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You said everythign that needs to be said in your initial post. Your libidos are different. You are not unique in this, in fact that is the norm. She may be very happy in her happy place. By the way it sounds, she is. You have told her what you would like. You can talk further, and I would suggest doing so in a non threatening manner. By that I mean explain what you want, but also make very sure that she understands two things: A) She is enough for you and she satisfies you; B) If she is happy with what you have you are satisfied with that and will not stray. Of course if you can not honestly say these things, drop it now and re-evaluate yourself. If you can honestly tell her thses things you need to do so. After that you need to leave it alone. tell her that this is what you would like to explore, and why, but that you will not bring the subject uo again. The ball is now in her court. If she is willing to discuss it she will. If not, you will continue on without swinging and love her as you always have. When she comes to terms with your request she will tell you Yes, No, or let's talk about this.