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Wow great insghts for the newbie - people - great job! Both my husband and I had multiple partners before we married many 3somes, many groups. When we began dating we stopped it all. We were monogamous and for quite some time. By the time we were ready to enter back into this lifestyle we had told it all, described it all, acted it all out, and retold it all many times. We knew more about one another's sex than ourselves. We made certain that it there were NO secrets. We also did everything a couple could do without others, we had sex constantly. Then one day we were discussing a group of baseball players I had performed oral on in group, for the first time my husband made the comment seriously, "I sure would like to see that." Well by that point we had developed some good friendships with other couples who were very open about there sexual lifes and we all shared stories openly. I learned a great deal from them. We discussed our conversation with 3 of the guys one night and they said if their wives were good with it they'd love to be involved. Next thing you know I'm on my knees sucking three other men. My man was too busy masturbating the entire time. He said he had so much fun. I said the same and he was thrilled for me. Over the next several months we found more couples eventually ending with eight where as typical the men were more sexually active than the women. The wives didn't want them to go outside the marriage so much (for safety), the guys wanted more sex, the women didn't, and so on... That is how we became an exclusive six couples and eventually eight. Of the eight women I was by far the most active so I became the go to gal it was several years before we even had our first couple swap. Up till now the other women had watched some, a few had female play, some couples had swapped same room and some moved to separate rooms but my husband and I had not. So when the first same room swap took place I was a bit nervous. All this time he hadn't been with another woman and those inhibitions tried to creep in. I simply made up my mind using logic that I was being stupid, after all I had been doing my mind had to be kidding. So I laughed and got over it. When the first lady sucked him I nearly creamed. It was soooo HOT! When they went 69 I quit with my partner to watch from all angles. Then the intercourse, oh WOW! It was so fun to watch him make love to this lady and see what it was like off camera all real and close up. I now became the masturbating voyeur, it was simply fascinating. So keep it real – discuss everything, be open, honest, NO secrets, no hiding, keep yourself in control of you, prepare mentally, and love that your mate will be having a blast! So pretty much keep it unselfish and you will never have a problem. I visualized him doing her all which way before we ever got with them, the real thing was then like seeing the movie LIVE and it was amazing! I love for my husband to watch me with other men, I love to watch him with other women, and it is just as much fun in separate rooms now because the story telling gets HEATED! I like to watch sometimes just to see how a person's body moves and learn from it.