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Having had an alcoholic step-father during most of my teen years, I'm not very tolerant of drunks. I know how hard it is for alcoholics (and your friend qualifies as one) to break the addiction. Therefore, I'd just look elsewhere for playmates. On the other hand, we owe it to our friends who have problems, no matter what the issue, to try to help. So let me just say, "Talk to her about your feelings before she starts drinking." You run the risk of her becoming angry, a common reaction with boozers, but such a reaction would likely convince you that there is nothing you can do to help until she decides she must help herself. If she understands that there is little you can do beyond offering her concern and understanding, you may be well on your way to a very satisfying friendship as well as a very attractive playmate. Good Luck! Mr. Alura

You may want to re-think that and give it a try next time. You never know if you’re “her type” or not. My husband is not the typical Male Model type but he has long hair and that is a major turn on for me. Example: A few months back I saw this skinny guy with long hair at a theater. After a nice conversation I dragged him out to my van for a BJ. Was he “Hot”...no Was he tall dark and handsome...no Was he rich...no Was he muscular...no Just a typical rock and roll looking guy and that worked for me. I think many times “Barbies” are mistaken for Snobs because we reject so many. For some of us we are just looking for “Our Type” and for some of us Brad Pitt is not our type. I have a super hot girl friend that only like guys with tattoos. Tall, short, dark hair, blonde it does not matter but he must have tattoos. See where I am going with this? If I am going to have a sexual experience I'd like it to feed my fetish too. I don't think that's being a snob. Maria