lol, numbskulls. i think you miss the point of the jibes. to imply that a man is gay because he participates in a vaginal dp belies your own phobia. you didn't come out originally and say, it's just not my thing. you slapped a gay label on it - too strong a reaction - and then backpedaled only after being called out. no matter. i think we can all agree to disagree about this one.