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By AdamInEve
We have read a few posts on this site about getting comfortable with others by easing into things slowly. Perhaps by playing naked games such as strip poker or truth or dare. We think this would be a good way for us as newbies to get comfortable with being naked around others in a sexually charged atmosphere. Perhaps the games could progress over a series of dates from just being naked to touching (erotic massage) to soft swap and hopefully all the way up to full swap. This way it might alleviate a good portion of the jealousy and nervousness that might accompany a first time straight on full swap.
Our question is this. It seems to us this would be a good way to start, but just how many seasoned swingers would actually be interested in answering an ad from a newbie couple that stated this is how they wanted to proceed? Would the more experienced swingers just pass this type of profile by?
Also, how would relatively new swingers, with just a few experiences under their belts respond (if at all) to a profile like this.
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By ddrewd
Julie, stop me if this question has come up before, but I couldn't find it through Search.
This question was inspired by another thread. I'm not asking about the initial contact, but after the first contact is made. Which way do you think is most effective at getting to know others before you meet face-to-face?
It comes down to 3 methods:
Chat
Email
Telephone
For me Chat is nervewracking. Even though I can type 50+ wpm, it moves too fast (when you're typing) and too slow (when the other person is typing). Yet, it's in real time which makes for a more natural and conversational exchange. And chatting creates a more uninhibited exchange than you'd likely have over the phone.
Telephone: With nationwide plans for cellphones, this is becoming a less-expensive option, though it's still costly. Yet, there's something about hearing a person's voice that tells you alot about them.
Email: my preferred method. It's like old fashioned letters only digitized. It's not conversation, but it gives you time to think, to ask and answer questions more creatively (though increasing the BS factor at the same time).
So, what'll be: Chat, Email or Phone?
Drew
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By Kittykat200
Hi All ?
I’m searching for new ideas for icebreaker and Sex games.
I have got some really good ideas from an older post (it’s 20 years old)
There must be some new great games now ?
I would love to hear your ideas ?
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By ken -N- lea
we play strip poker with a twist.
each player gets $10.00 in chips to start
when a player losses all of his/her money they sell a piece of clothing for mor chips each piece is worth $5.00.
when a player is out of clothes then they trade favors for more money.
we do this as follows:
kiss 30 seconds $1.00
oral 1 minute $5.00
intercourse 1 minute $10.00
this is a great ice breaker for new friends and newbies as the favors can be with your spouse if they have the money.
we have used this many times with great results lots of conversation with little pressure. its worked so well that we don't go any where without chips and cards.
as a twist you can make up cards with directions on them ie. winner and losser cards that after each hand the winner and loser pick each card has a direction on it, such as :winner get 30 second message from player of your choice. losser remove one piece of clothing.
the cards can be as wild or mild as you want
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By SoFlaCouple
Other than strip poker (although new variations on this are always welcome), any suggestions for sexy/intimate games for a threesome or foursome in a hotel room before diving into the main event?
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