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I don't have any advice that hasn't already been offered, but I would just like to take the time to encourage the two of you. You obviously have had some problems, but you guys are opening up to each other and being honest. You're reaching a place where you will soon know everything about each other and there will no longer be an reason to hide. You will know each other fully and love each other for all that you are. Most marriages never get to be as honest as you guys have started to be. You guys should be proud of yourselves. Keep going to counseling. Be patient. Keep being open. Find ways to meet each other's needs that take each other into account. Don't push each other. You've got some healing still to do but it sounds like you're on a very good path. We wish you guys the best and if we can help let us know.

Ok now here what happen last night at dinner. First thing Jack called and wanted us to show up at 5:30 which we did. Jane set the table and all was find. At about 5:50 or so Sue show up. Her face was red already. See was having a very hard time looking at anyone in the face. Sue said her hellos to us and mom but kind of side step her dad. We did to usual small talk with all of us avoiding the real reason why we was there. At about 6:10 we sat down to the table to eat. Everyone was rambling on about NOTHING. So me being who I am just came right out and asked Sue, How long have you been in the lifestyle? You could hear a pin drop and all eyes was on Sue. Sue was looking lost so I took the attention off Sue and started talking about our first time going to a swingers club and our first time being with another couple. Well things started to get more relax and Jack and Jane got up walk over to Sue and gave her a big hug and Jack said” you are our only child and we love you with all our hearts you done nothing to be embarrass or ashamed”. After that you could not shut them up. We found out that all the ladies is bi. Sue been in the lifestyle now for a little over a year. All in all it’s just like everything else. Swingers are not judgmental and accept you for whom you are even if it’s family. Everything turned out great and the evening ended with us all laughing about the whole situation . As we was leaving, we walked Sue to her car and she admitted that she has a crush on my wife and would like to go out with us one day. I told Sue at this time that will be impossible because of our friendship with mom and dad. She understand and we all went home for the night.