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No one can say its NOT Bunny unless they talk with the guy. It may be, probably not. Mrs Vjk is bi as are most of the females we play with. Generally when we play with couples we'll start with the guys playing with a tit and hooking a leg so the other girl can pleasure the first. Then the girls switch. Somewhere along the way one guy will switch with the girl on top. Then the guys switch. And the girls switch. and the ...... Doing this, if one guy isn't keeping it up, the other can do double duty. It works for us. YMMV. PS. one time we were starting to play and the girl was exceptionally 'pungent'. I just couldn't deal with it. Her hubby felt the same way but was reluctant to tell her. Luckily my famous capacity for tact saved the day and a trip to the GYN solved the problem.

Well as someone who falls into the BBW category....it would depend on how the site is geared. Before I met my current sweetie, one of my friends and her SO tried to set me up with this guy he worked with. (not a swing situation) We weren't hitting it off greatly or anything, but figured I would be ok meeting up with him again for a lunch or dinner date so we could actually chat and get to know each other a little better (the original meeting was basicaly a 'double date' with my friends and we went to a pool hall, which is ok...but felt a little too high pressure for me to give a positive response if that makes sense). Then he spoke the words that drove the nails in the casket. He was standing behind me and sort of running his hands down my sides to my hips and back up and says something like, 'I love girls like you that have some meat on their bones...' or some similar sounding tripe. Yeah, totally shut me down. Not that I'm ashamed to be someone's 'type'...but if you can't see past my size, hair color, boob size, etc...then you aren't seeing ME, you are just fixating on something about me and that is a total turn off to me. So guess who didn't get his calls returned? lol Personally, I will stick to the all inclusive type sites. Partly because I don't want to be singled out as a 'type'. Now, do I feel more comfortable being naked in the same room with a female that is of a similar build? Sure on some level. Would I want to be stood next to Pepper or Tybee or Mrs. Spoo (who are all totally smokin' hot )? Possibly not. lol But would I want to exclude myself from being potentially contacted by them by not even listing on AFF or SLS (or whatever 'all's welcome' type of site)? Nope. We've met and played with some great folks (HWP and some that weren't). Maria

It's so weird to me that people would be fine doing all the other things of sex, but kissing is too intimate? If I don't want to kiss someone, then I definitely don't want them touching any other part of me.

We, first and foremost, respect the boundaries of couples we meet. If their boundaries are not compatible with ours, then we would pass on playing with them. if at a later time they changed their boundaries, we would then reconsider playing with them. We recently played with a couple that we originally met, but didn't play with at the time because of conflicting boundaries, 5 years ago. What we would never do is agree to play with someone who's boundaries conflict with our desires with the expectation that they would change their mind when we get to the play room. first off, they probably wouldn't change their minds, and even if they did they would probably regret it and resent us for it later.