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I don't know about California, Travcouple, but Oklahoma is a "concealed carry" state. That means that if you act out your fantasy, you could be looking down the wrong end of a Colt .45, especially since they already have domestic problems. It happened here in Tulsa recently. A man and a wife were carried out of a motel room feet first, and a husband is in jail facing two capital homicide charges. Three children are orphans. Is it worth the risk? Mr. Alura

Dude -- I totally understand all of this, but the bottom line is that you don't want to deal with this drama ... and it will be drama ... and if the guy is a real asshole -- gesh. I don't even want to imagine what will go on!!

When everyone arrives we show them around, and point out: the stacks of hand towels and baby wipes, bathrooms and showers, large towels for placing underneath (in case of squirting), mixers and shared booze, where to store their personal belongings, where the private rooms are versus the group room, the "conversation room" for talking, please no loud talking in the sex rooms, as it's distracting how to operate the sex swing ask about allergies (we store our cats in the garage). one lady is deathly allergic to peanuts, so no peanuts anywhere rules: smoking is in 1 room only or outside don't have sex on the kitchen table (old, antique) don't go naked on the back deck (neighbors) condoms are required for anal, and please don't go from one woman to another if you participate in anal please wash or shower between each partner no drugs are allowed no cameras unless you ask first no means no participate at YOUR comfort level if a door is closed, don't go in Please let the host/hostess know if you need anything or if anyone gets out of line. We have a large sunroom that we have blinds on the windows for parties. If you don't have blinds, pick up some inexpensive sheer fabric (Goodwill has tons of curtain sheers), tack with thumbtacks and drap in a sexy fashion. Get some of those "candles" that are battery operated. We found them at the dollar store. Take the bulbs out of the other lights in the room. It could be your sexiest room. As for neighbors, get "happy birthday" balloons or a banner. It takes some of their curiosity level down a notch. Have fun! Mrs. D

I'm not sure if I can add anything to this or not, but I'll be happy to give you my explanation of the "both of us or neither of us" sort of statements. My honey is a quiet sort of guy and doesn't go out of his way to woo people. I tend to be very outgoing and talkative, and apparently people feel very comfortable with me. As a result I've been approached by several couples over the past 10 years that want to experience a fmf. While it's flattering for them to ask, and I'm glad that they feel that comfortable with me, I always turn them down when they say that they don't want a "couples" scenario. My take on it is that I'm not their playtoy, I am my honey's playtoy, and if my honey isn't going to be there getting off (whether it's with me, or the female half of the couple), ain't none of us getting off together. We do play seperately, one on one. We don't keep score, I don't care if his little flavor of the month comes over once or one hundred times, and he doesn't care about how often mine comes over. But if it's another couple, then we're going to do it as a couple, or not at all. To me, it is selfish of the other couple to expect me to just leave my honey at home while I go off for a night of "wild monkey love", and it would be selfish of me to even consider it. No matter what the couple could do for me sexually, it would pale beside simply knowing that my honey was there having a great time, and being made to feel like a sex god for a few hours. Maybe it's me being selfish about it, but if the couple is not willing to include my honey in our playtime, then I'm not interested in playing, I'll take my ball and go home.

Men can have sex with goats, chickens and cows and women can have sex with dogs horses, and apes. There "parts" fit fine ("round pegs and round holes and all") but I'm pretty sure there not "suppose" to do it. Or maybe they are, and we're just not "curious" enough to try it. Whatever. I sincerly and from the bottom of my heart hope that you or any member of your family are never a victim of rape. because if you are, you will soon learn the diffrence between "curiosity about other races" and having every shred of dignity stripped from your body while you are in fear of your life.