Jamison 57 Posted June 30, 2023 My wife and I have attended a few parties, and we've been out on double dates where we participated in soft swap and hard swaps depending on the other couples preferences. However, when we started discussing the idea of opening our relationship to others the thing that my wife couldn't get out of her head was when I mentioned hotwifing and I told her just the thought that she could be out there cheating on me with another man was sexy as hell. The idea of cheating turned her on. She couldn't get it out of her head. She loved the naughtiness of cheating. So she took it a step farther. She agreed to us sleeping with other people but she wanted it to feel like a real affair. As she talked she laid out what she desired this to look like, I was incredibly turned on by the entire thing. So I agreed to her requests. They were pretty simple. 1. She and I sleep with whomever we want, excluding each others family. 2. We can play solo with anyone we want. 3. She never has to tell me who she is sleeping with nor ask permission. 4. I am permitted to do anything in my power to catch her in her affairs. 5. If I catch her I have to confront her and then she will tell me everything. In an effort to catch her in the slutty act I've turned myself into a bit of a super sluth. I purchased some nanny cams and hidden cameras and set them up throughout my house. I have 2 in the living room, 1 in the dinning room, 1 in the kitchen. 2 in the bedroom, 1 in the guest room, 1 in the master bathroom focused on the shower and the tub. I installed a ring doorbell to see whoes. I also bought a couple apple airtags and attached one under the seat of her car and I put one in the lining of her purse. I travel for work frequently and I have had a fair number of nights where I got to watch some very sexy videos of my wife fucking around behind my back. I've also caught her having sex in her van as well. And I even followed her to another guys house using the airtags and saw her having sex with a guy in his hot tub. 🔥 this sexy game of cat and mouse has become one of our favorite games. So I know most couples want complete transparency but does anyone else get off on the idea of your spouse fucking around behind their back? 5 Quote Share this post Link to post
let's do it again 414 Posted June 30, 2023 Hey, if it works for the both of you, go for it. Do you think your wife would try to investigate your extra activities? Quote Share this post Link to post
David Lovell 160 Posted July 2, 2023 My wife experimteted by cheating with her friends husband. Her friend participated the first two times. Then he asked if he could have one on one sex with my wife. The idea to involve me came about and we started to swing as two couples. I found out about the cheating part later on. Effetimely my wife made the decision that we should brcome swingers. Swinging definitely changed our sex life. Lots of new things like oral and new positions. Many years ago before we were married we swapped just time with friends. We now tp get back with them and have a fun time. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Anon321 522 Posted July 2, 2023 (edited) There are a lot of similarities here between me and my GF here however I think you took it one step too far with the cameras. While I think it would be hot to watch my GF on a camera with another guy without them knowing it wouldn't be fair and would be a violation of the person's privacy. I have caught her in the act multiple times and sometimes watched without them even realizing I was watching them until they saw me (this was often at parties, in public places, etc) but I never took it to the point where I was purposefully trying to violate their privacy with hidden cameras. I guess you can say cameras in the kitchen and living room could be fine (at least from a legal perspective) but in a bathroom and bedroom I think there is a certain expectation of privacy. While I think this would be hot I also think it would be wrong and therefore wouldn't do it. Edited July 2, 2023 by Anon321 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,416 Posted July 2, 2023 On 6/29/2023 at 9:04 PM, Jamison said: 3. She never has to ... ask permission. Before we became part of a closed swinging group that was my attitude, although I did prefer that she let me tell him beforehand that I was OK with it, it wasn't cheating. She always did because it made for a calmer situation, him not worrying about me catching them fucking in our home. On 6/29/2023 at 9:04 PM, Jamison said: 3. She never has to tell me who she is sleeping with... What Daniela and I both love is sharing every aspect of our past and current sex lives. I would be disappointed if she didn't tell me what she thought were the good parts of the sex she had with someone else. I always did the same. On 6/29/2023 at 9:04 PM, Jamison said: 4. I am permitted to do anything in my power to catch her in her affairs. 5. If I catch her I have to confront her and then she will tell me everything. That would be too much unnecessary work for me. Daniela would brag to me how good he was (whether I knew in advance or it was a surprise) and I would pull her pants down and pounce. Our secret to a successful marriage. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,640 Posted July 7, 2023 (edited) 10 hours ago, clover588 said: it was so hot to just be bent over, having my bf's dick in me, while all three of us were holding a conversation. Memorable for me have been the occasions when it's was the other way around. I've walked in on my boyfriend Red or husband David copulating with either Lora or Clair. It doesn't stop or slow down, we briefly chat, I ask if they want any "help" (sometimes they do), and move along. For some reason the casualness of it sticks with me during the day, even though we others almost always had or will have my own morning quickie as well. Edited July 7, 2023 by couplers Quote Share this post Link to post
David Lovell 160 Posted December 19, 2023 On 7/2/2023 at 11:37 AM, David Lovell said: My wife experimteted by cheating with her friends husband. Her friend participated the first two times. Then he asked if he could have one on one sex with my wife. The idea to involve me came about and we started to swing as two couples. I found out about the cheating part later on. Effetimely my wife made the decision that we should brcome swingers. Swinging definitely changed our sex life. Lots of new things like oral and new positions. Many years ago before we were married we swapped just time with friends. We now tp get back with them and have a fun time. Amy just told me that she cheated on me three times with Ken. His wife Lesley knew about it and encouraged it. Amy said the most exciting time was the third when she let Ken ride her. bareback and cum inside her. That was a special present for Ken's birthday requested by Lesley. Now that I know all the details she doesn't consider that she needs permission or a hall pass to have sex with Ken. She says it's more exciting when they do it secretly. 2 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
AdamGunn2 398 Posted December 20, 2023 16 hours ago, David Lovell said: She says it's more exciting when they do it secretly. Why? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
hunterdonNJcpl 1,389 Posted December 20, 2023 I totally get it. If my wife invites a couple over for the evening I'll be very turned on. If my wife texts me something provocative from a date she's having with a single male my libido starts doing backflips. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
David Lovell 160 Posted December 20, 2023 23 hours ago, David Lovell said: Amy just told me that she cheated on me three times with Ken. His wife Lesley knew about it and encouraged it. Amy said the most exciting time was the third when she let Ken ride her. bareback and cum inside her. That was a special present for Ken's birthday requested by Lesley. Now that I know all the details she doesn't consider that she needs permission or a hall pass to have sex with Ken. She says it's more exciting when they do it secretly. Amy called to tell me that she was on her way ho e from work and bringing Claire with her. Her husband, Pete, told her that she could have a hall pass for tonight. Amy said she would stay downstairs and watch TV then sleep in the guest room. Amy and Claire will go to work together in the morning, 1 Quote Share this post Link to post