Spicy Revelations: Unforgettable Moments with My Hotwife

[keywestfun 41]

My wife is hot, big huge breasts. So pretty you would never think she would say any of this. These are some kinky things said during sex,  I would love your opinion on, whether this is dirty talk or does she want to try some of these things. None of it offends me, it turns me on. 
 

• She wants to go down on a girl as I bang her from behind.
• She said she wanted to suck my dick with another girl. 
• She wants me and another person to suck on her tits at the same time. 
• One time when i was using a cockring that had another cock attached to it, I was roleplaying DP-ing her she said "I want all my holes filled"
• I want cum in all my holes at the same time. 
• She asked if I would lick someone else's cum off her tits? 
• Another time she said if you blindfold me and tie me up, you can do whatever you want to me and i wouldn't know. 

Also, We are in NWI maybe you could coach us, we haven't tried anything but some public sex on rooftops lol.

 

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

Why don't you ask her?

 

One of the keys to a successful swinger couple is that they have wide open communication with each other. When talking, there should be no judgment, no sarcasm, just consideration, understanding, and connection.

 

The things that she is saying may only be fantasies. It might be that she's intentionally dropping hints left and right so you'll ask. Either way, the two of you need to get better at communication. Try talking about these things outside of the bedroom. Bedroom talk is one thing, but being able to talk about it outside of the bedroom is important.

 

Feel free to ask us questions! We're happy to help!

[Numex 2,409]

Tell your wife it would make you happy for her to enjoy sex with anyone else she wants, in any way she wants. Let her decide what to do and never criticize her choices. Reward her with dinners out, shopping, vacations whenever she does something that she likes.

[keywestfun 41]

On 2/24/2024 at 9:51 AM, bbarnsworth said:

Why don't you ask her?

 

One of the keys to a successful swinger couple is that they have wide open communication with each other. When talking, there should be no judgment, no sarcasm, just consideration, understanding, and connection.

 

The things that she is saying may only be fantasies. It might be that she's intentionally dropping hints left and right so you'll ask. Either way, the two of you need to get better at communication. Try talking about these things outside of the bedroom. Bedroom talk is one thing, but being able to talk about it outside of the bedroom is important.

 

Feel free to ask us questions! We're happy to help!

That is great! Communication is key. Most of it is fun fantasy during sex talk, many times it's when we are frisky and a little buzzed. But last time this stuff came up sI think we were sober, she was using a vibrator, because she (accidentally) made me cum too with her hand! She was looking for a fantasy to get her off, she asked what I would like to see her do, I said def going down on a girl MAYBE sucking on another cock MAYBE! After that, she said we should go to a swingers club. MY fantasy would be in a dark theater, hmm what would happen. Nowhere around us though

[keywestfun 41]

23 hours ago, Numex said:

Tell your wife it would make you happy for her to enjoy sex with anyone else she wants, in any way she wants. Let her decide what to do and never criticize her choices. Reward her with dinners out, shopping, vacations whenever she does something that she likes.

Thanks, I love the advise, let her have her way and spoil her, but I don't know if i could do that, but i really do LOVE to watch her get off and I love the dirty talk! I also want to be there enjoying the experience with her. We did do a FFM once, them kissing, touching, a little oral, that was the hottest thing! So I know I can handle her using her hands and going down on a female, I would have to be buzzed to let her do the same to a male, no sex and I would have to be inside her one way or another to even fathom that. LOL

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

If you have to drink alcohol to be able to do something, you probably shouldn't do that something! That way lies regrets and problems.

 

I suspect (and this is TOTAL speculation) that you would probably enjoy your wife having sex with another man, IF she really got off on it and thoroughly enjoyed herself.

 

I also think it would in your case be a REALLY bad idea to do that right off. Take little steps. A good, active swinger club might be a good step forward, just to be tourists and play only with each other while there. That might be a good toe dipping experience.

 

But first...really talk this out with your wife. Understand each other's fantasies, fears, loves, insecurities, etc.

[couplers 4,615]

15 hours ago, keywestfun said:

I love the advise, let her have her way and spoil her, but I don't know if i could do that, but i really do LOVE to watch her get off and I love the dirty talk! I also want to be there enjoying the experience with her. .. I would have to be buzzed to let her do the same to a male, no sex and I would have to be inside her one way or another to even fathom that.

Work your way through your inhibitions of asking her what she wants, who she wants to do it with (male or female), whether she wants you there or not.  Once she feels comfortable doing what she wants, you'll love the adventure that she takes you on.  Believe me, the experience of getting over your doubts is worth it. 

 

 

Edited February 26 by couplers

[keywestfun 41]

On 2/25/2024 at 8:25 PM, bbarnsworth said:

If you have to drink alcohol to be able to do something, you probably shouldn't do that something! That way lies regrets and problems.

 

I suspect (and this is TOTAL speculation) that you would probably enjoy your wife having sex with another man, IF she really got off on it and thoroughly enjoyed herself.

 

I also think it would in your case be a REALLY bad idea to do that right off. Take little steps. A good, active swinger club might be a good step forward, just to be tourists and play only with each other while there. That might be a good toe dipping experience.

 

But first...really talk this out with your wife. Understand each other's fantasies, fears, loves, insecurities, etc.

 

[keywestfun 41]

You are so Right! Communication!  Yeah it’s the drinking for sure! Gets us frisky. we say dirtier things. But honesty Sober, she sucks on my finger as we are having sex or uses toys and we both talk dirty .Lots of cum talk lol! 
 

but we need to communicate all this sober you are so right ! I am unsure if I could see her with a man having sex, maybe oral no sex yet! I might let him cum on her tho lol thanks for advice!!!!! Wish we had a theater or swinger place to go visit and just watch  

[keywestfun 41]

On 2/25/2024 at 8:25 PM, bbarnsworth said:

If you have to drink alcohol to be able to do something, you probably shouldn't do that something! That way lies regrets and problems.

 

I suspect (and this is TOTAL speculation) that you would probably enjoy your wife having sex with another man, IF she really got off on it and thoroughly enjoyed herself.

 

I also think it would in your case be a REALLY bad idea to do that right off. Take little steps. A good, active swinger club might be a good step forward, just to be tourists and play only with each other while there. That might be a good toe dipping experience.

 

But first...really talk this out with your wife. Understand each other's fantasies, fears, loves, insecurities, etc.

Oops I responded to you below, on my phone and messed that up … be see my last response 

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

If there are no swinger clubs near you, you might be able to find a couple will to do same room sex with you as a way to dip your toes in the pool.

[keywestfun 41]

On 2/27/2024 at 6:33 PM, bbarnsworth said:

If there are no swinger clubs near you, you might be able to find a couple will to do same room sex with you as a way to dip your toes in the pool.

That sounds hot! My buddy asked to swap, I don't want to swap, maybe touching or a little more, but the same room is where i am comfortable. I have another couple that would love to be in the same room, I need a way to get us all together at the house.

[Numex 2,409]

On 2/25/2024 at 1:40 PM, keywestfun said:

I would have to be buzzed to let her do the same to a male, no sex and I would have to be inside her one way or another to even fathom that.

No, you need to be stone cold sober, not had sex for a couple of days, be tied to a post and watch your wife enjoying herself fucking the brains out of another guy. Or maybe two, because:

 

On 2/25/2024 at 7:25 PM, bbarnsworth said:

you would probably enjoy your wife having sex with another man, IF she really got off on it and thoroughly enjoyed herself.

 

 

On 3/2/2024 at 8:52 AM, keywestfun said:

I have another couple that would love to be in the same room, I need a way to get us all together at the house.

Invite them to dinner in a restaurant, and plan it out. Let the wives set the agenda at that meeting as to what will happen.

[keywestfun 41]

5 hours ago, Numex said:

No, you need to be stone cold sober, not had sex for a couple of days, be tied to a post and watch your wife enjoying herself fucking the brains out of another guy. Or maybe two, because:

 

Well i love that kind of porn MFM that tied up and kinda forced to take it  One of her fantasy's is to be tied up and blindfolded. Then she said I can do whatever i want to her. That is so hot to me ... because it hints to being very open and kinky. So i will do some research (wink wink) and imagine your concept, tie her up blindfold  but I fk the brains out of her and maybe have a surprise stunt cock in the corner for her to jerk off at the same time. (baby steps)

 

Invite them to dinner in a restaurant, and plan it out. Let the wives set the agenda at that meeting as to what will happen.

 

We do dinner often but i think the husband wants to bang my wife, I don't think his wife knows or is as kinky as mine. He offered her to me and said you can bang my wife if I can bang yours, he also talks about a mfm with my wife but doesn't want his wife involved in a mfm, so i need to think this one through. Maybe share Photos? hmm

 

[keywestfun 41]

On 2/26/2024 at 5:57 AM, couplers said:

Work your way through your inhibitions of asking her what she wants, who she wants to do it with (male or female), whether she wants you there or not.  Once she feels comfortable doing what she wants, you'll love the adventure that she takes you on.  Believe me, the experience of getting over your doubts is worth it. 

 

 

One time she woke me up as she was using a vibrator watching softcore on TV, that was hot (never happened before) So I was thinking if I could get her to pick kinky hot porn no judgment push the envelope, and masturbate in front of me. I can get a better grip, it's not easy to express verbally sometimes.

[Numex 2,409]

On 3/3/2024 at 7:52 PM, keywestfun said:

imagine your concept, tie her up blindfold

You got my suggestion backwards.  You need to be bound and not blindfolded and forced to watch your wife enjoy herself with one or two other men. After they finish you can be untied and see how much you want her.  That is how you get over your inhibitions and have the best sex ever.

 

On 3/3/2024 at 7:52 PM, keywestfun said:

i think the husband wants to bang my wife, I don't think his wife knows

Let the wives discuss how they want to play. It doesn't have to be an even trade, just whatever makes the women happy. 

[keywestfun 41]

15 hours ago, Numex said:

You got my suggestion backwards.  You need to be bound and not blindfolded and forced to watch your wife enjoy herself with one or two other men. After they finish you can be untied and see how much you want her.  That is how you get over your inhibitions and have the best sex ever.

 

Let the wives discuss how they want to play. It doesn't have to be an even trade, just whatever makes the women happy. 

OH, you are not kidding I need to be bound to watch, porn like that is fun but when it's your wife a little harder to fantasize, who knows maybe i would like it. Wouldn't that make someone a cuckold though?

[bbarnsworth 2,637]

6 hours ago, keywestfun said:

OH, you are not kidding I need to be bound to watch, porn like that is fun but when it's your wife a little harder to fantasize, who knows maybe i would like it. Wouldn't that make someone a cuckold though?

 

Meh, definitions. Maybe it would make you a cuckold, maybe now. Who cares? :) The point is, are you and your wife both enjoying it? That's the only thing that matters. Maybe you would enjoy it. Only one way to find out ;) That said, I agree baby steps are in order.

 

You noted earlier that the husband in the other couple is offering his wife to you...but his wife doesn't know? This seems highly contradictory. If she doesn't know a thing about any of this, then there are major red flags all over this. Either they are into it as a couple and are open with each other, or they shouldn't be a couple you play with, even if he's just playing for a notional MFM. I enjoy MFMs from time to time as the third, but it's always with full knowledge and consent of my wife.

[keywestfun 41]

16 hours ago, bbarnsworth said:

 

Meh, definitions. Maybe it would make you a cuckold, maybe now. Who cares? The point is, are you and your wife both enjoying it? That's the only thing that matters. Maybe you would enjoy it. Only one way to find out That said, I agree baby steps are in order.

 

You noted earlier that the husband in the other couple is offering his wife to you...but his wife doesn't know? This seems highly contradictory. If she doesn't know a thing about any of this, then there are major red flags all over this. Either they are into it as a couple and are open with each other, or they shouldn't be a couple you play with, even if he's just playing for a notional MFM. I enjoy MFMs from time to time as the third, but it's always with full knowledge and consent of my wife.

i might enjoy watching that, I will have to research and see if i can masturbate to that. LOL

 

True like I was saying neighbor was probably saying this stuff to try and bang my wife as we were watching football and drinking a beer. His wife is adorable but yes ONLY if my wife was down to mess around, I would. He was like yeah man we could have devil threesome with my girl, I just googled it I wonder if he meant bi stuff, what's the difference MFM, I'm not bi but some will watch MMF porn.  Nonetheless, I joked and said we can do that with your wife, he was like no I don't wanna do that with her, has to be mutual. But I'd try it if we could figure out my rules would be oral only and cum wherever!