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I would like to reply to on the cusp about we have handled the situation of a MFMM. AS you can see we are an older couple and have many years of trust built into our relationship. We can trust each other with our feelings and relationships with others. We have been friends with two younger single gentlemen for several years and Mrs AHS has a close working and a warm relationship with them. To spark our sexual relationship I asked her if she would like to have a deeper relationship with them and she jumped at the chance. I took both gentlemen to lunch and approached them with the idea of pleasuring Mrs. AHS. Both said they would be extremely honored to make love to such an elegant lady. Over the period of time both gentlemen and my wife have fallen in love with each other and they have treated her as a surrogate wife by dating and pleasuring her. When these feelings emerged I gave both permission to have, hold, love and pleasure her. They both have unlimited access to our home and now take her on business and pleasure trips. When I am gone on business she more than likely will live with one or both of them for that period of time. She does spend a lot of time with them but seeing Mrs. AHS pleasured as she is and seeing her sexually liberated has deepened our relationship and love for each other. With her being their surrogate wife I have to expect to share time with them and be without her at times. Watching and seeing her pleasured gives me an indescribable inner feeling. She expresses her appreciation every day for her sexual liberation and for me allowing her to love the two gentlemen without restrictions. If you can grow to trust each other with other people and allow each other unfettered access to other people all will be well. I would have it no other way because Mrs. AHS is completely a new and revitalized partner to me also.

If you think teenagers aren't swinging, you are a bit out of touch. They may not be swinging with adults (although some are) but it happens far more than you imagine. My Next 65 actually raised some pretty good and important questions, but he did it in a way that made him sound like some pedo who trolls the malls hitting on 12 yr. old girls.

First of all, the desire to reproduce and pass on our genes may be hardwired into our DNA, but none of the rest of what swingers do is. In fact, if we're going to go all scientific, it makes no sense whatsoever for a man to willingly share his wife! Second, swingers are not "the most sexually enlighten in our society. You correctly differenciate between love and sex." Some might be, but you can't generalize like that. Some men might be forcing their wives into swinging. Some women might be seeking better lovers. Some people might have fetishes that they can't satisfy any other way. None of this requires (although it doesn't preclude) deep thought or enlightenment. Third, if I had a child, male or female, I would make sure that child had proper basic information about sex and then I would get out of his/her way. If he/she wanted to ask me questions, fine. But there's no way I'd take a child to a party or "arrange for her to have sex"! That's child abuse. We all have to figure out what works for us, sexually, and we have to make mistakes because sex and love are confusing. Trying to explain the 'right' way to do it to a child will never ever work. I could have been a lot more outraged and biting, but you asked that you not be flamed. However, you need to realize that what you are suggesting is illegal for a reason, appalling (I hope) to everyone else on this board, and based on some faulty assumptions.