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What Does "Well Hung" Mean to You?  

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  1. 1. What Does "Well Hung" Mean to You?

    • 5 inches or more
      3
    • 6 inches or more
      17
    • 7 inches or more
      133
    • 8 inches or more
      211
    • 9 inches or more
      56
    • 10 inches or more
      16


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Every once in a while, we run across an ad that states a couple or female is seeking a male partner who is "well hung." But just as often that term remains undefined. So, when you think of the term "well hung," what does that mean to you?

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I've always wondered about the term "well hung" :rolleyes:

 

When I think of a man "hanging" he isn't going to be hard.

 

Are the measurements in this poll for non-erect, uninflated, "hanging", floppy cocks?

 

What fun to imagine what an 8" floppy would become once erect . . . 12 . . . 14 . . . 16 inches?

 

Or are we talking proportions: curve, girth, testicles to penis ratio?

 

 ;)

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I've never thought of myself as "well-hung", therefore I'd have to say 8" or better.

 

I don't think Fem D would agree, however!

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I consider my other half to be well hung and he's probably 7 inches on a good night. I would like to try something bigger, but I don't think he would understand, lol!

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Can't recall where we read this particular bit of statistic, but hubby and I were just commenting that we had read "somewhere" that the average length is a bit over 5 1/2 [but still under 6.]

 

That being said then, I suppose that it would be 'technically' correct to say that anything 6 or over is "well-hung."

 

However, we agreed that when we see the phrase - we think more in terms of 8" or more. Certainly, girth does come into play to an extent but we're doubting that a fat 3 would truly compete with a thin 7 in most cases.

 

But that's just our take on it.

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Wouldn't that be something like the famous quote about pornography? I can't define it but I know it when I see it?

 

Or would it be something like different things make a girl a "hot"? Some nearly flat chested girls are hot, some large breasted girls are hot. Some short, some tall, you get my drift. But, irregardless of her stature, weight, build, etc. when you look at her you think "she's hot" or whatever slang is popular this week. God, I'm getting old.

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We think it's more of a combination of two factors: length and girth. As long as they are average in one, and better than average in the other ... they qualify as well-hung.

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7 inches doesn't seem to be so uncommon and well hung to me implies uncommonly large. By that logic, I voted 8 and above.

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I was wondering how the condom manufacturers size their wares.

 

Mine measures around 7" and I find the Trojan Magnums rather on the tight side and these are classed as Large according to the packaging.

 

I was wondering what on earth the guys with the huge ones use... old inner tubes :lol:

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An important factor was left off of this poll - width/girth

 

5" is average, so anything over that would be well hung.. but a guy could just have 5" and be thick as my wrist and still be well hung.

 

For me, if I wrap my hand around it and it disapears then it's too small... there should be more than just the head sticking out the top.

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Her side: if he's got at least 4 inches and know how to use it, but never more then eight inches; and I don't want one so fat that I feel like I'm giving birth again. ::P:

 

His side: I don't know what you ladies are looking for, but what I've got, I know how to use well. (hint: its certainly MORE then four inches) :lol:

 

Our view: It takes a lot more then a dick to make good sex. I guess that's why Goddess gave us more then two thousand body parts. Put all that with a brain and watch the sparks fly.

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OK, being a scientist and a math geek, I've just gotta point y'all to this web site...

 

More than you ever wanted to know about penis size.

 

There it says that the average erect penis length is 6.4 inches with a standard deviation of 1.2 inches.

 

They also give a Table of Penis Dimensions by Percentile. Using the data in that Table, I've computed that 1 out of 3 guys has an erect penis length less than 5.85" :(, and 1 out of 3 guys is longer that 6.85" :), which leaves the other 1 out of 3 guys someplace in between those two lengths. A length of 7.1" gets you into the top 25%, and 7.9" gets you into the top 1 out of 10.:claps:

 

For the circumference, 1 out of 3 is less than 4.8" and 1 out of 3 is greater than 5.4". It takes 5.7" to break into the top 25%, and 6.3" to make the top 1 out of 10.

 

OK, so how's that for taking a lively, sexual debate and turning it into a dry, boring statistics lesson? :)

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I picked 8 inches or more. Whoever said it's not the meat it's the motion was sadly misinformed! You cannot churn butter with a toothpick!

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I am laughing about what is well hung. Of course, some ego's are battered by this conversation. There are not many that would consider any male penis to small if used correctly. Just think: If all of us were "Hung like greek gods" how boring! The spice of life. Size doesn't matter-your attitude with your partner does. A good looking partner can become a real ugly person without proper decorum or attitude and respect for the other. :lol:

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Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty
Will the three women who said six inches please e-mail me..lol

 

It was probably men with 6" cocks who voted.

 

:lol:

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I married my husband at 18; I measured his penis right after the wedding. According to everything I read, he was larger than average, but he always told me he was only average sized. Since I had NO reference for comparison (he was the first naked man I ever saw live as well as the first man I ever touched), I started to believe him. Fast forward a couple of decades and imagine my surprise the first time I saw a second hard dick. Since I had been conditioned to think of my husband as only average, I assumed I met a man with a small dick...lol.

 

After a few more years and a few more partners, I cornered my husband and told him that contrary to his statement, he was NOT average in size and I had mistakenly described other men as small. He just grinned this wicked grin at me.

 

If a man is larger than my husband, he's well-hung.

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LikeMinds321 said:
I've always wondered about the term "well hung" :rolleyes:

 

When I think of a man "hanging" he isn't going to be hard.

 

Are the measurements in this poll for non-erect, uninflated, "hanging", floppy cocks?

 

What fun to imagine what an 8" floppy would become once erect . . . 12 . . . 14 . . . 16 inches?

 

Or are we talking proportions: curve, girth, testicles to penis ratio?

 

LM ;)

Speaking of 'hanging', what about the parts that do hang? Talk about his Rocky Mountain Oysters. THAT'S well hung! The rest is great, too - but I love how they slap me.

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marvelousmarv said:
You must really pick the losers of the swing community if size is the only thing you think about. Being a large male myself, most ladies I have been with never complained about my small size. If small, eight inches is what I am. In fact, the opposite is the truth. Trying to find a partner that is comfortable with me has been a problem-for us both! Most women will say they can handle it and then bitch because of the size. Get realistic! Size can be and will be a big detriment to most, both male and female. Perhaps, if one learns how to fuck, you wouldn't need to ask this question to begin with. ::P:

Well, Marv  ,I like what I like. There's no reason to be insulting. If no one has complained about the size of your penis Yaay for you. I never said size is ALL that matters to me. But, it does matter. You do your thing and I'll do mine. There's no reason to get irate. You and I aren't playmates. ;)

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"Well Hung" is when your wife or girlfriend says, "You are well hung" It is a compliment of undefined characteristics.

 

It is like saying "The BBQ was larapin". larapin means very good in a Tex - Mex Slang.

 

"Well Hung" has about the same relevance. Three times in my life, women have commented to each other or to me that I was "well hung" It made

me giggle to myself a little. Thinking, "Probably, I should be hung. And from the highest tree."

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consider my other half to be well hung and he's probably 7 inches on a good night. I would like to try something bigger, but I don't think he would understand, lol!

 

Mysticmind, I'll bet my last erection on the probability that there are many, many more ladies out there who think the same as you..... just not quite ready to say it out loud. :lol: Hope you get the chance some day. I can't volunteer 'cause on a good day I can only get to 6inches. :D

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In my case, it means "not me." :(

 

Oh well, I'll just have to settle for bein' good-lookin'! :lol:

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Very even; at or just above eye level and centered on the wall or above a particular piece of furniture.

 

This has caused no end of turmoil around our little pink house because I like things somewhat higher than Zoe does. Generally, there is little or no disagreement about my centering abilities, tho.

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Zoe&Wash said:
This has caused no end of turmoil around our little pink house because I like things somewhat higher than Zoe does.

 

Ever try one of those laser levelers?

 

You might want to...

 

Nothing can ruin a marriage quicker than meeting some young stud who is better hung... errr... Better at hanging things than you are...

 

:D

 

PS - My advice is hang everything crooked. After a while, it looks sort of artsy.

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There are some people at Swinger Clubs and in the Life Style that should just be plainly "hung" and then maybe "Quartered" too.

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In my opinion aything over 8" is pretty stout but it really depends on the woman. The wife thinks I'm hung at 7 1/2" but i'm sure others wouldn't so it's hard to say. Women can be a bad judge though...she was bragging that I was 8 1/2" to others before we actually measured. I was thankfull for the compliment but didn't want them expecting a baseball bat between my legs.

I like to say I'm hung for her :cool:

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Well,Marv,I like what I like.There's no reason to be insulting.If no one has complained about the size of your penis Yaay for you.I never said size is ALL that matters to me.But,it does matter.You do your thing and I'll do mine.There's no reason to get irate.You and I aren't playmates. ;)

 

 

I am with you girl. I am a self proclaimed size queen! I am sure that some women simply cringe and will not even try having sex when opening a man's trousers to find a 8+ inch penis. I am sure that is an issue for men who are very well endowed.

 

I on the other hand simply go wild when I find a truly well endowed gentleman. Size is not the only thing, but it does matter to me.

 

By the way, for me anything above 8 inches would be considered "well hung" and very enjoyable. Any guy who has a penis that measures in double digits is simply amazing and kind of equivalent to finding a unicorn!

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I have heard that women's vaginas are different sizes also, which makes me think that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Hubby fits me like a glove, that is to say there's lots of pleasure and just the right amount of pain :kissface:

 

Smaller than that, or....larger than that....not quite the same.

 

So well hung? That's what I got ;)

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To quote a couple others... "Larger than myself"

 

Statistically I'm in the average, somewhere ranging between 5 1/2 and 6 1/2 depending on the level of excitement, as well as other factors (mostly what's going on in my gray matter).

 

For a time I was seriously considering surgery. Heck, at one point I had tried pills that were purported to increase size. I wanted something non-invasive, no man wants their jimmy under the knife (or laser). Speaking from experience... they don't work. :eek: I had seen sooo many profiles/ads requesting ONLY 8"+ or 9"+, and in MOST swinging scenarios have found that I'm the smaller equipped guy in the room, that it was becoming a serious blow to my ego. This was made worse at one point when I heard (through the swinger grapevine) that a regular playmate of ours considered her man (at around 8") to be AVERAGE! This, of course, translated to my already fragile ego as "she thinks he's average, so that means she thinks I'm SMALL!"

 

After some time spent focusing inward and wrestling with some personal demons I have come to the conclusion that it's BETTER for girls who want a gargantuan love snake to simply state it in their profiles/ads. This saves guys who aren't of John Holmes proportions the indignity of being rejected or humiliated for NOT measuring up. Now, if I see "well hung" or "8 inches or more" anywhere in the "Looking for" portion of a profile/ad, I simply move on. If size is a deciding factor for you ladies, PLEASE state it in your ads/profiles, or bring it up quickly (but gently) in a face-to-face conversation. Last thing a guy needs is be laughed at or see you roll your eyes when he drops trow.

 

Hey, I'm KNOW size matters, to one degree or another. It's a sad truth for those who don't measure up. Sometimes I'm one of them, as "average" isn't good enough for some. But it ain't everything. And to those who feel size IS everything... I weep for you.

 

... oops, almost forgot. I consider "well hung" to GENERALLY equate to 8" or more, though considerable girth can make a shorter wang still be considered "well hung".

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When called upon to describe myself (7+ and fairly thick), I usually say "nicely endowed" or "nicely hung" as opposed to "well hung" which in my mind is more like 8+.

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Women really have to be careful about wanting those well hung men because I have an ex that is 10+ inches and that is a bit much to handle. He is an ex not because I could not handle it ( he still calls me trying to get something going) but because he is just to plain in bed.(which is the only place he thinks you should have sex). My partner now is 8 and 1/2 and super thick and can be just as much to handle as the other because he is so thick. So for I do not frown upon those males that are not as large as the 8+ males because they typically make up for their lack of size in their creativity.

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Putting aside girth for a moment I consider

 

6-7 inches is nicely hung,

7-8 inches is well-hung,

8-9 inches is very well-hung

9 inches plus is 'wow'-hung

 

(although I have found found that men who genuinely fit the last two categories and also have good girth - more than 5 inches around- are as rare as hen's teeth.)

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Wow. Bud's chuffed. Su's frowning with a look of "Get that THING away from me!"

 

Flippancy apart, Bud would be considered large by the previous testimonials but (false modesty apart) what does it matter? Do bigger boobs make a girl more hot in the sack?

 

Each is a novelty and that's it!

 

Each is desireable for the curiosity factor and the fun that we all can derive from experiencing something different to that which we are used to.

 

Our 3rd party male is 6" when hard and straining at the leash. Next to Bud he's Danny to Arnold (in "Twins").

 

Su (being of small build) has told Bud face to face that certain aspects of J's lovemaking are superior to Bud's through no fault of Bud's other than that J can really go for broke and stimulate the parts of her that matter without her experiencing the feeling of being punched in the stomach - from the inside - 200 times a minute.

 

Having a big one is genuinely not all it's cracked up to be (a statement that would be echoed by ladies with large breasts, no doubt).

 

When Bud asked J if he felt uncomfortable with Bud's size, J said "Not at all. Mine measures from the tip to the base which is enough for me and I've never had a complaint yet", which coincidentally is exactly what Bud's measures too!

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"Well hung" is like the term "stacked". It is hard to define, but you know it when you see it. It is also a form of teen or young adult slang. One of my girlfriends said I was "Well Hung". It made me smile for a while, and remember years later. Otto

 

P. S. Men don't really compare penis length in most settings. But two stand out. I served with a Lt. in the Army who must have had ten inches, and a normal physique.

Once at a swing club, one of the regular guys there who had a slight build must have

had eleven - fourteen plus inches of "rod". I wondered what he did to ge that.

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I don't know what "well hung" is but, if a guy has a penis longer than 8 inches it falls into the "that thing is going to cause me harm" category. My hubby is 6' and thick. He is well hung as far as I am concerned.

 

Anything over 6', to me anway, seems like a waste. The vagina will only accomodate so much.

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dont have alot of swinging experience as such but my wife has a thing for well-hung men. It was a critical factor when choosing a guy.

 

both the men my wife are involved in at the moment are around the 4-5 inch mark and they seem to be keeping her pretty happy. I've only seen them naked with my wife once so far and i feel too ashamed to pull my 2.5 incher out infront of them. They make me feel like a dwarf in a a land of giants!!!

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I guess it's a matter of perspective. I could see a similar thread asking "what do you consider to be big breasts"....

 

Average size of a cock is in the 4 - 6 inch range. Above average is in the 6 - 8 inch range. Probably anything larger than 8 is in the "really well hung category". I am making the implicit assumption that thickness increases with length which isn't always true - thickness can also play a role in being well hung and is more important to the woman once the fucking begins....

 

Making the "big breast analogy" , a 10 inch cock would probably correspond to a 44 DDD breast size, a 7 inch cock would probably correspond to a 36 C or D breast size (depending on his thickness - lol) and a 4 - 5 inch cock might correspond to a 32 to 34 B or C

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8inches said:

Making the "big breast analogy" , a 10 inch cock would probably correspond to a 44 DDD breast size, a 7 inch cock would probably correspond to a 36 C or D breast size (depending on his thickness - lol) and a 4 - 5 inch cock might correspond to a 32 to 34 B or C

 

WOW if I were a guy I would have a 7" dick. :D

 

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Even though we've never met, did I ever tell you how much I admire you?

 

No...really! :kissface::kissface::kissface:

 

Thrax

 

:D

 

I just read this now Thrax. Can you say those words with me next to you in that shower? LOL :kissface:

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prettylady said:
WOW if I were a guy I would have a 7" dick. :D

 

And if I were a woman, I'd have back problems ;)

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When I think of well hung or well endowed so to speak I think of anyone 8 inches and over. I am an average girl...give me 6 and 7 any day LOL.

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I consider my other half to be well hung and he's probably 7 inches on a good night. I would like to try something bigger, but I don't think he would understand, lol!

 

i could help

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      After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen.
       
       I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him.
       
      A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked  Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen.
       
      When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. 
       
      The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight.
       
      Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show.
       
      Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge.
       
      They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left.
       
      Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
    • By swingcouple69
      OK...we seem to be having a problem that I never thought would be a problem. A little history...before we started swinging, I had never had sex with any man other than Hubby.
       
      Well, it seems that my Hubby is ummm...gifted with the size of his package. I of course didn't know this because I had nothing to compare it to. My friends even accused me of lying about his "measurements" when we'd talk like women do about sex and their men.
       
      So now the problem is that we chat and make great friends which is wonderful. But, then the male half (it is usually the male half) asks for his "measurements." I think it becomes an insecurity issue but I thought that swingers are secure in their relationships? The female halves that do ask...some are very interested...but others are like "NO WAY". They all say how attractive and sexy Hubby is but apparently his size intimidates them.
       
      I won't lie and neither will he because let's face it the couples or females are going to notice his size eventually and who wants to be with dishonest people? How the heck was I supposed to know that 5 inches is normal. Hubby exceeds that by more than an inch or two...lol.
       
      Help?
       
      Thanks!
    • By CandT33
      The very 1st time...
      Was it exciting, nerve racking, defeating?
       
      What was the conversation after the fact, did it effect you two negatively?
      Also did you discuss it before it happened?
       
      We are new and I am just unsure how it will effect me and/or her.
      She has been with 3 other guys since we started about 3/4 months ago.
      I have not had to deal with the above question yet, so looking for some insight from others.
    • By stupidquestion
      This is a real hangup/massive insecurity of mine. I posted a similar topic a few years ago and I still struggle with this. I'm an average sized guy. If my wife has/had sex multiple times with men who are larger (specifically girthier) than me, will she feel looser as a result? Would she feel tighter if I had been her only partner to date? Or does it bounce back 100% every time? How many encounters with larger men would it take before she feels looser, or does every encounter take something away tightness wise? Ideally I'd love to hear that peoole here have wives who have been with much bigger guys, yet remain just as tight as they always were pre the big guys. 
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