Soft Swap: Nude Massage for wife?

[Yourfunfriends 44]

My wife and I have talked about soft swap but haven't fully taken the plunge yet. Something that I've thought of recently that has turned me on is finding a good masseuse to give her a massage where either she or both of them are nude and I could watch. I don't want some guy that's just going to give her a fake rubdown, but a legit massage therapist that can relieve her tension, while also caressing and fondling her in a way that she likes. I love the idea of watching her enjoy herself and if she ends up getting turned on and wants to do some touching or playing with him, I'm ok with that. 

 

How hard would it be to find a legit massage therapist who might also be in the lifestyle? Of course this is all a fantasy for now, until she agrees to do it. 

[AdamGunn2 371]

1 hour ago, Yourfunfriends said:

How hard would it be to find a legit massage therapist who might also be in the lifestyle? Of course this is all a fantasy for now, until she agrees to do it. 

 

Short answer: Very! A professional masseuse wants to protect his/her reputation, and screwing clients and getting found out would sink them.

[GoldCoCouple 4,063]

While very popular in the porn world, in real life Adam hit the nail on the head. The only place I can even begin to think of is at Desires...they do have a massage with a 'happy ending' for women and men. But if you are already at Desires, you probably are already past this point.

[Yourfunfriends 44]

Thanks for the replies. I guess we'll just have to find a "friend" that just so happens to be able to give good amateur massages  

[TnA83 303]

To paraphrase a common swinger admonition:  It's better/easier to find a swinger friend that can give a nice sensual massage than a massage therapist that can give a nice happy ending!.

[J&Wu 408]

Sadly Club Relate and Lynda Gayle are gone now. She was so good at introducing newbies to the lifestyle both with an interview and question sesion in the afternoon before a dinner with several of the evenings regular attendees. Lynda always had at least one massage table reserved at the evening party when she would give each newbie a genital massage with the help of other members on other body parts, fun was had by all. I remember that after I came she got a warm damp wash cloth to clean me up, warm so I would keep my erection for the play area. Wu got introduced to the Eroscillator which one of the regulars had brought, he showed Wu how to use the different heads to get herself off. Another later time Wu was helping with massage and one of the larger cocked guys who had just finished fucking someone came to help too reaching around her dribbling more cum down her backside, perhaps trying to get her attention? Great times for all at the massage tables!

Edited November 2, 2023 by J&Wu