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STI, Ok, I'm going to put a bit of a different spin on this. I don't know your Mom, and I know that there are cultural differences in Hispanic families, even though I don't know what those differences are. But I figure that people are people. Telling lies is a troublesome thing. The reason I say that is when you tell a lie, you have to tell more lies. You should strongly consider sitting down and talking honestly, and privately, with your Mother. I have had to do this, and though it was frightening in the beginning, in the long run it turned out that it became the basis for a wonderful relationship with my mother. S

Susan here: Power ? So, she kept old cigarettes around so she had the 'power' not to smoke them ? And, she wants to keep this guy around so she has the 'power' not to fuck him ? Yep, you two are fine, yep , you betcha. By the way, what exactly did she have with this guy over the last three years that's worth keeping since she knows he is not a man of any character. By the way, it's not a moral issue on YOUR part, it is a moral issue, period.

J&J, We were on APG for a while. Yes, it is a reginal site and good for the NE US. As we were looking to move south, we decided that SLS was better represented nationwide. There is also Love Voodoo for this area. It is a good site and full featured. I liked it, but again, very regional. S

Hello STI623. From your original post I could not tell what your mother was upset about. Was it the second woman or you having sex with your GF? In either event, you need to have a somewhat frank talk with both your parents. If she is upset about you having premarital sex, then you need to tell her the truth about your relationship. You are a grown man and she may not realize it. She does not have to approve of what you do, but you need to be honest with her. Apparently your father understands and his presence may be helpful in your Mother accepting the fact that you have an adult sex life. If it is the fact that there was a second woman present then you still have to have the conversation, but I would not bring up the second woman unless she does and then I would ask her if she wants to know the truth and if so I would tell her with the expectation that there will be fireworks. Whatever the case, you should learn your parents boundaries and honor them. You should never again violate their boundaries and you should make sure they know you will not. It is not just a Mexican family thing, it is being respectful of others. Find another place to play. And as others have suggested you should find your own place as soon as it is financially possible.