or woman)....it just DIED. Even after the child went off to college and beyond, sex was ......gone. Go figure. For an otherwise wonderful "lady," terrific Mom, outstanding "Grand Ma"...she just became a boring fuck. Oh YES, I asked a 1000 times "is there anything you want? anything you want to try? here? there? anywhere? Enter the world of bisexual MMF, 3somes when "PREVIOUSLY on LA Law" the threesome of choice was FMF or dare we desire FFM! There's no telling how many times I have lusted after Denise Richards and Neve Campbell KISSING in "Wild Things." And to think that Charlie Sheen dumped her (or vice versa). I have been fortunate to "sample" bisex so WONDERFULLY, it changed me. Not to sound crass, butt once tasting filet mignon, plain hamburgers (w/o lettuce & tomato) are just....plain. IMHO, a useful "study" would be to determine just how many of WE MEN have turned our "bisexuality" into "gay curious" as the result of an insufficient "supply" of women who ENJOY SEX as recreation hopefully, butt even bi itself with just a splash of fantasy! IF "herpob" (point of ???? belief?) ever finds herself w/o her lucky husband, the demand for her bi we sexually abandoned MWM's will set records should ebay start the bidding. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,718 Posted November 22, 2022 On 10/27/2022 at 11:06 PM, herpob said: I would love for several Universities do in depth detailed studies on this If you provide generous grant money, universities would be happy to submit proposals, do studies, and write detailed reports. Seldom do universities fund studies on their own. 17 hours ago, BiloxiBiMaleMMF said: Prior to childbirth (and even before we were married), we "fucked like rabbits". 17 hours ago, BiloxiBiMaleMMF said: BUTT THEN? POOF (child birth).....sexual SILENCE. Not with Clair, Lora, and me. Being pregnant, having kids, nursing, all that shit didn't slow us down at all. What actually happened was that as we got into our thirties our desires went up, while the guys' desires and abilities for long and multiple sessions decreased. That's why we women now share an outside boyfriend (with their approval) for those times we need it. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
NerdsAreFun 229 Posted November 22, 2022 There have been some studies that measured penile reaction to being shown hetero/lesbian/gay porn and matching that to questions that determined their homophobia. Surprisingly(or not), the homophobic groups have more response to gay porn. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
enhancer 1,586 Posted November 22, 2022 Really hope this doesn’t turn into another one of those all men are bi whether they admit it or not posts , because that would be incorrect. If you are bi or enjoy watching it cool, but please do not make it sound like everyone is, because you are. Some people really do not get aroused at all by it and actually find it repulsive to watch. You enjoy what you enjoy and let others decide what they do and do not enjoy. Quote Share this post Link to post
lovefest04 701 Posted November 22, 2022 I don't think the point is to say all men are bi. Just that many more seem to get aroused by gay or bi porn than admit it. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
herpob 573 Posted November 27, 2022 On 11/22/2022 at 10:20 AM, enhancer said: Really hope this doesn’t turn into another one of those all men are bi whether they admit it or not posts , because that would be incorrect. If you are bi or enjoy watching it cool, but please do not make it sound like everyone is, because you are. Some people really do not get aroused at all by it and actually find it repulsive to watch. You enjoy what you enjoy and let others decide what they do and do not enjoy. I agree - lets don't get all crazy serious here, this is a lighthearted fun post. On 11/22/2022 at 3:30 PM, lovefest04 said: I don't think the point is to say all men are bi. Just that many more seem to get aroused by gay or bi porn than admit it. You Got it! There are so many guys over the years I'd love to have them take this sex detector test. lol Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,459 Posted November 27, 2022 A psychiatrist friend once told me, "It's not what someone thinks that defines them as crazy, but what they do." 1 Quote Share this post Link to post