Surprises in the lifestyle: Situational, Activity or Experience

[Billygoat 445]

The Queen and I had a impromptu conversation that turned into reminiscing about different memories of past experiences within our life style experiences, highlites if you will over coffee this past Rainey Sunday.

 

Not all were specifically about sex or sexual context but certainly all a result of our experiences in the lifestyle.

 

Thinking about it I thought it might be fun to list a few and see what others on this board might list.  It does not need to be just about sexual conquest.  Just those special or unexpected…..surprise, moments.  Good (hopefully) or not so good moments.

 

Here are a few of ours:

 

1.  The amazing relationships and friendships we had and in many cases still have to this day twenty plus years later.

2.  The deep loss felt when losing a great friend(s) as life moved on through moving, life circumstances (pleasant), the very few losses from separations, divorce, illness and death (non related to lifestyle choices or a result of)

3.  Lifestyle events, themes, parties and more intimate relationships (couples and singles/solo) and experiences with many of these LS friends.

4.  Sexual and fantasy exploration together.  Raw sexual discoveries, new experiences, sharing each other with more intimate others.

5.  How pleasantly surprised that we discovered that sex can be a great shared experience and not be defined as only an act of love but yet not change the affection or loving intimacy in a relationship.

6.  The shared sexual activities we have had while sharing each other; sex acts, activity, events, group play, new experiences sexually, sex activities/actions explored, learned, fantasies explored.

7.  Learning, sharing and practicing the great importance of deep, open and specifically detailed communication with each other as a couple as well as with intimate others.

 

What are yours?  In general, specifically or activity related.

 

if this takes off her and I would relate some of ours, specifically, to share with the group.

 

 

[let's do it again 416]

I had to think about this for awhile before I responded, I am the male half.   1. The nude beach in Jamaica! Jamaica has totally transformed my swinging experience. I feel like raw meat when we disrobe and couples approach us immediately. Since it is face to face we prefer it to all the online nonsense. 2. Unexpected catching people having sex! Whether it's walking into a bathroom or at a party it's always a thrill!

3. Mismatched couples, either by age or race it's always refreshing. We were surprised how seeing couples that doesn't look like they belong together. 

4. Animal sex. Attitude about sex goes a lot farther than looks for me. Give me that woman that has the "I don't give a fuck attitude "! Anal sex, 69,licking butt, shower sex, public sex, piss play, let's do it!

5. Memories. From the first time in college being picked up by a married woman to fuck her in front of her husband to fucking a young couple the night before their wedding at the resort. Last is all the women that I introduced them to take viagra themselves, anal sex, pissing or being pissed on, and licking their butthole unexpectedly for the first time!