bigboi101 11 Posted March 24, 2023 Been with gf over 5 years now, sometimes feel like sex life is getting boring. She's mentioned fucking other people before but we never did it. One day her best friend and her bf are visiting us. We have a few drinks and eventually we play truth or dare. Truth or dare ends with the 2 girls making out naked. I go over start fucking my gf and the other guy does the same. Eventually move to bedroom and switch partners. I'm happy with the friend but while I'm fucking here I see the bf fucking my gf. I'm not insecure about my dick, it's a good size( 7 inches) but the friends bf had the biggest cock I've ever seen. Must have been 9 or 10 inches and very thick. My girlfriend was squirming and she told me she came three times while fucking him. I think I enjoyed watching her get fucked by that massive cock more than I enjoyed fucking her friend. We're visiting them again soon and I hope I get to watch him fuck her again. Any tips? 3 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
MidwestHoneys 356 Posted March 24, 2023 Your gf is lucky to find the two biggest dicks. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post
bigboi101 11 Posted March 24, 2023 She is indeed. I definitely enjoy watching her get fucked more than fucking her friend though. Think I'd be happy to even go for an MMF threesome Quote Share this post Link to post
bigboi101 11 Posted March 24, 2023 Yeah it's good to have another couple so no one's left out but I'm definitely more into the idea of her being with someone else. We'll definitely try a bigger group soon though. I'd like to see her spitroasted, one of my biggest fantasies. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
TricianMike 767 Posted March 24, 2023 1 hour ago, bigboi101 said: I'm not insecure about my dick, it's a good size( 7 inches) but the friends bf had the biggest cock I've ever seen. Must have been 9 or 10 inches and very thick. Talk about Unicorns, your gf hit the pot of gold. From real experiences of being up close to many penises, very few are really 7 inches and maybe one in a thousand are the Loch Ness monster. I don’t call myself an expert yet my thrill comes from unveiling a monster and from my many unveilings I am still looking for Nessy. (I stole that from someone else’s post). I found most guys might even think they have a 7,8,9 or 10 inches, in reality very few are over 6 or so, and most women just accept what guys brag about. Does size matter to me? Yes!!! 1 4 Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,588 Posted March 24, 2023 10 hours ago, bigboi101 said: One day her best friend and her bf are visiting us... I think I enjoyed watching her get fucked by that massive cock more than I enjoyed fucking her friend. Am I the only one missing this? Did your girlfriend's best friend have a good time? Did you give her a couple of Os? Since she was stepping down a size or two in dick size, were you extra skillful? Did you give her oral? Did she have to go back to her bf to finish off? It's good that you like watching your gf getting fucked and enjoying herself because if you don't take extra good care of the other woman, that's all you may be doing. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post
bbarnsworth 2,636 Posted March 24, 2023 9 hours ago, TricianMike said: ... maybe one in a thousand are the Loch Ness monster. So THAT'S where Nessy has been hiding! 😄😄 Ok maybe you stole it from another post, but it's still flippin' hysterical :) My wife did find Nessy with one guy. Absolutely huge dick. Downside; he had great difficulty in getting a truly hard erection. My wife still played with him all afternoon though. 1 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
TricianMike 767 Posted March 24, 2023 6 hours ago, bbarnsworth said: So THAT'S where Nessy has been hiding! 😄😄 Ok maybe you stole it from another post, but it's still flippin' hysterical My wife did find Nessy with one guy. Absolutely huge dick. Downside; he had great difficulty in getting a truly hard erection. My wife still played with him all afternoon though. Our therapist who always keeps a very straight face almost burst out laughing when I used Nessy as a euphemism. I have told men I want to see their Loch Ness Monster, some understand, some don’t have any idea. It’s no surprise that some men are bigger when flaccid which plays into my want of that first look of a man. A larger flaccid one reminds of all those pictures we see of Nessy sticking its neck out of the sea with that bend. Size is easy for me to estimate, I know exactly how wide my hand is, very few are two hands. I have been with men not getting totally hard, a few, no matter the size I still have fun, I never blame him or myself for it. Size is more important to me in that initial showing, less important in the sex act. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
NoAngels 330 Posted March 24, 2023 All this size comments and my Angel barely ever makes a comment that a partner was too big or too small. I never heard that she couldn’t feel me due to being with a larger man. What gives here? I get the idea of seeing a big one but not that a big one ruins a woman for anyone else. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
bbarnsworth 2,636 Posted March 25, 2023 5 hours ago, TricianMike said: Our therapist who always keeps a very straight face almost burst out laughing when I used Nessy as a euphemism. I have told men I want to see their Loch Ness Monster, some understand, some don’t have any idea. It’s no surprise that some men are bigger when flaccid which plays into my want of that first look of a man. A larger flaccid one reminds of all those pictures we see of Nessy sticking its neck out of the sea with that bend. Size is easy for me to estimate, I know exactly how wide my hand is, very few are two hands. I have been with men not getting totally hard, a few, no matter the size I still have fun, I never blame him or myself for it. Size is more important to me in that initial showing, less important in the sex act. I found out something about estimating penis size recently. This was an actual study done, not some quack survey online. If a man's ring finger is longer than his index finger, he has a higher chance of having a long penis. They're also more likely to be nice to women. I'm really not making this up. https://www.livescience.com/49883-finger-length-in-men.html I encountered a guy in a group shower once. This was in the Navy. He had a very large cock. I'm sure he was a shower, not a grower, but I sure as hell wasn't going to ask him! Laughingly stereotypically, he was from Texas. I still sometimes fantasize about my wife playing with mr. huge cock. In particular, the two of them on their sides, him fucking her from behind, his hand on her breast, and she's moaning and looking into my eyes. Ok I gotta go now 😄 2 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
divenaked 325 Posted March 25, 2023 13 hours ago, bbarnsworth said: I found out something about estimating penis size recently. This was an actual study done, not some quack survey online. If a man's ring finger is longer than his index finger, he has a higher chance of having a long penis. They're also more likely to be nice to women. I'm really not making this up. https://www.livescience.com/49883-finger-length-in-men.html I can say I'm on the wrong side of the chances. My ring fingers are definitely longer than my index fingers....... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
bbarnsworth 2,636 Posted March 25, 2023 Divenaked, you've got that backwards. If the ring finger is longer than the index finger, chances are you have a longer penis and are nicer to women. Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,386 Posted March 25, 2023 On 3/24/2023 at 2:39 PM, NoAngels said: All this size comments and my Angel barely ever makes a comment that a partner was too big or too small. I never heard that she couldn’t feel me due to being with a larger man. What gives here? I get the idea of seeing a big one but not that a big one ruins a woman for anyone else. My wife says the same, she has never had a dick on which she hasn't been able to orgasm. She just needs to work it differently, sometimes cowgirl is necessary, but that's about it. Same from my experience with women's vagina, I've never had one to loose or slick for me to cum. One woman in our group is loose and when I'm going sloppy seconds with her it is a struggle because of the lack of tightness and friction. But you know, we make it happen and it is the most intense feeling. 3 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Anon321 521 Posted May 4, 2023 On 3/24/2023 at 4:39 PM, NoAngels said: All this size comments and my Angel barely ever makes a comment that a partner was too big or too small. I never heard that she couldn’t feel me due to being with a larger man. What gives here? I get the idea of seeing a big one but not that a big one ruins a woman for anyone else. There seems to be quite a few different opinions on how important size is. Not all women prefer a huge cock although in my experience it seems most do. Quote Share this post Link to post
MrMrsswinger 202 Posted May 4, 2023 (edited) Great story. I always find it amazing how everyone on these boards is above average. Every study ever done concluded the average erect penis is between 5-5.5 inches, with a standard deviation between .5 and .75 inches. Yet every man who writes about his states it is 7 inches. Without exception. The OP states his is 7 and his girlfriend's best friend is "9 or 10". Stunning. So the OP is three standard deviations beyond the average and this other guy is over 5 standard deviations from the average. The OP is nearly in the 0.3% of the population (3 standard deviations from the mean) and this other guy is basically in the nearly incalculable group. As for the orgasm during intercourse...my experience has been that women tend to orgasm when the man hits the g-spot, which can be done via modified missionary. The thickness isn't the issue, it is where the man is hitting inside the woman. Edited May 4, 2023 by MrMrsswinger 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
enhancer 1,582 Posted May 4, 2023 Honestly it sounds like you are more suited to mfm than swapping and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that! My first choice is always her with other people over me with other people, because I love watching her in action. As far as the dick size conversation it makes no difference at all to her what the size of a guys dick is! For her what is important is his looks, body type and personality. If he has those things going on and is a good lover she will cum non stop like she always does. Hell she cums just as much when she is getting her bi on with other women. I am on the larger side of things, but have never thought that it makes me something special and I have never used my size as a selling point to others, because I think it is ridiculous. I won’t throw out the inches, but if anyone wants to think I am making shit up they are welcome to look at some of our older galleries on this site. She likes it, but that is, because she likes the person it is attached to. It isn’t why she is with me. I already bottom out in her so bigger is not something that interests her. I do understand however why guys would enjoy seeing their wife handle a bigger cock. It is a visual thing. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,588 Posted May 6, 2023 On 3/23/2023 at 7:47 PM, bigboi101 said: I definitely enjoy watching her get fucked more than fucking her friend though. On 5/4/2023 at 3:32 PM, enhancer said: Honestly it sounds like you are more suited to mfm than swapping With all the talk of MFM, we women who enjoy watching our husbands with another woman are forgotten. For me, it is tremendously exciting to watch hubby or Red giving and getting pleasure from another woman. It makes me unbelievably jealous, but in a good way. The only problem is that unlike being in an MFM where I can take and please a second guy immediately after the first, he takes time to recover. Guess it's good we girls are bi, something to do during the interlude. Quote Share this post Link to post
SheernylonCpl 38 Posted June 16, 2023 Helen here and what I look for in a guy is longevity and looks really. Cock rings take care of a lot of the staying power. Our group orgy most weekends in each others homes and it is a wonderful lifestyle 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Billygoat 443 Posted June 17, 2023 First congratulations on having a great first experience. And if you all are building that special friendship it makes the experience/experiences together that much better. Enabling you all to experience a wide range of activities/fantasy with each other’s consenting participation. Especially over time, no need to rush, as each comfort level broadens. One responding poster mentioned her. Hand/closed fist. This is quite accurate and something we would explain and show our guests that belonged to our semi closed party group. The woman, or man makes a fist and you measure across the knuckles, most women are around 3 inches across on average. But once you know this you can easily determine approximate size/length of the man’s erection. Our many years of experience have proven that the majority of men do in fact average a little over 5” (plus or minus up to .75” variances). Our party group had many themes including multiple male events for women to experience if they had that desire. I actually had a stable of single and married (allowed to play alone) men that were verified that would not only show up when invited were actually “test drive” at previous events at our parties and other party locations. Their inclusion into our group was loosely measured by the women in our group who played with them. Following rules, guidelines, reliability, ability to participateplay well with others and a passion to please/pleasure women. Girth was harder to determine. We based it by telling women/men to save a toilet paper role, cardboard tube only, and grasp it in the closed hand without crushing it. It allowed to practice both techniques til you are used to it. Seemed to work great. The males in our stable varied from mostly all average length but we also had several that were on the smaller side (most popular requested male was a little over 4” long and more slender in girth) was a great friend of mine, a great woman pleaser, fast to recover but would continue playing with the women until he was ready again. His biggest asset, J was a pleaser that had great skills, charm, average looks with a mischievous personality…..made women laugh and truly enjoy themselves. I had eight in the stable that ranged from 7” to 11.5 (6.25” circumference, measured by two women in our group) O had fewer adventures then those much smaller but had several ladies that always attended the party when he was making the two state travel to attend. Average larger length was 8 - 9, average girth for most but some that were crazy thick from average to longer length. Someone for everyone of the ladies in our group (married or single). In that the vast majority of women never orgasm via penetration only a willingness and skill set of oral and manual pleasuring for the ladies was a high requirement. my point is of course the vast majority of men are some where in the average everything range, very few in the OMG range. Also, I can state plainly that jumping from huge to below average the guys had no issue to cum when women were penetrated. (basing this on personal observation both behind the camera or in front of it, men’s comments and of coarse mostly the women responses, as it should be) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,588 Posted June 18, 2023 On 6/17/2023 at 3:36 AM, Billygoat said: the vast majority of women never orgasm via penetration only My experience is limited, but I question that. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
AdamGunn2 376 Posted June 18, 2023 On 6/17/2023 at 5:36 AM, Billygoat said: The woman, or man makes a fist and you measure across the knuckles, most women are around 3 inches across on average. But once you know this you can easily determine approximate size/length of the man’s erection. Our many years of experience have proven that the majority of men do in fact average a little over 5” (plus or minus up to .75” variances). Huh, worked for me. How many of you other perverts went immediately looking for a ruler? Quote Share this post Link to post
cplnluv1 870 Posted June 19, 2023 We laugh about all those huge dicks described by so many of the posters that soon disappear. I’m of the school that size doesn’t matter yet the very first swingers we met was bigger, big enough for us to notice in a picture that we were sure the profile was a scam. Ended up he was a bigger dick in other ways and the sex was memorable in that it was forgettable. His girlfriend is still our friend who has shared some stories that proves size doesn’t matter. The OP has an imagination that is even bigger than his tiny 7” and the friends 10”. He asked for tips? I think those were real big tips Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,386 Posted June 25, 2023 On 6/16/2023 at 5:43 PM, SheernylonCpl said: Helen here and what I look for in a guy is longevity and looks really. I have always been a slow cummer, so much so that a girlfriend from long ago (who was always able to pop one quickly) would ask, "What takes you so long?" Fortunately, my ex-wife and wife now enjoy a longer ride while I've become capable of speeding it up when a woman wants. At least that's how I interpret, "Cum in me! Cum in me now!" 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,386 Posted June 25, 2023 On 6/17/2023 at 3:36 AM, Billygoat said: In that the vast majority of women never orgasm via penetration only a willingness and skill set of oral and manual pleasuring for the ladies was a high requirement. On 6/18/2023 at 9:22 AM, couplers said: My experience is limited, but I question that. All but two of the women in our group of seven married couples can orgasm readily by dick in pussy penetration. The other two can usually cum that way, but need certain positions like doggy or cowgirl and to be in control in order to orgasm. It doesn't seem to matter whose dick it is. Sometimes with those two women the answer is just to ask if they prefer I go down on her for her orgasm. Licking her clit and her vagina opening, finger fucking, finger in and around her butt hole always does the trick. They still enjoy regular fucking and I always get to cum in their cunt. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
bbarnsworth 2,636 Posted July 1, 2023 On 6/25/2023 at 4:23 PM, Numex said: Fortunately, my ex-wife and wife now enjoy a longer ride Just curious here; one way of reading this is that you are still having sex with your ex wife? On 6/25/2023 at 4:23 PM, Numex said: At least that's how I interpret, "Cum in me! Cum in me now!" This for me makes it virtually impossible NOT to cum! When I was younger, I could pop off a few orgasms in a session. I cum a lot when I do. As I've gotten older, it's become increasingly difficult to get more than one. So, I work at hanging on and not cumming until I know the lady has had her fill. But, if I'm trying to hold off and she tells me "Cum in me!" ...it's over There's almost no way I can stop cumming at that point. Something incredibly sexy when a woman asks for your cum in her. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,386 Posted July 2, 2023 (edited) 16 hours ago, bbarnsworth said: Just curious here; one way of reading this is that you are still having sex with your ex wife? Sorry for the unclear writing. No, my ex-wife and I aren't having sex now, but she did and I assume still does, enjoy an extended session. My current wife Daniela and I are part of a closed group of married couples, so we all strictly do not play outside our group. My ex and I did, however, have sex during and for a while after our divorce. It was easy, familiar, and convenient for the both of us during that busy time in our lives. It goes without saying that bad sex was not the cause of our divorce. There was a short overlapping time when I was fucking both my ex and Daniela before we got married. Daniela knew what I was up to and as I suspected and later confirmed, Daniela was doing a farewell tour with a few partners before we decided to get married and become monogamous. For a while. I was happy that way, but recognized that Daniela needed variety and more sex than I (or any one man) could provide, so it was my idea to let her hotwife at first. 16 hours ago, bbarnsworth said: I work at hanging on and not cumming until I know the lady has had her fill. But, if I'm trying to hold off and she tells me "Cum in me!" ...it's over There's almost no way I can stop cumming at that point. I can go a long time and stay hard, but have some difficulty orgasming. Mostly, I enjoy the prolonged ride. When I get the cue that a woman wants me to cum, I can concentrate and ejaculate. Edited July 2, 2023 by Numex 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
bbarnsworth 2,636 Posted July 2, 2023 I had something a bit similar; long term girlfriend and I broke up, and we kept on having sex for many months after that. We've remained very close friends ever since, though the sex stopped. She's aware my wife and I are non-monogamous. My wife is perfectly ok with me having sex with her again, but it's not going to happen. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post