Looking for a mentor to help

[Couple507 3]

We are mature (early 50’s) married couple interested to explore a man joining us for a threesome but no experience and all the guys we have talked to have no patience. Any tips?

[AdamGunn2 398]

If they have no patience, they are simply not the right guy for you. If you're trying to find them on-line, state that patience is needed quite clearly. Unfortunately, if you're looking for them in the wild (at bars, for example, or swing clubs,) the long game isn't very valid in this situations.

 

Wait for the right guy, it will be worth it.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Single men are a dime for two dozen, and even more waiting in line for a chance. If they are not treating the two of you like special royalty, move on to the next one and block the previous one. You should EASILY find exactly what you are looking for, just list what you are looking for in detail in your listing (assuming you are using a site...if you are not, you should be). Just like going to a large auto mall when you are looking for a car...there are thousands of cars, don't take the first one or two that you see, look for the perfect match and then take it for a test drive before buying. Good luck...

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

Good men can be found in the lifestyle. My wife and I have found a few, and she's kept some of them around for a long time. You have to be discriminating in your profile, and be quick to pass over ones who aren't obviously measuring up. As others have noted, there are a lot of single guys in the lifestyle. Quite a number are duds, maybe even 50%. But, good ones are out there! Hang in there!

[Bluecollarbull 0]

On 8/13/2023 at 5:05 PM, Couple507 said:

We are mature (early 50’s) married couple interested to explore a man joining us for a threesome but no experience and all the guys we have talked to have no patience. Any tips?

Talk to me and let us know and enjoy a great friendship 

[kittyswinger 260]

On 8/14/2023 at 8:40 AM, AdamGunn2 said:

If they have no patience, they are simply not the right guy for you. If you're trying to find them on-line, state that patience is needed quite clearly. Unfortunately, if you're looking for them in the wild (at bars, for example, or swing clubs,) the long game isn't very valid in this situations.

 

Wait for the right guy, it will be worth it.

This is true. Most of our successful matches for mfm were single 'long gamer' guys. The waiting game is the best filter. 🙂

[njbm 2,871]

We mentored newbies one weekend, then played with an experienced couple the next weekend. Night and day. Not that excited to mentor in future. 

[njbm 2,871]

For the OP, join an online site like SLS, find a meet and greet near you, meet people. Phone numbers mean dates.