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The thought did cross my mind that "yep, there goes another persons fantasy in to the politically correct pile" We all know the issues that are involved with swinging, and as adults we choose what we want to risk and what we want to protect. If as a group no condoms are agreed up, then who are we to argue or wag fingers at them. The fantasy was hot, not my cup of tea, but neither is skydiving. I choose the safty of the condom and the ground. Many choose the thrill of no condom and plumeting to earth at break neck speeds. The safe sex talk really does need to be curbed in fantasy threads, it just kills the momentum. I will practice the level of safe sex that I am comfortable with, and the rest of you do the same. Besides how can you have a filled pussy if the guy wears a condom? Kinda makes the fantasy impossible. Have fun.

Two tourists were talking to an old chap who had lived in the area his whole life. The old chap explains to them: "You see that church over there? I built that church. Do they call me Peter the church builder? No. You see that bridge over the river? I built that bridge. Do they call me Peter the bridge builder? No. .. but you suck ONE cock ..." Thats sort of how I view swinging. Once you are a swinger, its a mind set, even if you are no longer swinging. Unless you do a 180 mentally and decided the whole thing was wrong, you no longer share a lot of the same values/feelings that a majority of society does. So even if we were to quit swinging, and someday we will, we will still THINK like swingers, and thats what I think matters.

Just wanted to say hello, Its hard to add anything to what was stated above. Why is she against swinging ? Is she against the concept toward herself living or pursuing the idea ?. Would she be willing to just let you hang around the board or other lifestyle web sites for now ? We are empty nester's ourselves and I will have to say its nice to be able to have some freedoms to ourselves. We are not unlike you guys, we like our dates by ourselves now and have a blast while we are out alone, just us. One time I told Mrs.fun about one of my fantasies while we were alone. I asked her how she FELT about (me) having a fantasy like this. I asked her how she felt instead of if she would go along. I hate to sound redundant but sometimes asking... and listening... how someone feels, is just as important as what we would do, or want.