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Short answer - yes.

My g/f and I are new to this (as a couple), but we have set very few limitations on ourselves. We think it will allow things to be more dynamic and overall more fun. We are both very secure in our relationship and have no concern of the other developing inappropriate feelings for our partners. If we did we would never do this. I think boundaries definitely called for, but if you feel that the rules you set are all that's keeping your mate from caring too much or doing something that would hurt you then you may be in the wrong place. That's not directed at anyone...just my opinion. We put our guidelines on our relationship and not the sex. Honesty always Open communication about feelings/concerns/emotions/fantasies No Secrets We feel if our relationship is healthy happy then that's what counts. Sorry to ramble Bryan & Sharon

Now, that there's funny, I don't care WHO you are . I can tell you that we probably wouldn't play with the other couple again. Yes, while I do think it's important that if you play with condoms that you actually have condoms on-hand if there's a possibility of playing, if anyone should feel bad about anything, it should be the other guy. What part of no full swap without a condom didn't he understand? Don't let others dictate what you do or don't do. People that don't care about your rules and try to push you past them will eventually lead to drama. Pepper

I am surprised by the amount of people who have the "kissing" rule. Kissing to me is so much a part of hot sex. Thats like saying "sex=love" or "kissing=intimacy" I disagree with both these terms. Love is in the heart, and intimacy is in the mind. Joe