Fist time

[Santokos 5]

How did you start ? How was your first time ? Did you start with a threesome ? As a couple ?etc

[NC_Seniors 518]

OH! When I saw that the title of this thread is “Fist Time”, I thought it was going in a comPLETEly different direction!   😂

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

As a couple with another couple.

[AdamGunn2 398]

Separate room foursome swap.

[couplers 4,640]

I came at it from the opposite direction.  Rather than being part of a couple who became non-monogamous, I was in sexual relationships with two men.  Both knew about the other.  One asked me to marry him, but didn't demand that I give up the other.  So MFM.

[EastInWest 1,524]

Soft swap, same room. Have told this story many times - practically liveblogged it here out of excitement, actually - but we'd started out kicking around the idea of MFM so I could watch her perform oral. We had different ideas about how to find a partner for that, until one day she had reconnected with an old friend and learned that her and her ex-husband, who were still intimate, were actively swapping. We lined it up with a trip to Las Vegas to join them at their house with another couple for a dusk pool party. I knew well enough to take a precautionary Cialis and talk through our limitations before we got there.

 

Mrs. E knew the ex-husband had always had it bad for her and the delight at finally getting his hands on her body was palpable. Eventually she was crouched down on all fours with her swimsuit top off and her hair up, bobbing away, her friend and the third husband were in the hot tub on the other end, and the third wife sat down next to me and went down on me, too. I remember thinking it was kind of a motion sickness feeling like the rising part of a roller coaster, knowing I could stop it but having no desire to do so, more afraid she would get cold feet before he came than anything else.

 

She didn't. In fact, he erupted hard enough and she was dazed enough that she didn't realize she'd spilled cum on her chin and neck when she got up and walked over to me, kind of in disbelief at what was going on. When she sat down to join in, that nearly pushed me over the edge and I had to stop for a beer - and a towel for my wife - and I eventually ended up finishing with the other wife with Mrs. E kissing my neck.

 

We took a quick shower when everybody went inside and took a minute to connect, and agreed that we liked what we'd done and didn't feel strange about it. There was another round of play that evening, she went down on the other husband on the couch while I screwed her from behind.

  

It went smoothly enough that we were ready for full swap with her friend and the ex-husband the very next night. I hadn't really planned it. We'd agreed that we wanted to try it, she pitched her friend in the lady's room, then they pitched us on it at the table of the lounge. We ended up in our hotel room at the old Hard Rock, Mrs. E bent over the opposite side of the bed while I did her friend from behind. They held hands and made a lot of eye contact, both with each other and with us. Was both the first time I'd put on a condom and the first time Mrs. E had been penetrated with one in years.

[ConfusedHubby 118]

Our first time was with a couple we'd met on SLS and chatted with almost daily for a month or so leading up to our meet.   They a bit older and seasoned in the lifestyle and we were very eager to learn so we essentially followed their lead.   We setup a date to meet an LS club and didn't really have any limitations or rules in place.  We'd discussed them, but found ourselves pretty comfortable all around.

 

When we get to the club and finally meet the couple in person, the female half of the couple takes my wife on 'a tour' of the club while I check in our booze and chat with the other husband.  When the wives come back down a few minutes later, my wife informs me that during the tour the other wife had laid her down on the bed and gone down on her.  I was a little disappointed to have missed both my wife's first extra marital sexual experience and first girl/girl experience and in hindsight, reflecting back, I think the other couple was trying to divide and conquer us, given we were noobs and they didn't want us getting cold feet.

 

Cold feet did not end up being an issue though and after a couple drinks and a little talk we transitioned up to the group room which was almost on a stage setup and began a soft swap foursome in there.   When we went in, we were all alone in the room, but the next thing we knew, when we looked up the room was packed with others sitting in chairs watching us play.  This threw me a bit--I didn't mind being seen (these days I thrive on it) but was not expecting an engaged and deliberate audience.  We continued our oral explorations there for a while, mostly in swap fashion my wife with the husband and me with the wife  until a room opened up.  

 

I remember the room was tiny like a closet with a bed in it and very hot inside, but it was private and more in line with what we were expecting and also better situated to observe what was going on.  I was excited to fuck the other wife and was getting a condom ready to do so, but after not using a condom for about 20 years, my dick was giving some resistance.    I remember switching to oral on the other wife for a while while I watched my wife sucking off the other husband and then helping my wife transition to going down on the other wife with me (her first time going down on a girl).  I actually have a very hot recording of this I'll revisit from time to time.  

 

Watching girl/girl doesn't normally do a ton for me, but seeing my wife devouring another woman in a state of lust did it for me and I positioned myself behind her and slid into her soaked pussy and was rock hard myself at this point.   I fucked her for a good few minutes as she continued going down on the other wife while the other husband knelt next to his wife's face so she could suck him off--it was all very hot to take in.  

 

It hit me shortly after that:  wait a minute, your dick is hard!   So I took the opportunity to slide out of my wife, try again with a condom (successfully this time) helped the other wife off her back and onto her feet leaning over the bed, and slid myself into my first new sexual partner since grad school.  I was pounding her hard and fast (the way my wife likes it and how I'd been trained over the years--at the time I didn't have much variation to my game) but the other wife was enjoying and had a squirting orgasm which was good for my confidence...  I find reaching climax in a condom to take a lot of work, but I was very close at that point when all of a sudden someone starts banging on the door telling us our time was up!   Bummer!!

 

After that we got ourselves cleaned up a bit and went back downstairs to the dance area.  The other couple was taking a walk outside to indulge in some 420 and we'd planned to wait, but once alone my wife told me she wanted to get out of there, so we caught an uber and shot them a text from the road.  

 

Back at our hotel we talked about everything that had transpired, what we liked what we wanted to do again.  She informed me that the other husband was having ED issues which I was oblivious too and she was a little disappointed not to be able to try sex with someone new as I had.   She also confirmed her bisexuality (more so than curiosity) and we agreed we loved the experience and wanted to continue swinging and then spent the rest of the night (early morning really) getting our money's worth for the hotel we were staying at.   

 

So to answer OP, our first experience was great--though we've become simultaneously pickier and bigger whores since.  (We're more picky for wanting physically attractive partners, but we're nastier and far less inhibited when the attraction is there.  

 

My advice:   Really take the time to enjoy the first experiences.   Pictures and videos are a great idea too...    at that point in our journey having sex with others was the ultimate aphrodisiac and would lead to weeks of us fucking each other non-stop at every opportunity for privacy.  The new relationship energy was through the roof (same relationship but completely re-defined) and life was just euphoric day and night.   Enjoy your journey and try to hang on to that mojo for as long as you can!!

[enhancer 1,585]

We started out with the two of us and a single unicorn female before moving on to swapping with couples and giving single men a chance!   After all these years we have been talking recently about what if anything we still want from this lifestyle.  It is looking like swapping and other men all together are probably going to be taken off the plate by her choice.  It seems we might just be all but leaving the lifestyle except if a unicorn happens to pop up again or a couple with a bi wife that is only looking for the girls playing with each other does.  Guys including many married men from couples have just been a big let down for her far too often.  She is more than happy with me being the only guy from now on.  I also could really care less about fucking other women.  I just end up wanting her more.

[SheernylonCpl 38]

We both were swingers before we coupled up and our first date was at a swing club. We have always done full swap and we are both bi