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I have a question. While we are selective, is it really so bad that we as swingers are out for variety? I kind of thought that was the point. When we first started we were all about the "friends first" thing until we did a couple of times, and decided that was stupid. Now, we really don't even have to like you all that much. Seriously though, as I mentioned in one of our blogs, we are "experience collectors." What does that mean? We like to try things (and people) we've never done before. By some definitions, that would make us bed-hoppers. Then again, it's not like we are going to hit everything we see. Yeah, many may think "we are not bed-hoppers" is like a teenage girl who doesn't want people to think she is easy. But we are easy. Why fight reality? If we like you and you like us, you will get laid if you so choose. If you liked it and we did too, it may happen again, and again, and again. But even if you or we didn't like it, it is nonetheless a new experience we didn't have before, therefore, it was a good time for us. Then the next man, woman, couple, or group comes along, and if we like them, we will hop right in with them too. Is that really so bad? Men, how many of you are impressed that Wilt Chamberlain slept with over 1000 women in his lifetime? I know I am, and while I may never reach those kind of numbers, I'm damn sure gonna try. Why? Because when I look back at my life when I'm 80, I want to grin and say "Damn. That was fun."