They recognized our profile

[TricianMike 772]

After registering on Ashley Madison we continued to check on our other profile which had a message left for us by someone we know. We never saw their profile in our searches so were surprised and frightened to see their profile picture when we clicked. We know them on what we would label a Hi, how are you basis. They are usually with others when we see them in a few local bars and now we were searching for those friends profiles. 
Mike and I responded in a very funny way, What are you doing here? 
We only thought of them as very vanilla socially active friendly, not lifestylers. 
Their response was a cell number so Mike called. Some very funny laughing conversation with a meeting set, we met them without their crowd of friends. Our conversation started with us telling them some of our history and them sharing theirs. I asked about which of their friends play but they were silent. That was a plus for us. 

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,389]

When we made our first online profile we quickly discovered a couple we know who live just a block away. They are the types who put their faces right on their public profile (we don't). In the interest of fairness we reached out and said "Hi" although never played with them bc they're not our type. We are friends now and they are a valuable source of local swing-scene info and gossip 😀 

[ROCKlandCpl 451]

We had pictures but the location was changed when we joined a search site. 
We figure now all will be friends and we will know them better after we play. 

[seanhere78 15]

Interesting find since AM isn't search friendly in my eyes.

[TricianMike 772]

1 hour ago, seanhere78 said:

Interesting find since AM isn't search friendly in my eyes.

After registering on Ashley Madison we continued to check on our other profile

 

Our other profile is on a swingers lifestyle site. AM doesn’t have couple profiles that I know of. I only see men when I log into AM. Maybe if I limited my search to a small distance i possibly will find someone I know

[cplnluv1 872]

A tip we were given years ago, there is nothing wrong if you meet those you know in a swinging situation, they are no different than you. You are both open and they want their privacy as you want yours. Life is short, meet them if you are interested. 

[herpob 564]

Have you ever shared pictures with a couple you were looking to meet only to get ghosted? Then see your pictures in a profile that was not you? Yes, we have had that happen. No more sharing like that. We have also had a few couples we thought we knew from our home town and we promptly made our profile more anonymous. Something about the hometown crowd, I don' know...

[TricianMike 772]

1 hour ago, herpob said:

Have you ever shared pictures with a couple you were looking to meet only to get ghosted? Then see your pictures in a profile that was not you? Yes, we have had that happen.

Did you report them to the administrator of the site?