Where do I look?

[HHgirl 22]

I'm wondering what everyone uses to find the right person.

 

I've never considered myself a swinger, however I've had an extra through most of my marriage. Luckily my spouse is understanding and doesn't feel threatened as long as it's just about time with something I don't get at home.

 

I'm a nudist woman with a thing for large penises. I've initiated most of my relationships in a nudist setting where I can gauge the attraction to the person as well as the penis before I explore starting a relationship.

 

However, I'm ready to explore other ways to meet the right person.  Any recommendations?

 

[let's do it again 414]

You cann find a lover anywhere, it's when you get that look that is longer than a glance. My favorite places are in women's clothing department and churches, am I the only one that attends church to find a lover? Women's clothing department is also easy when you see a lady trying to decide if she would look good in a certain piece of clothing.  Tell her which color fits her best then strike up a conversation. All kind of available people out there, just go for it!

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

It sounds like you are more of a hotwife than a swinger (nothing wrong with that, just giving the correct title). As for finding others to meet, just about any dating site will give you what you are looking for, but looking for single men on swingers sites will give you men who are probably more prepared for NSA sex...and you will have no problem finding takers on the swinger sites (see: please visit our sponsors at the top of the page). There are also plenty of hotwife forums as well. Hope that helps some and don't feel like you can't spend as much time here as you would like.

[couplers 4,640]

On 12/13/2022 at 9:51 AM, let's do it again said:

am I the only one that attends church to find a lover?

When I first got over my jealousy and wanted hubby to play, I found women from among my friends and acquaintances.  (I wanted to control the situation, so I chose the women.)  Several of them were from among my church friends.  I was surprised that they were willing.  One girl who had limited sexual experience and felt somewhat guilty about it, was hesitant until I said to her that I needed help with "my wifely duties."  When I put it that way she was good with it.  Legitimized it.

[enhancer 1,585]

You are a woman with a thing for bigger penis’s so you are in luck!  On just about any dating site that allows it all you will see from guys is pictures of their penis so it will be easy to size them up.