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It took us two years to find our first playcouple. We had a good time (especially Mrs. Alura) and have never been sorry we did it. Unfortunately, the other wife had some jealousy issues and the resultant drama assured the friendship wouldn't continue. Not only was the sex fun, it gave us some experience that assured us we'd have no issues between the two of us if we continued. As an experienced couple it took us only a couple of weeks to find our next playcouple. A good friendship developed and we played with them for several years. Perhaps y'all are over thinking the situation by trying to find the perfect couple to begin with. You'll never know if they're perfect until y'all've had sex with them. Even if it turns out to be a less-than-perfect evening, it's not likely to be something you can't leave behind. We can't offer advice on single males. They're not our cup of tea. We prefer to take turns with our usual playcouple having MFMs... FMFs, etc. There are so many more and so much better possibilities, in my opinion. Mr. Alura

Ultimately, the decision is yours. But since you asked, here's what I/we'd do. We'd set up dates at vanilla locations to meet both the couple and the single male (not at the same time, of course). See what happens. You may find that the pics didn't do the couple justice, and the sparks just FLY. You may find that this hot SM isn't as great as his pics, or is a no-show. Either way, you won't know for sure until you meet them in person. Many will tell you the dynamics of meeting a SM are simpler, since really only two of you need to "click", and your Dh just needs to feel comfortable with the guy. While I can see the logic in that, Mr. Sweet and I tend to prefer couples. But that's just us. Good luck in your quest, and please keep us posted on what happens. =)

According to most statistics of people in the lifestyle people on avg are usually college educated and usually would be considered middle to upper class. I have also see statistics that show that people in the lifestyle have a 10% divorce rate whereas couples not in the lifestyle is now at or around 60%.