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Definitely some scary stuff. 1) Running into "undesirables" from our vanilla life. That includes family, neighbours or co-workers, but particularly those that make us shudder when we see them with their clothes ON. 2) Clingers: "Gee, look at the time, we really should be going..." "GREAT! Where are we going? Your hotel room? Are you staying at the HoJo? What's your room number??" 3) A combination of 1) and 2) 4) "Oh no, we're definitely married...just...uh...not to each other." 5) "I'm kinda hard to get going, so could your husband to put on this pink tutu and heels and spank me? No? Well...could you maybe piss on me, then?" 6) Lifestyle burn-outs. 7) Scared-rabbit newbies who pretend to be experienced...until you see for yourself that they have NO idea what they're doing or why they're doing this. 8) Poor oral hygiene. 9) Unclean, unkempt bodies. That means a general lack of interest in one's self-care. When you don't care for yourself properly, it tells me that you don't respect yourself. On the topic of BO and pheromones, I've had it happen where my partner had some slight BO but it didn't turn me off because his pheromones trumped it. He wasn't "unclean" at all - the guy smelled like soap and sex (the pheromones talking) - but once he started to perspire a bit, the BO smell became more distinct. That's just the way some people's bodies are made, and the way their bacteria colonies behave. Soap helps, but it doesn't kill the problem. Pheromones are really cool. I love it when I walk through a crowded public place like a mall or on the street and walk past someone who feels as though they're magnetized. It's not just their cologne/perfume; it's that certain je ne sais quoi that just makes you want to turn around and follow them, or makes you immediately undress them in your mind. It's not a scent, per se. It's something more primal and harder to measure or describe. But in its way, it's more immediate and real than scent an individual's smell. It's like the essence of the person on a much more intimate level, which they can't disguise or cover up with cologne.

Well, I can rest with ease knowing that I didn't leave on a bad note. Said couple finally responded to me with a great email. You guys/gals gave great advice. Where would us single men be without the this site? LOL! Thanks again.