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Spoo ~ You know I think you're the greatest, but I've got to ask you to think more about what you said. Imagine this Board was a "vanilla sex" forum and the topic of the thread was "What WOULD interest you in swinging?" and a vanilla person said this about swingers: "Their refusal to come out of the closet (at least on a sex discussion site) perpetuates the problem. It is not our problem (vanillas) that swingers appear to be the exception rather than the rule. It is not our job to work towards their acceptance. I don't say this to discourage them, but to encourage them. I think the greatest "sin" in life is to not be true to yourself." The majority of swingers on SB believe what they do behind closed doors is their business, it's private, and prefer not to make it known publicly that they swing. I can understand why bisexual men make this same choice.

Yeah, I know what the profile says since I wrote it. She is bicurious and yes I added it to mine and she asked me about it, but I just for some reason could not tell her yes. I just didn't know how. Yes she knows about the boards, I did not hide that from her. We want to swing and have talked and been with two couples so far, so NO it's not just a fantasy of mine!! And YES, SHE is truly involved in the "swinging" aspect of my life right now! You know if I was going to get flamed this bad for asking a question I wouldn't have. Sorry that I did.