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I wouldn't be concerned so much about my family finding out as they are all very supportive, not to mention i have far more "interesting" family members who do far more "interesting" things, lol. As a younger couple it is our friends/peers who we don't tell. The lady and I are very committed to each other, but when you tell someone in our age group that you are a swinger the first impression is that I (Bryan) am the luckiest guy in the world and that Sharon must be a whore to go along with it. Although they don't outright say those things it is just how it is generally received. I would rather tell my parents than have our circle of vanilla friends find out. We keep our sexual preferences private not because we are ashamed or feel that we are doing something wrong, but because it is nearly impossible to explain something like this to "outsiders" and we don't feel the need to explain any of our actions to anyone except each other.