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This thread seems to have taken a bit of a turn...instead of answering the OP's question it's turned into a debate as to what/who is a swinger/swinging and what/who is not. An old debate...it always seems that hardcore swingers don't think soft swappers/voyeurs/exhibitionist are true swingers and soft swappers think those of us who like just fucking (with or without friendships involved) are nothing but sluts and sex addicts... Personally I don't really care, as long as Ted and I are having fun that's all that matters to me. To get back to the original question... No, we wouldn't consider playing...we would have enjoyed the conversation, answered any questions they had but, we would move on. Our play time is extremely limited and when we go out to play, we're going out to fuck others. We would not avoid them, we would stop and talk and enjoy the conversation, we just wouldn't play with them. Soft swap or just same room sex is not our thing so we wouldn't be a good match for them. There's nothing wrong with new couples taking their time to find their footing in swinging. Being up front with those they meet is always best. It's through conversation and letting others know what you're into that we're all able to find those who we're most compatible with. Teresa