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I'd like to chip in my two coins in this topic. I am a single guy and i love to swing. Not because I can't get a girl, I am fat, can't get it up, or am there to steal your wife. NO, not at all. I assure you, I can get girls, I am fit to a degree, and love my hard-on. BUT WHY THIS LIFESTYLE. Because I love group sex more then plain vanilla, and I have been slapped many a times, asking a girl if we could get into a threesome. I do it, because that's where my kink lies. so while i am still searching for a lady, who could entertain this idea, I am single. Other couples may hate this, and some don't. it doesn't effect me one bit because, I am not desperate. I don't want your wife as my own, all I desire is to fulfill my desires when opportunity knocks. (period).

It is tiresome and incredibly incorrect to try to apply the term of racism to this very personal issue. I know I speak for tons of people who, although not biased in even the smallest way in their daily lives, have absolutely no interest in extending that understanding yo having actual sexual relations (the most intimate of acts) with someone from another race. We also realize that many people just do not like the feel of different hair, etc., even with the lights off. It just makes better sense from a variety of perspectives not to intermix races at all. One must wonder whether there are swinger or dating sites like this that are, intentionally or not, black-oriented with understood, genuine preferences to not see whites intermingle. (And yes, we use the terms "black" and "white" rather than today's supposedly more correct, yet clumsy and often-inaccurate, "African American" and "Caucasion" monikers. (Has no one yet ever stopped to realize that NOT EVERYONE with black skin has African ancestory? How are folks from other places like Jamaica (and even Europe) supposed to feel when society has randonly elected to assign a different nationality to them just because it was convenient to do so? If we did use terms like "Jamaican American" it would make better sense anyway, as the name would reflect their ancestors' true COUNTRY of origin and not cop out with a convenient catch-all CONTINENT term!) (duh) Too many issues. Too many agendas. And much too much complication that can interfere with the very freedom that brings us to this lifestyle... The majority of white people whom we know have absolutely NO interest in race-mixing. If nothing else, it is much simpler and much more honest to just leave well enough alone and stick with your own kind. It's really not rocket science, and it is something that historically had always been the unquestioned norm. Why have some suddenly decided over the past several years that doing the opposite is now the norm? It simply is not true.