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Are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers?  

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  1. 1. Are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers?

    • Yes, I think that voyeurs and exhibitionists are swingers.
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    • Maybe, tell me more.
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    • No, if they are eclusively voyeurs and exhibitionists and don't play with others they are not swingers.
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OK, I replied to another thread where the poster said they were into voyeurism and exhibitionism and said that he thought that made them soft swingers. My definition of swinging is that in order to swing you must have sexual interaction with others outside of your primary relationship, and soft swinging would be sexual interaction up to but not including penetration. So I wouldn't consider people who were into voyeurism and exhibitionism exclusively to actually be swingers.

 

My question is are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers?

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Since none of us "own" the word or definition of "swingers" its one of those things that are open for interpetation.

 

I ,however, agree with you. There has to be some touching to be considered swingers.

 

Having sex in front of others or watching others may be fun but if there is no contact except between the couples themselves then they fall into one of those big words you have in your thread title. :)

But if they want to consider themselves swingers to, then so be it. :)

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I would say that swinging would encompass voyeurism to the extent that it is mutual play. If two couples wish to stay with their spouses/partners, but would like to be in an open sexual environment and watch, they would be "soft swingers" in my opinion.

 

If - however - they decided that they didn't want to have sex - just wanted to stand against the wall and watch, I would think that they are not swingers... In the same way - people looking at monkeys in the zoo can't really call themselves monkeys - people who just watch can't call themselves swingers... Does that make sense?

 

Our first interest in swinging was "soft" in which we would watch others while they watched us. That didn't last too terribly long, but long enough for us to consider that a real "avenue" so to speak.

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If - however - they decided that they didn't want to have sex - just wanted to stand against the wall and watch, I would think that they are not swingers... In the same way - people looking at monkeys in the zoo can't really call themselves monkeys - people who just watch can't call themselves swingers... Does that make sense?

 

Makes perfect sense to me, this is actually what I am most used to seeing at the clubs when I refer to Voyeurs. It seems like some nights their are a bunch of what we refer to as gawkers who just sit in the corner and watch. More often than not if you aproach them and try to make conversation they beat a hasty retreat (leave).

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good times said:
...they beat a hasty retreat (leave).

 

Thanks for subtitling your foreign tongue...

 

;)

 

Yeah - these are just curious folks. There is not harm in them being there, but they are one of the reasons why we tend to do our playing in the rooms with doors closed. One night, Mrs Spoomonkey decided to go down on me on one of the couches. When she started, there was another couple across from us - and two more couples chatting some distance away... When my vision cleared back up, there were about two dozen people crowded around us like we had been in a bike accident...

 

I felt like saying, "okay - now you two do it" to some random couple...

 

We just had to shrug it off and go play upstairs...

 

And damn if a few people didn't actually try to follow...

 

Now I know why my club serves popcorn ;)

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I know what you mean Spoo, we were in the play room one night just getting into it when I opened my eyes long enough to notice that several other couples had followed us in. I still didn't pay much attention figuring they would get with it in due time. But then two of the women started giggling, and of course I thought they found something humorous about Mrs. GT's technique and imediately went from flag pole to wet noodle (lost my woody) in record time. Mrs. GT got a little pissed, especially when one of the women asked us to "please stay, we will watch quieter". As it turns out one of the couples has continued to come to the club regularly and actually asked me to do a whipped cream nipple shot on her a couple of weeks ago, which is the first time anyone other than her partner has touched her that I know of. She later told us that they were currently negotiating going further and would let us know. So you never know, everyone has to start somewhere, I guess.

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I guess you could argue that soft swingers are either voyeurs or exhibitionists since part of their fun is watching and being watched.

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We went to a Texas Rangers game the other night and it sure didn't make us professional baseball players, nor were we offered their salary. If you are a spectator, then you are just that, a spectator.

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My definition of swinging is that in order to swing you must have sexual interaction with others outside of your primary relationship, and soft swinging would be sexual interaction up to but not including penetration.

 

That would be my definition! If you are being voyeuers or exhibitionists then that is what you are, not swingers! swinging to us is playing with someone other than your SO whether it be just kissing and oral to full intercourse. without it you are a spectator!

 

my 2 cents for the day

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In order to "swing" there has to be some sexual activity with someone other than your SO. How much activity determines where you fall in the spectrum of "soft-hard" (using the bar graph theory again). If your only goal is to watch your are a voyeur. If you only want to be watched you are an exhibitionist. Nothing wrong with that. We enjoy watching and being watched too.

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We know couples that are definite swingers, but the men in the relationships are also definite voyeurs and the women definite exhibitionists as well. The women show-off all they can in the appropriate situations and love to have people watch them have sex. And the men can be very content just watching their wife getting it on with other people without being physically involved. As one put it to my wife "just hand me the popcorn and don't worry about me!"

 

I think swinging is what you make of it, and there are as many ways to swing as there are swingers. In fact I had one gal tell me that even though she had shared boyfriends (both hers and other women's) in FMF encounters, what she was doing wasn't "swinging"... I think it is. I guess it's just which definition is most comfortable to you. :)

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I thought I'd dig this up after a search because it's something we've been thinking about.

 

Mrs. V gets extremely turned on by the thought of watching other people having sex (not porn, physically in attendance) and has also mentioned that she wants to be watched having sex by other couples (Note couples, not singles looking for a cheap thrill.. well, maybe, I'd have to double check that with her :lol: )

 

Clearly we don't class ourselves as swingers because in the great marathon of this lifestyle, we're still deciding what training shoes to buy, however if we went to a club we'd like to think we could watch and be watched without freaking anyone else out. I can imagine if we pissed someone off by just watching it would make us feel that it was clique-y because thats how we would want to 'start out'.

 

As pointed out by good times and Spoomonkey, we'd probably be one of the couples watching and, hopefully if the mood took us when asked 'Now you do it', we'd be happy to return the favour!! facelick ...but would hope that if we didn't and were just watching to get us into the scene, we wouldn't be offending anyone. I guess it's tricky because the concept of voyeur/exhib. is so broad and probably tainted by the trenchcoat brigade.

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We are also voyers, till this day the extent of our experience is we have been in the same room with other people having sex while the other couple was having sex, we watched each other mansturbated watching them and they mansturbated watching us.

 

We also got in the hot tub and there was some touching involved.

 

We are both in the medical field so we have a fobia to STDs because all the things we see on a daily basis.

 

Furthermore we just dont feel comfortable with the idea of having sex with other people, but we have absolutely no problem doing almost anything on a club with most clothes on.

I get a kick watching her being fundled and felt in almost anyway by other guys and she likes to see me have fun with other girls.

 

Bottom line, we consider ourselves soft and we do consider ourselves swingers but we just dont know If we will ever have full intercourse or even oral sex with others.

 

Mainly is because of STD fear.

 

Maybe someday we will find that magical couple where we both will feel so hot about and so comfortable about that we will go all the way...but we are very happy as we are right now.

 

Another problem.... we are trying to get pregnant so we are not using any birth control. Condoms are by no means birth control so no way Jose.

 

I know many full swap swingers get frustrated when after playing with us they cant go all the way but we dont lie, we tell everything upfront and of course they make a move hopping for more, that is why many full swaps dont like to consider us as swingers...not even soft.

 

Our rule is a very simple one "No exange of any body fluids" and yes, that also means kissing.

The friends we have met that are happy with that go home very satisfied and those who expected more.... well they go unhappy. ::P:

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Since this older post was resurrected, I feel the desire to comment too.

 

We are exhibitionists and full swap swingers. We enjoy watching too.

 

If couples or singles quietly watch or are doing their own thing (oral or full sex) in the same area where we are, it's not a problem.

 

I hate people having a loud conversation or laughing in the room. This has turned us off from doing anything at Menages upstairs recently. The past few times we've been up there, it's been like college frat night, with a bunch of younger people laughing and talking very loud. They don't seem to understand what the rooms are for or respect what's happening.

 

When we first went to Trapeze in Atlanta, there were a bunch of guys (like 20) standing around a bed jerking off while this couple were having sex. Now that bothers me. We found out later that it was "single male" night.

 

No touching! If you are a voyeur watching what we're doing, that doesn't give you the right to touch. :nono: I had an issue with this in a voyeur room once. A guy was touching me, and I had to stop my partner mid-stroke to get rid of him.

 

Off soap box now.

 

Mrs. D

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I think swingers are both. There are repeated posts of 'i LOVE watching my partner with someone'...so there is the voyeuristic side of things (i think voyeur has a bad rep for a word...like a peeping tom or someone hiding in a closet and getting their kicks....).

 

Also here you can find posts that entail 'i LOVE to know people are watching me or that hubby is watching and enjoying, etc.' And there is the exhibitionistic POV (not your 'flasher in a trenchcoat' or something).

 

Now, we have been to the club a few times and left the door open (to the dungeon room) and in the main play area we have been watched too. But we have never started doing something and then all of a sudden looked up after a while and had a huge audience or people standing right over us. And I have never had someone touch without asking first.

 

So...to sum it up...I like to be watched and Jeff normally likes to do the watching....I just think that there are so many negative connotations to the terms voyeur and exhibishionist that some are loathe to use the terms.

 

Just my .02

 

Maria :kissface:

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Funny that this thread got resurrected today, I completely forgot about it, but this is something we have been discussing a lot lately. So much so, that I have been planning on starting a new thread about it.

 

Our local clubs have all but been totally taken over by voyeurs and exhibitionists. As an example, last night we went to one of the local clubs and of the 20 or so couples there, less than five of them were actually swingers. This has become such a problem that many of the regular swingers we have talked to have quit going to the clubs because of this. We have even been discussing with a few former regular club goers we know starting a once a month house party or meet and greet that you have to be pre-qualified to attend. The only pre-qualification required would be that you have to actually be a swinger to attend, no voyeurs/exhibitionists allowed. I don't know if this idea will ever go anywhere, but the voyeur/exhibitionist problem is getting totally out of control, at least in our area. The bottom line is, we go to swingers club to find like minded people who want to have sex, not to hang out with people hoping to see some skin.

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Almost makes you feel like an animal in a cage, huh? Now, if some of those folks watching wanted to chat and learn more about the lifestyle and they were interested in joining in instead of only wanting to watch, it would be different. IMO

 

Ya know, if you start up a good house party, more swingers will gravitate to it instead. We would, simply because we love house parties. Ask every couple to bring a simple finger food, and ta da, you've got a fun party! :dncdick:

 

I can't wait til this darn leg heels and we can have another house party. :4some:

 

Good luck with your new adventure!

 

Mrs. D

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good times said:
Our local clubs have all but been totally taken over by voyeurs and exhibitionists. As an example, last night we went to one of the local clubs and of the 20 or so couples there, less than five of them were actually swingers. This has become such a problem that many of the regular swingers we have talked to have quit going to the clubs because of this. We have even been discussing with a few former regular club goers we know starting a once a month house party or meet and greet that you have to be pre-qualified to attend. The only pre-qualification required would be that you have to actually be a swinger to attend, no voyeurs/exhibitionists allowed. I don't know if this idea will ever go anywhere, but the voyeur/exhibitionist problem is getting totally out of control, at least in our area. The bottom line is, we go to swingers club to find like minded people who want to have sex, not to hang out with people hoping to see some skin.

 

We've seen the same in our area. We only have one on-premise club and it just opened, so that hasn't been a problem there. But several night clubs in the area close to the public one night a month or so to host off-premise, exclusive "couple's nights".

 

We've seen allot of wannabes starting to come and party because it's a funner crowd than at non-swinger night clubs, and they can see lots of skin and sexy stuff. Most of these seem to be 20-something couples testing the waters and playing "swinger" on the weekends.

 

The problems come in when you don't know who is who and thus who is safe to approach and who isn't, or who is a real prospect for hooking-up with and who you're wasting your time on that night. Or in extreme cases, like happened at a Halloween party thrown at one of these clubs a couple of weeks ago, a drunk non-swinger 20-something guy got jealous and took a swing at one of the swingers. He and his wife/girlfriend were immediately escorted from the club.

 

That's the kind of crap that goes on at non-swinger night clubs where the college crowd hangs-out and all the alpha male gorilla chest beating goes on. Not our gig. Too much drama.

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Or in extreme cases, like happened at a Halloween party thrown at one of these clubs a couple of weeks ago, a drunk non-swinger 20-something guy got jealous and took a swing at one of the swingers. He and his wife/girlfriend were immediately escorted from the club

 

I have actually almost had that happen to me, I didn't actually see it happen as my back was turned to the guy. But apparently the guy took offense when I placed my hand on his girlfriends back to keep her from tripping on a step (I was giving them a club tour at the time) and he started to take a swing at me. Fortunately, a friend of mine was standing next to him and grabbed him before he connected. Needless to say, while they didn't get tossed out, they did get the benefit of a pointed discussion about the lack of judgment of someone so jealous coming to a swingers club.

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We voted "no". As others have stated, swinging must involve sex with others. If everyone is just standing around watching each other, what kind of party or swinging is that? Sounds more like a M&G. If there is'nt anyone having sex, what would the voyeurs have to watch? and if there was no one watching, would the exhibitionist perform without an audience? You need others to be there to complete what it is your trying to accomplish. That is why swingers need other swingers to swing with. So all of them getting together is swinging. In our opinion, a M&G should be a better place for voyeurs and exhibitionist to meet than a house party or club. Just our 2 cents.:surrend:

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We went to a Texas Rangers game the other night and it sure didn't make us professional baseball players, nor were we offered their salary. If you are a spectator, then you are just that, a spectator.

 

Maybe so, but during the World Series I saw several ball players from other teams in the stands. So being a spectator doesn't exclude you from being a ballplayer either.

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I guess the bottom line is they are different things which are neither mutually exclusive nor mutually inclusive.

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I think swingers can be voyeurs and exhibitionists. I DON'T think voyeurs and exhibitionists are necessarily swingers.

 

I like Vjklander's analogy:

 

Maybe so, but during the World Series I saw several ball players from other teams in the stands. So being a spectator doesn't exclude you from being a ballplayer either.

 

And I think the examples like GoodTimes related are a good example too.

 

I voted no.

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I don't think the labels are important. If they have sought out a swinger's club to attend, and are enjoying the open sexual play that others are choosing to have right there in a public place, I'm cool with that. If you don't want others standing around watching you have sex, don't do it there.

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wolfnblu said:
I don't think the labels are important. If they have sought out a swinger's club to attend, and are enjoying the open sexual play that others are choosing to have right there in a public place, I'm cool with that. If you don't want others standing around watching you have sex, don't do it there.

 

The only problem is that in real life the swingers are getting tired of being the voyeurs entertainment so they aren't coming any more. At some point the clubs cease being swingers clubs and become voyeur clubs and their is less and less sexual play to see.

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I think most people are, by nature, voyeurs. I think most people, at times, are exhibitionists. I think it takes a very special breed of all three:voyeur; exhibitionist; swinger, to swing.

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Understanding that not everyone fits in every spot, would it not be safe to say:

Not all voyeurs/Exhibitionists are swingers but all swingers are Voyeurs/Exhibitionists.

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I say and voted,

 

"No, if they are exclusively voyeurs and exhibitionists and don't play with others they are not swingers."

 

I see three separate identities, with all three having different levels of entitlement and satisfaction.

 

If we are with another couple I can be voyeuristic or an exhibitionist...And we will be swinging!

 

Neither of them can do what I can do (have sex outside my primary),

 

We (swingers) have the best of all three worlds.

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CXXC said:
Understanding that not everyone fits in every spot, would it not be safe to say:

Not all voyeurs/Exhibitionists are swingers but all swingers are Voyeurs/Exhibitionists.

 

I don't think so, at least not for me. I think it is just how I am wired, but a spectator or performer I am not. I am pretty much that way about everything in life though, as I don't enjoy watching others play sports either, for example. I am more of a doer than a watcher. I can't say that watching others have sex is a turn-on for me, nor do I enjoy having people watch me having sex. So, no, I am neither a voyeur nor an exhibitionist, but I am a swinger.

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This was exactly the way we got started swinging, was just watching and being watched...the voyeurism/exhibitionism part of it. We eventually moved on to soft swap and then full swap. Maybe not all voyeurs are swingers, but I would definately say most exhibitionists are. We were at a party where a single lady played with just about any guy she could get...partly because that's what she was into, but also because she was an exhibitionist. There is no "rule-book" for what qualifies as swinging, what works for some, may not work for all.

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I would say that if the only thing a couple does is watch / play with each other ... then they're not "swingers"

 

However, most swingers do engage in some voyeurism / exhibitionism at some point in their activities.

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It seems that swinging parties have become a vanilla fad now. We've noticed within the last year or two that there seem to be a lot more couples that just stand around fully clothed and watch; hotel parties are the worst, but we've even seen it at house parties. Like a previous poster said, when they're approached for an introduction, they blush and scurry off to safety. Nothing wrong with newbies watching, and we love putting on a show, but at least introduce yourselves. Several years ago I would have probably said that voyeurs and exhibitionists were swingers because that's how we got started. Now that most of them just come to parties for the live sex show and with no intention of swapping, I've changed my mind. Years ago it was "cool" for vanilla couples to go to a strip club together, now they've figured out that they can go to a swinger party and get a much better show for a lot less money.

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      There was a posting in our dorm looking for a female model for an event for Undercoverwear.  Undercoverwear was similar to Fredericks of Hollywood.  A woman sold Undercoverwear the way you would sell Tupperware, except it was lingerie.  I told Sue I thought it would be kind of fun doing something like that but only if I could go. 
       
      Sue contacted the woman looking for a female model and met with her.  The "event" was going to be at a community hall that she had rented and the attendance would be exclusively for males.  The expectation was Sue would wear a variety of lingerie but there was no nudity required. She'd also get paid $100 for about 2 hours of work, and I could go. 
       
      When we got there Sue was taken into a back room where there was a rack full of lingerie sorted out according to the level of sexiness and sheerness.  There were about 20 guys sitting at round tables of 5 that she'd have to walk around like she was on a catwalk so they could see what the outfits looked like. 
       
      Sue had come out in a variety of sexy teddy's and negligees.  After the first couple outfits, the clothes became more revealing.  Toward the end she came out in an outfit that although not totally sheer you could see a hint of her nipples.  All the guys started clapping as she did her walk around all the tables. 
       
      It was now the end of the "fashion show" and the guys started chanting for her to come out one more time.  The woman running it came up to me and told me that Sue wanted to see me in the back room before the show was officially over. 
       
      I went into the back room and Sue could tell I had really enjoyed everything.  Sue then pulled off a "harem outfit" that was the furthest one on the clothes rack, indicating it was the most revealing.  She said she was fine putting it on as the last outfit if I was OK with her wearing it in front of all the guys.  I said, "Are you kidding me, I'd love it."  I then walked back to my table and the woman announced that Sue was coming out with one more outfit to end the night and asked for the guys to finalize their order sheets but that they may want to wait for the last outfit to add to their orders. 
       
      Sue then walked out in a light pink harem outfit that was totally sheer exposing her breasts and nipples as if she was topless.  The guys went crazy.  They started yelling "tits for tips" and with that Sue looked at me and with a sly grin I nodded my head and she proceeded to take her top down and did a final walk around each table being completely topless.  When she got back to the room she was changing in, the woman walked in and handed her another fifty dollars in tips and said she had done a great job. 
       
      As Sue and I were walking out to head back to the dorm a man who was at the fashion show was waiting for us and said that he owned a restaurant and if we both were looking to make a few extra dollars he could use us for about 4 hours every Saturday from noon to 4pm.  The restaurant was called "R Donuts".  The job for me would be to buss tables, and for Sue it would be as a topless waitress (hence the "R" Donut name). We told him we'd think about it. 
       
      See part 2 as this story of the journey from shyness to hotwife continues.
    • By Wendans
      My fantasy has always been to watch my wife get fucked by another man. We have been with another woman before which is a whole story in itself that I’ll tell you about later.
       
      One night several years ago my wife and I had gone to a club. Not your ordinary club, but a good club for swingers and singles. The night had started out rather slow and we were not finding any action that I had hoped. My wife knows what she wants and that is what we go with. And that night we found what she wanted and it was such a great experience she knew she wanted to do it again. She had gotten fucked by a black guy and she had enjoyed it. So, when we got the chance, she wanted to try it again.
       
      Being at a swinger’s club isn’t really her thing, but fucking in front of people or listening to them fuck is a big turn-on for her. Since we don’t live close to any swingers’ clubs or anything of that nature, we don’t get many opportunities to do anything like this.
       
      A couple of years ago we got a chance to go to another club. Yes, one of those clubs. We were looking for a little fun and hoping to find something as good as the last time we were out. We talked to many people as the night went on and my wife was trying to figure out what we were going to be doing to have fun that night. There was a hot blonde that was interested in us and kept on grabbing my cock which my wife was loving because this was getting her going. My wife and I decided that this was not what we had in mind for tonight, so we just kind of let that slide and we went on to pursue something else. She said she would know it when she saw it.
       
      My wife had put a couple of drinks down and was feeling pretty good now. She was a little more daring and said she wanted to go change outfits like she did when we had been to a club previously. We had brought the very same sexy outfit that was see through, so she went and changed into it. When she came back out, there was not one guy's eyes on anyone but her. Even the women were looking on in awe. She is a beautiful woman that knows how to control a room.
       
      One guy came up to me and told me he was jealous. He said he would do anything to get to fuck my wife, but she just didn’t feel right with him, I guess. As we were standing around, in came this well-built younger black guy and I think she almost came right there. The look on her face was almost mind blowing. She got this horny grin and told me she was ready to start our night. As he walked by her, she gave him this dirty smile and took her hand and rubbed down by her cunt. He stopped walking and came over to her and asked if he could help her with anything. She just smiled and said that I think you already know what you can do. They danced around a little bit, but I could tell she couldn’t take it anymore, so she quickly unzipped his pants and took out his cock and grabbed it and lead him into another room like a dog on a leash.
       
      I stayed back a couple of minutes to give them some time to get to know each other. When I did finally get to the other room, they had already undressed and she was sucking his cock. It was larger than mine. Not much longer, but thicker. I could tell she liked it.
       
      My wife had picked a room where people would be able to watch if they wanted to. I stayed back in the wings and was kind of hidden so she really didn’t know I was even there.  As I watched my wife in action, I could tell she was enjoying every second of this guy’s cock. She was sucking it like there was no tomorrow.
       
      Now it was his turn to return the favor. He got his face down to her pussy and started licking like it was candy. She was turning red and I could tell she was already about to cum. She was squirming and shaking and he was getting her cunt all ready for his big shaft. But before he fucked her, he now spread her legs out and started fingering her pussy to the point that she started squirting fluids all over the sheet they were laying on. It was like the flood gates had opened up and all the juices were flowing.
       
      She finally had all she could take because I’m sure she had cum multiple times already and I could tell she just wanted to have him inside her. I heard her say to give me your big, black cock. He asked her if she wanted him to put on a condom and she told him no, she wanted to feel him inside her cunt.
       
      He took her and spread her legs wide and slowly inserted his bbc into her tight cunt. She told him to go slowly because she said it was so big that she needed to get used to it. After several minutes of the slow movement, she said she needed him to fuck her harder so he started to go full penetration into her dripping wet cunt. She was telling him how good his cock felt, and how she loved fucking him.
       
      They switched positions multiple times with her sitting on top of his cock and riding him like she has never ridden before. My wife took his whole cock inside of her as deeply as she could, rubbing back and forth and cumming time and time again.
       
      They finally switched back to missionary style and were fucking hard when I heard her say to him, she wanted him to cum in her pussy. She said she wanted to feel his cum drip out of her pussy all night long. When he heard her say that, he started to pick up the pace and finally started moaning and said he was about to cum. My wife was now cumming herself and as he shot his load inside of her, she started squirming and shaking with every pulse of his exploding cock. Her body was red from all of her orgasms, and I could tell she was getting worn out. They had gone for almost 40 minutes of nonstop action. Not to mention that all the other people that had gathered around to watch started going to other parts of the place as they had gotten a show that they would remember forever.
       
      When he pulled his now soft cock out of my wife, I could see the cum dripping down her ass. She was getting what she wanted, I guess. She would be able to feel his cum dripping out of her the rest of the night. But I didn’t realize that she was not done yet. She wanted more. My wife took his cock and started sucking on it again. I guess he was young enough that almost instantly he got hard and she took his cock and guided it into her cunt and said she needed more of his cum. He fucked her for another 10 minutes until he exploded with more cum inside my wife’s pussy again. Again, as I watched the cum drip down her ass, she was getting what she wanted. She was going to feel this the rest of the night.
       
      They both started cleaning up a little and I slowly came out of the crowd that had gathered. She saw me and gave me that dirty little smile she sometimes gets. My wife asked me if I had enjoyed her show. She said she needed to have a little more cum in her pussy tonight and she now wanted mine. Her new little friend just kind of sat back in the corner and decided to watch us.
       
      I knew I wouldn’t last long because I had almost cum multiple times just watching her. With some of the crowd still watching I got undressed, and slid my wet with pre-cum cock into my wife’s cum-loaded pussy. I fucked her until she started cumming. Her cunt convulsed so hard that it squeezed my cock and made me start to cum. I came in her pussy, mixing my cum with my wife’s new fuck buddies cum. I pulled my cock out and watched it all slowly slide down her ass. She got up and went over to our young fuck buddy and she gave him a long passionate kiss and said thank you for such a great time. He gave her one last little finger fucking and handed her a card of his if we were ever in the area again.
       
      He left after he got dressed and we got cleaned up and went out to the main room. I had multiple people including women and even the bartender say that my wife was one of the women they would like to fuck if they ever got a chance after seeing her in action. I guess I’m the lucky one here.
       
      Later that night when we were driving to our resort, she slipped her hand down pants and put her fingers in her pussy. She brought them out and rubbed them on my face. She smiled and said we gotta do this again sometime as we pulled into the parking lot to call it a night.
       
      And what a night it was.
    • By English Flames
      I have a fantasy of being pegged by my wife at say, a swinger house party, with the door open or some how on display for passerby’s to watch. My only concern is whether this would be considered disrespectful or against an unspoken etiquette? I can understand it’s not for everyone.
    • By LovelyLynn
      I have a question for the experienced couples on the board. For quite a while I have had the desire to be in a more sexually charged environment while having sex with my husband. Now, I have been hanging around this board and learned a lot about the maturity required to swing and I must say I am impressed by a lot of you. The reason I bring this up is because I would like your opinions. I am wanting to find some couples or groups that are open and mature like yourselves to watch while each couple has sex.
       
      I am in my 20's and find that a lot of couples around my age lack maturity when it is called for. Of course for a lot of couples at any age it seems can barely keep their own relationships together. On the other hand it seems that a lot of you put respect and your relationships above all else. Other than the fact that I am not technically a swinger (yet ), I feel you people share more in common with my ideals than most groups of people.
       
      I would love to try new things but I'm not near ready for a 4some or swapping. However, I feel that being in and getting comfortable as a couple around swingers would open the door to a lot of new experiences for me.
       
      So I was curious how the couples on here would feel about having a non swapping couple around having sex in the same room as them? Does it make a difference to you if there are just 2 couples, more than 2, group sex, or swapping going on in the room? What do you think the best way to go about it would be? Is this something that Swingers in general accept?
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