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It can work. Not in the long run, but there are plenty of men in the lifestyle who are willing to be "openminded" and "experimental" (as one of the prior posters stated). As long as you don't start envisioning weekly "You do my wife and I'll do yours, then we'll do each other" parties, you should be fine. IME, though, most "experimental" husbands are just as promiscuous as the "GAY GAY GAY GAY GAY!" homosexual set. IOW, the guy who sucks you off in front of your wife on Saturday will very likely become the guy who won't be able to look you in the eye when you see him in public on Monday. I don't see this situation ending in a satisfactory manner. The idea of a stable MFM/FM~MF/{random combination of M and F}, with the MM connection intact, is so rare as to be aligned with that elusive Single, Attactive, Unattached, Undamaged Female. Good luck, you're going to need it.

I didn't want to blow smoke up his ass, so I gave him my opinion. It's the reason why I bolded the "IME" part of my sentence. I've met more than my fair share of people, and (once again, IME), bisexual men are almost always a. Hyper-closeted and ashamed of their feelings or b. Promiscuous to the point of hazard. If his main desire (as far as swinging is concerned) is to coerce his wife into accepting his bisexuality, he has a long row to hoe. 9 times out of 10, if a guy wants to get bi with you, he won't be the type of guy who (if you're so inclined) you'd want to get bi with. Regardless of looks, personality or overall attractiveness level. And his wife will feed off of his emotions and find herself becoming less interested in the lifestyle. A lose-lose situation for all involved.