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I think you are both at a point, Loki and Sif, that this board is not where you need to be seeking advice, approval, criticism, or anything else. This board is an open forum for swinging, both good experiences and bad, advice, input, and sharing of events and emotions. What your marriage is going through no longer involves the concept of swinging. Please do yourself, and all of us, a favor, and focus on your family and your daughter. I recommend you stay off of these boards. Continue your marriage counseling, and come back in a few months and give us an update. Until then, there is nothing else this board can offer you. You have heard and read a lot of advice from a multitude of sources, but in your current situation, nothing here can help further. We wish you both all the luck and hope in the world.