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Hello ladies...

I have a question or 2 for you all.

In another female...what hair/eye color do you prefer?

And, is body type a big thing for you? Do you have a preference when it comes to breast size and booty and all of that??

 

I've never seen or read anything on here like this and I know we all like certain types{However, don't blast me if there is one,I haven't gone through every thread and if EBF is here, I KNOW she'll point it out :lol: }.Granted, this doesn't mean we don't or won't play with someone if they don't fit our mold, but I was just curious if you all do have any preferences or features you are more partial to? ;)

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I can't speak for other women but this seems kind of superficial. I like women who are clean, attractive, confident and intelligent irregardless of hair, eye, or skin color.

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Hmm,I know this was supposed to be just for bi f's but I could'nt help but to reply to lauriern.I think this is a valid question and I don't think it's superficial one bit.First of all,I think you are being rude to suggest that you or anyone else doesn't have or shouldn't have preferences like sensuality is asking about.That's bs and I think you need to get real.Everyone has preferences wether it's personality first or looks first.Your list could describe The Hunchback of Notre Dame,although he's not the most attractive fella(and a fictional character I might add) he has a great personality and smells great.you listed attractive as a quality you like(which is pretty vague) and if someone asked you what attactive means to you I'm willing to bet that some physical attributes would come up if you were being honest.Btw,preference means what you would prefer not what you might settle for under the right circumstances.I prefer imported beer but if someone offered me a mich golden and I was thirsty, by golly I might just drink that sucker.

 

Thats my story and my opinion and I'm sticking to it.

 

mixedcouple3426

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Well I wasn't intending to be rude, but you certainly are by describing my views as bs. I was using the term "attractive" in counterpoint to male ideals of what constitutes female beauty, i.e, big boobs and blonde hair.

Not sure what your problem with hunchbacks is, but a lot of people have physical deformities that in no way detract from their personality. You strike me as not only rude but immature.

And gee, the question was I see again, only for bifemales.

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Great comeback,the immature part was especially priceless.I think you need to read my reply more carefully because you missed my point entirely.Where does it say that I have a problem with hunchbacks or people with deformities?The hunchback comment was sarcasm. You may not be trying to come off as rude but I've looked at a few of your posts such as the 420 post where you replied with this " Pot, weed, maui wowee, etc. Obviously these parties are not for you." ...I'm sorry but you come off as very condescending.

 

That being said ,I have no animosity toward you or anyone.I just think you need to relax a bit,maybe attend one of those 420 parties that "arent for us" and smoke some of that Pot, weed, maui wowee, etc or if thats too drastic maybe a nice aromatic bubble bath.

 

Can we all hug now?Ah,thats better.

 

-sigh

 

 

mixedcouple3426

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As far as my "type", I like women who have dark hair, nice smile and are a little soft and girly. Now, the lady in our favorite couple we play with has blonde hair, so it's certainly not set in stone. And, although I really love big breasts, that's certainly not a prerequisite either.

Pepper

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One of the rules I live by is that, "image is nothing, enthusiasm is everything." I expect that is also true for many bi-females.

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Well i think i will answer the initial question and if i am being superficial well to bad. I personally like women who are close to my size, like blondes since i am one but burnetts arent bad. Most of the women have darker hair that we have played with.. Not really into the big boob thing but wont complain about it either. I love nice butts though! ya gotta have a nice butt or no interest. You also have to have a brain and sence of humor. If you cant make me laugh then i get bored!! And like girly girls not butch. One that does her hair and makeup, dresses like a girl even in jeans and t-shirt...just gotta look like a girl! and if the pic in your avitar is you!!! very nice! lol

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Hello again,Biblonde...

The pic on my avatar isn't me,but I'm not too far from that ;) So, I'll thank you for the compliment :lol: Anywho, I have to say that I agree with a lot you have said...I love girly girls...as I am one myself.

Lauriern:

I wasn't asking this question to be superficial, I was actually just plain curious!!

Didn't mean to start a brawl...But,thanks mixed couple for coming to my defense :kissface: We ALL have preferences even if we aren't willing to admit it...Since that's "supposedly" such a GUY thing!! :lol: I prefer breasts that are a good handful and I love a nice booty,but that doesn't mean that is all I will play with, it's just what I really like.And,please have a personality!I'm kinda curious to see where this post goes from here :rolleyes: Guess we'll just have to wait and see...

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Surprise, the women most men are looking at are probably the same women I'm looking at. A fit body in tight clothing is always fun to watch! :)

 

However, these women are not necessarily the women I'm interested in sexually. From my personal experience I've been surprised at which women I've actually been physically attracted to.

 

Sure, I find it easier to feel attracted to women who are around my age, who are around my weight...pretty women with sweet eyes and soft skin are hard to resist...but the majority of my attraction is all about that connection, baby. ;)

 

The funny thing in this is that I am much, much more open minded about weight and general appearance of women I could be interested in sexually than in men (for a variety of reasons). It's a complex issue and one I am slowly working on.

 

Mrs. 2play

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When it comes to another female, I look at the inside not the outside. I go by how they treat me and how well we connect talking and getting to know one another. Hair color and eye color does not matter as long as she is Clean, D/D, and plain out takes care of herself then the outside wrapping is not what is important.

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I love girly girls...as I am one myself.

blonde and a girly girl! got my attention! lol I personally think it was a good question since for the most part looks are what start the sexual attraction. I agree to that they have to have personality and such...we meet barbie and she was brain dead! never thought i would hear my hubby turn down a total babe but as we walked away from the returaunt he was saying "no way in hell are we playing with them!!!" lol You have to admit all that say it is the personality that there has to be some sort of physical attraction or you wouldnt have meet them in the first place.

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Guess I was being too subtle for the crowd here. My point is that swingers suffer from the same stigma in the public eye as gay men - that is, that it's all about looking good, being young, thin, and hip in order to maximize the amount of sex you have. If you get a little fat, a little old, ciao baby. Personally I have a deeper view of what swinging and the lifestyle is about. I am glad some of the women here have supported my position. So the next time you get rejected by that hot bi-honey who is your dream lover remember - maybe it was you who didn't fit her ideal.

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lauriern...Point well taken! And I have been turned down by hotties and dont sweat it. I know I am not what everyone is looking for. It doesnt bother me a bit..it is oh well and move on. And you are right it is all about looks but to let you know..we have played with women who are heavy,thin, and inbetween..older,younger, totally hot and average looking. I didnt say I only look for the hottest but there has to be some attraction is all, then before we play personality and such come into play. It is human nature to see the outside first. And I dont fall into the real young catagory.

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She must radiate her sexuality. If she feels sexy then she looks sexy. I have no preference in hair color, eye color... it's all about her as a whole. The only characteristic that I find myself drawn to is smaller breasts but even a larger breasted woman is very sexy.

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I feel totally misunderstood by a few of you ladies, but it's all good :lol: I'm not ashamed to admit I loooove nice breasts and a really great ass.Weight for me?Not too heavy, but not too thin,or too tall;mostly because I'm pretty petite myself ;) And, I don't like REALLY big boobs, but I do love a woman who is enthusiastic and genuine...and I really love caramel skin and really short hair?Not for me,she needs to look like a girl :lol:...Sue me :kissface: I have my preferences, and I ain't ashamed to say it ;)::P::lol:

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I don't really have a type. I just prefer someone who is not so thin that I can see their complete skeletal system (think Mary-Kate) and It would be nice if the lady I played with had some type of chest She doesn't have to be a D but I would prefer them not to be completly flat.

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What is my "type". That is a running joke with our friends. I really like athletic, sorta small chested, I lean a little more towards blondes.( Think Keira Knightley in Bend it like Beckham) Have I ever been with one of my "dream women"? uh....no. I guess it is because I am the polar opposite from them. (Overweight, big breasted, dark hair) And my fantasy is everything that I am not. Am I crushed? Not a bit. I have honestley enjoyed being with every woman I have ever been with...From the girlie girlie to the boarderline butch. I didn't enjoy them for their appearances, of course, but for their internal beauty and passion. As for why my dream lady has never materialized? Maybe, as it was said above, I am not their type. Oh well, a girl can always dream.....

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I feel totally misunderstood by a few of you ladies, but it's all good :lol:

I hope i didnt misunderstand you?? lol :lol:

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I'm answering for my wife here since we have discussed this before. For her it is more about the entire package than any particular body feature or look. Some really hot women I thought she'd be attracted to she is ho-hum about. Others I think are very attractive she is really hot about. So I think this question simplifies the matter too much. I think certain features create an initial attraction, but from there it goes much deeper whether or not she wants to play with someone, female or male.

 

Mr. WS

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In women, just as in men, I am most drawn to personality, and personality to me shines through in their looks. However, for those few women I have been attracted to without meeting (Gina Gershon and a few others) it's all about the lips. I love the big lush lips.

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I forgot about the lips too...love those "kissable" lips as I like to say! and shiney lipstick! lol And teasing eyes is also another turn on.

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I know this is for bi girls but after reading what you girls like ...and after rethinking I mite be Bi also, because I seen to like the same things :lol:

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sensuality- Biblonde, I swear we're on the same wavelength

 

now this would be a bad thing because?? :lol::kissface: and i agree we are!lol

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oh and I forgot...me and hubby went to the mall this weekend and when we sat down to have a cup of coffee decided to play check out the chicks...I also really like long legs in heels...saw lots of those!

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now this would be a bad thing because?? :lol::kissface: and i agree we are!lol

 

 

Not a bad thing at all!! :lol::kissface:

 

And, "check out the chicks" is a game hubby and I play all the time,too.

I'm a sucker for cleavage ;) And, I love long hair w/the whole spiral perm thing goin' on and highlights...sooooo sexy ;) Another thing I realized is I love perfume.Not too strong, but the subtle whiff you get as a lady walks by can really start the juices flowin'. :lol:::P:

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And, I love long hair w/the whole spiral perm thing goin' on and highlights...sooooo sexy

 

yup like that too. Not only curly hair but straightened hair...since i use a straighning iron on mine. Love highlights..very sexy! Now for perfume, it has to be real light and sweet smelling or it makes me sneeze.lol

 

I like seeing that inocent smile when they catch ya looking at them in that way...the look of "what is that girl thinking?? hmmm I think i like this!" he he he he yup I am onery!!

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