We have a new friend...

[so_confused 4]

My wife and I have several friends and couples that we play with, both alone and together. Our only rule is that we end the day together. 

Our new friend has an enormous penis. It looks like a a tall boy beer can. I'm not intimidated by this, I was genuinely happy that my wife got to experience this new thing. 

We met him at a party and had a threesome. We both liked him and wanted to keep in touch. We have kept in touch and my wife has spent time with him a couple more times.

Ive been surprised at how much her vagina gapes when she comes home after seeing him. She doesn't normally gape. When we fuck afterwards neither one of us cums. I can stroke until I'm so tired my dick deflates. Everything seems to be back where it should be by the next day, but this is still alarming to me.

So I guess my question is, is this going to get worse as times go on? Is she being desensitized? Is the stretching going to become permanent?

Everyone has seen the size queens on dating sites who claim "i can't even feel it if it's less than 9 inches". I always thought it was some kind of bizarre brag. Is it real?

[TnA83 314]

I can't help as I'm only slightly above average at seven inches and rather skinny. (5 inches circumference)

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

If someone is doing this every day, it eventually might become more permanent, but the vagina is a very resilient organ...otherwise, no woman would be able to get pregnant after giving birth the first time (a baby is MUCH larger than this guys penis). If you (or her) are worried that this might become an issue, she can add kegels to her exercise routine.

[so_confused 4]

That's what I've always thought, until I've been close to it. Just the fact that she said it hurt the first couple of times, but doesn't any more makes me think something is changing.

We have some toys that are smaller than him that she's never been able to fit, before now.

[so_confused 4]

She's been doing kegels for 20 years.

[so_confused 4]

What you're saying makes perfect sense.

[Billygoat 445]

There is a lot that can be easily researched…..factual, scientific, anatomical and physiological information.

 

I can offer lessons learned and experiences from a very active lifestyle.

 

I can say from many experiences the the more relaxed, at ease, in the moment and truly aroused a woman is the more she can accommodate…..smaller or larger.  Most women when very aroused elongate and “tent” inside allowing her ability to accommodate most any size.  Just do not go after it rough and fast.  And with lots of lube if you’re a bit bigger or maybe she is not as wet.  
 

We had many open “orgy/group” themed parties, orchestrated 3/4/5 somes and specialized in hosting/providing fantasy and gangbang events.   I can tell you from experience that just because a woman just recently enjoyed a session with penetration the way she feels after depends on many other possibilities and not actually due to just having a large penis inside them.  Give it a few minutes, hours or days (it really depends and changes regurally) and everything bounces back.  
 

now, I can also tell you a woman can also take a 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 and accommodate each one, mix and match.  And have no trouble getting the man it is attached to to cum.  I have seen this first hand and experienced it dozens of times.  I’ve gone before someone smaller yet he steps in after and the women gets him to pop in record time.  I’ve gone after someone much larger the I and still experienced something very pleasurable, within a moment or two grip me quite well.

 

my wife up to menopause played with mos any man but not based on size.  She enjoyed havin 3-6 different male friends through an afternoon, morning or evening event.  Our stable had male friends that where not much bigger then a fore finger to our largest regular 11 long by 7 5/8 inch around, Oscar.

 

a woman who normal experience is average, suddenly faced with our friend Oscar, intimidated wasn’t the best definition.  Some ran away…..so to speak.  However every woman that spent time with him had no issue being able to take someone much smaller next.  Sometimes not right away but her body would relax a close over whoever was next.

 

 

 

 

[so_confused 4]

Thanks. Makes a lot of sense.