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I haven't seen this addressed here, so I was wondering if anyone has been scammed or attempted to be scammed while swinging? Now we have had single guys lie about having a partner or one couple wanted me to loan them a sizable amount of money. So has any swingers tried to blackmail or scam you?

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Most of the profiles pretending to be a single hot woman that is just so horny for anyone with pictures straight from a porn site are scams!  Can’t believe there are people desperate enough to fall for them.  If it looks to good to be true then it is.

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23 hours ago, enhancer said:

Most of the profiles pretending to be a single hot woman that is just so horny for anyone with pictures straight from a porn site are scams!  Can’t believe there are people desperate enough to fall for them.  If it looks to good to be true then it is.

Well in all humility, I consider myself to be THOR himself. My rugged good looks, and massive hammer tend to drop the jaws of all who beholden them!! I AM too good to believe, but the burdens are mine to bare :) Stay safe and watch out for the creepers :)

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cplnluv1    861

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Yes we were scammed in the beginning by more than one poster. Couples who mysteriously became a single man, picture grabbers, & no shows. Woman who ended up being men, we were new to posting and didn’t figure out that women don’t need to see a nude picture of me, I only asked for clothed pictures. I only wonder what happened to my pictures, hope the guy rubbed a few out as others have said. We never were asked for money, we did pay for dinners that never went further. We never felt scammed for the dinners, we just figured the other party wasn’t ready and we’re truly curious. 

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