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If you haven't read all 24 pages, here's the summary: Loki & Sif: This is what we're going to do, any advice? SB: Don't do it. L&S: No, no, it's going to be great, Somebody smack me if this is a red flag, please! I am so glad this forum is here to guide us! SB: Smack. Don't do it. L&S: We know what we're doing, stop trying to talk us out of it. SB: Whatever. L&S: Oh no, it's all gone wrong, how could this happen? SB:

What really pisses people off who want to speak negatively about swingers, BDSMers, gay people, or anyone who differs from their strait, vanilla-ness is, "I don't really think about what other people do much. We're so happy with our own sex life and it's really none of my business." It puts them on the defensive and points out the truth: it's insecurity that makes people disparage differences, nothing more.

Everyone is entitled to their comfort level, I do not dispute that fact. I know many women who have turned to escorting to feed their families. I believe in that little saying that states......."There but for the grace of God go I" I am not saying that anyone here on the board in particular is maligning Escorts. However, I do see it often from many in the lifestyle. A porn actor is paid to have sex on the screen for a profit. An escort is paid by a client to have sex with them. One is art, supposedly the other is immoral , again supposedly. I am not an escort , but what difference would it make to this discussion one way or the other? The truth is still truth regardless of it's source. The safety issue is relevant to swingers as well, as I have heard of individuals who play without benefit of protection against STD's. It is always smart regardless of who one plays with. In my opinion anyway. As I said it is not my intent to upset anyone. I am simply trying to understand the animosity I have seen. As I live my life by the moto...... "live and let live". Thank you for allowing me to participate. Simara