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I am the m half here and NOW I can understand how you feel. I am the one that came up with the idea of swinging (or so I think) and I know we jumped head first and were totally uninformed about what is out there and what can happen. So far we only had one full swap experience and two experiences in total and they were both bad. On our first experience we both took one for the team and now know better. Don't know about you, but I am in the swinging scene for my wife's enjoyment, otherwise I'd have an affair. If your man is disregarding your feelings then he's looking for a license to cheat... We just ordered almost $300 worth of literature on swinging and after reading "Recreational Sex" and "Together Sex" we decided to keep swinging but be extremely selective. It is a team sport and all parties involved should enjoy it.

Spokane, Going to the club might be a great option for the two of you. None of us are perfect, well, some are, but I don't expect to meet them at a club, they are in Hollywood making movies. Just be yourselves. As for your wife's job, we both have jobs that would suffer if someone learned about our play time. But if they learned about it from meeting us at a club, they would be in even deeper doodoo than we would be if they let it be known.