Wife Bi, husband watch

[M & D 1]

Brand new to this lifestyle and to navigating the website. My husband is a straight male, I’m a bi sexual woman. We recently discussed exploring my sexuality a little more to add to our sex lives. He is interested in watching me have sex with another woman and isn’t interested in participating. That being said we’re both new to this a land little unsure of ourselves. What are some fun things to do to experiment with my sexuality before we meet a woman. We’ve watched ffm porn before during sex. Anything else you guys and gals have played with?

[njbm 2,869]

Toys, such as vibrators. Blindfolds. Gentle restraints, such as handkerchiefs. Video yourselves. There’s a few top hits. 

[njbm 2,869]

A woman wanted to spice up their marital sex life. So she got naked and wrapped herself in saran wrap and answered the door when her husband arrived. He said “Leftovers again?”

[enhancer 1,585]

Welcome to the site!  What you are looking for is not that uncommon at all.  I would suggest for you two to look for another couple with the same interest as you.  A bi wife that just wants to play with another woman and a husband who is understanding of that.  It will be a hell of a lot easier then finding a single woman who just wants to play with you while he watches.  You will find that near impossible to make happen.  
 

We had a couple that we played with multiple times with that exact condition!  Only the women played with each other and the husbands both watched and played with their own wife after.  The missus was able to have some amazing woman on woman experiences this way. I was perfectly happy with that arrangement, but eventually it became more then clear he wanted more then that even though my lady had absolutely zero interest in him.  They eventually split up and our play time with them ended.  Of course he contacted us after wanting to hook up which just wasn’t going to happen, because he was of no interest in the first place.

[lovefest04 699]

hello M&D

 

What I hear you asking is how can we tiptoe into the swinging lifestyle.

 

Of course there are toys, movies, books, erotic stories that you can do together but those generally don't get you out into the world where the opportunity for a lot of stimulation exists that isn't just the two of you.

 

I highly recommend the above to add spice and to 'research' what makes you excited and that research will also provide ideas for future activities. Google 'erotic stories' there are sites by Literotica, Eroticstories dot com, and sex stories.com to name a few. You can sort by taste and enjoy the fantasies of others.

 

But...I would also suggest getting outside the 'two' of you and play games in the real world. The idea is to begin to look outside yourselves for sexy ladies without having to go where you might be uncomfortable.

 

1. Just go out together (husband and wife) and "i spy" woman that attract you. See if your husband can point out ladies that you find attractive. Talk about her yes objectify her, but just between you two. Wear sexy clothes or a dress without panties, have you husband play with you during this game.

 

Maybe go out for dinner and play this game about other diners. During dinner getting touched under the table by your husband while you focus on another sexy lady might be fun. Or even touching yourself.

 

2. Go to a nude beach or practice a little exhibition at a park, movie etc. I'm not saying to get arrested, just be sexually playful.

 

3. Go to a gay bar, in your case, preferably a lesbian or bi bar. Flirt and strike up a conversation. Not sex, just friendly like. Go home or into your car on the ride home and have your husband play with you or play with yourself while you describe a women you found sexy to your husband. the more detail the better.

 

4. Write an erotic story. Masturbate during and after.

 

Just a few thoughts.

 

Have fun.

 

[M & D 1]

Thank you so much everyone for the welcoming advice. We considered creating a profile somewhere and me dirty messaging with another woman back and forth as a way to start. Had anyone done that? Was there a specific place you looked for that?