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SS numbers are required by banks, investment firm, and many others try getting a loan or credit card with out giving your number. Also an individual's Tax ID is his SS#. Tax Id's for business are Employer IDs, and wages must be reported to Social Security (who shares this information with IRS) by employers using SS#s. As all W2 reports are matched to names on file with social security. Hate for there to be bad information out there. Steven J Weil, PhD, EA Naked Accounting P.S. We would never go to a club or event that the Owner's / Producers did not make sure that everyone attending was of legal age and had a valid consent to the activities. Even better when it provides penalties for others that share information they should not. Thanks Tom & Bonnie for going to such great length to protect your members and those that attend your club.

Perhaps the host and other couples suspected that the OP's husband was being aggressive in keeping the single girl playing with him? Not saying that he was or wasn't, but they may have perceived it that way, especially since a number of experienced people in this thread have mentioned that they have seen that many times before. Personally, if I was wanting to play with someone (single or couple), but never got the 'opportunity' because another person/couple were with them I suspect I'd be annoyed at the end of the night....but it would be at myself for not taking the initiative and either asking to join in, expressing my interest to play or whatever. Old insecurities may creep back in and have the ego get hurt for the cute single girl being into someone else other than me. All of that would be my own issues. Now, if the guy actually WAS being aggressive in keeping the single girl there with him then maybe they all have a reason to be upset with him. Even still, the single girl needs to make her desires known and seek the host couple if she needs help. All of that is from my limited experience though so take it with a grain of salt

"I'm not saying that the fault lies only with the OP's hubby, just that if they were not all playing in the same room/area; the OP couple and the SF were off in another room for hours while the other 4 people were wondering why on earth playtime was taking so long...and they weren't near enough to see the storm clouds gathering...then perhaps that is why the hostess's reaction to lana came as such a bolt out of the blue. Or perhaps the other 2 couples there were also interested in bill and lana? Still too many details left unknown. ' But see, unless you've made plans with people (key word being WITH people) it's not up to you how long other people's playtimes are going to last. You don't get to tell people how long their playtimes should be, or who they should play with. It's quite possible the single girl had no interest in anyone but the guy she played with. And if she didn't want to spend that much time with him, then it was HER responsibility to put an end to it.